ButterflyBee
Major Ratslayer
Wow that’s soo messed up. Sorry you had to go through that, needless to say you’re better off without a ‘man’ like that. I can understand why it’d be hard to trust again, especially another foreign guy, old wounds open up. It’s important to learn from what happened, be alert and look/listen for any red flags in this new relationship (I say new I don’t know how long you’ve been together?) but also remember this is a new man and hopefully he won’t hurt you. How did you meet? XI have been through this before, after a long marriage where I was never good enough... not like the girls from his country... he found a younger woman in a refugee camp no less... a leach looking for another leech.... it's just hard to trust anyone...