Animators in the hotels ladies please read !

[SouthernGirl]

it doesn't feel I pay for it. Yes its real of course I pay. But it feels it is for us. Our future together.

Please, don’t be naive. I haven’t read the entire thread yet, just a few posts and I saw that you have been warned. @Aisha1 lives there, she is married to a Tunisian and knows the culture well and told you what it is like there. She knows how rats operate because she sees it firsthand almost daily. She is Arabic and she heard and saw the way they talk on the phone so lovingly to their victims, and then how they turn their back and mock them cruelly. Pay attention to what she says, as well as what the other members said. Many of them were at one time exactly where you are now and they learned the hard way. They’re here now to warn other women because they don’t want what happened to them to happen to another woman. Pay attention to what they say and don’t think your dude is different. He is so common, ordinary, and a classic rat.

You better stop thinking things like : he’s so good to me, no man never said what he says to me etc.. and start understanding it’s all rehearsed. If you keep being naive, it’s really going to hurt.

I’m sorry to tell you but your story is similar to 100 stories I heard before. It’s all in here, read on this forum and you’ll see that the way he is and acts is all rat. there are plenty of stories like yours. It’s almost if yours was copy/paste from them.

I know it’s hard to hear but this man is a loser and he’s dishonest and it’s all an act so he can get money and get out of his country. This is not love. A man in love doesn’t ask his woman for money. A respectful Tunisian man would want your parents at the wedding and things to be done the proper way. Open your eyes and accept that you’re being fooled and act on it even though it’s very difficult. Protect yourself or he’ll suck you dry. I understand you already gave a huge amount of money. He is disgusting.
Don’t be another victim. Only you can stop that. You are young and there are many men your age who will not use you for your money and will love you for who you are. Of course, they won’t bullish.. you with flaming love declarations but they’ll respect you.

 

[Butterflies]

950€ per month not pounds. Yes I read what they wrote. But I think it must have been the landlord who cheated on me.

The landlord and the rat work together they split the difference between them here are many women at the forum who experienced it to so believe us it's a scam

 

[Tigerpants]

Ha! Really! Are you nuts!

I am beginning to think it's a rat or it's a troll as it's ridiculous

 

[Sabrina]

Ok 950euro even in Europe is a little nice, but it can pass as truth…. But Tunisia???? Are you serious? Did you come to the same Tunisia I live in because nothing fancy or luxurious about this… even a apartment with sea view in sidi bou said is not that expensive. You have good intentions, but he doesn’t! He is not honerable and you are not honerable and excepted in their eyes… you are dumb German woman that is paying. Sorry I sound so mean, but this is truth

Truth hurts

Ok 950euro even in Europe is a little nice, but it can pass as truth…. But Tunisia???? Are you serious? Did you come to the same Tunisia I live in because nothing fancy or luxurious about this… even a apartment with sea view in sidi bou said is not that expensive. You have good intentions, but he doesn’t! He is not honerable and you are not honerable and excepted in their eyes… you are dumb German woman that is paying. Sorry I sound so mean, but this is truth

Are you pulling our leg?? Is this a joke to get us all crazy in attempts at trying to help you?? You can not possibly be this naive..

I think she is

 

[Sabrina]

The landlord and the rat work together they split the difference between them here are many women at the forum who experienced it to so believe us it's a scam

Landlord/friend whatever haha

 

[Aisha1]

950€ per month not pounds. Yes I read what they wrote. But I think it must have been the landlord who cheated on me.

No, he cheated you. If he knew that amount was off he would have literally screamed and yelled at a landlord trying to make you pay that…. He lied and took the money. Ask for a receipt from your honorable man.. see what lie he comes up with.

 

[Sabrina]

I am beginning to think it's a rat or it's a troll as it's ridiculous

It’s like a train wreck I can’t stop looking

 

[Butterflies]

@Wara2 here is what 950 pounds is worth in tunisia. With that kind of money they have luxurious life style. 950 pounds is equal to 3.644 dinar

 

[Sabrina]

No, he cheated you. If he knew that amount was off he would have literally screamed and yelled at a landlord trying to make you pay that…. He lied and took the money. Ask for a receipt from your honorable man.. see what lie he comes up with.

Dog ate it

 

[SouthernGirl]

What I experienced with him and what he tells me cannot be a lie. No human being, let alone a Muslim, can be so abysmally bad.

You’re kidding, right?

 

[Butterflies]

I am beginning to think it's a rat or it's a troll as it's ridiculous

Miss Purpple glitter is back

 

[Sabrina]

@Wara2 here is what 950 pounds is worth in tunisia. With that kind of money they have luxurious life style. 950 pounds is equal to 3.644 dinar View attachment 69807

These parents can hire someone to work in their cafe and take vacation

 

[Sabrina]

Miss Purpple glitter is back

Got that right

 

[Tigerpants]

Miss Purpple glitter is back

Who was that one? All I can clearly remember as being stark raving deluded was Pussycatz

 

[Tigerpants]

Thank you for your response, Butterfflies. I wanted to go to the "gallery" maybe his picture is there to be found.
But I don't know how to get access the gallery. Can you tell me what I must do to this accessß

Did you find his pictures yet?

 

[Wara2]

Ok 950euro even in Europe is a little nice, but it can pass as truth…. But Tunisia???? Are you serious? Did you come to the same Tunisia I live in because nothing fancy or luxurious about this… even a apartment with sea view in sidi bou said is not that expensive. You have good intentions, but he doesn’t! He is not honerable and you are not honerable and excepted in their eyes… you are dumb German woman that is paying. Sorry I sound so mean, but this is truth

Aisha I listen to what you write. I think I am in good faith, but doubts hunt me.

 

[Butterflies]

Who was that one? All I can clearly remember as being stark raving deluded was Pussycatz

I read on Facebook on a tunisian site she gave him a visa and he is on his way to the UK

 

[Wara2]

Did you find his pictures yet?

no, but I stopped looking after a while. It is a bit disgusting looking all this man.

 

[Aisha1]

@Wara2 what do your parents think about this situation, have you told them you are paying for a man in Tunisia to come to your country? I know in YOUR culture it’s one way, but you are not dealing with your culture, we are talking about his! Believe me our culture is engraved in our head hard.

 

[Tigerpants]

I read on Facebook on a tunisian site she gave him a visa and he is on his way to the UK

please pm me that link ( if you would)x

 

[Aisha1]

Who was that one? All I can clearly remember as being stark raving deluded was Pussycatz

Yes, I remember her.

 

[Butterflies]

Aisha I listen to what you write. I think I am in good faith, but doubts hunt me.

Doubts and a gut feeling is the reason you are here maybe? Please take note off all the advice given to you we try to safe alot of women but sad to say there where women who married them and came back afterwards with a heart breaking story

 

[Butterflies]

please pm me that link ( if you would)x

I will search for it it was in a private group tunisian travel advice

 

[Sabrina]

You know it’s what we all experienced except a jump with joy… just saying

I didn’t say jump for joy I meant orgasm jump for joy pffff as if

 

[Aisha1]

@Wara2 you see a lot because this is what they do… you are not first or last. I have Tunisian husband, he never dare ask for money , never offered sex before marriage… you are in good faith but your guy is not. You don’t know this culture or religion

 

[Butterflies]

@Wara2 here is a link to read here at the forum please read it xxx https://www.tunisianloverats.com/threads/if-its-your-first-time-here-read-this.4344/

 

[Wara2]

Please, don’t be naive. I haven’t read the entire thread yet, just a few posts and I saw that you have been warned. @Aisha1 lives there, she is married to a Tunisian and knows the culture well and told you what it is like there. She knows how rats operate because she sees it firsthand almost daily. She is Arabic and she heard and saw the way they talk on the phone so lovingly to their victims, and then how they turn their back and mock them cruelly. Pay attention to what she says, as well as what the other members said. Many of them were at one time exactly where you are now and they learned the hard way. They’re here now to warn other women because they don’t want what happened to them to happen to another woman. Pay attention to what they say and don’t think your dude is different. He is so common, ordinary, and a classic rat.

You better stop thinking things like : he’s so good to me, no man never said what he says to me etc.. and start understanding it’s all rehearsed. If you keep being naive, it’s really going to hurt.

I’m sorry to tell you but your story is similar to 100 stories I heard before. It’s all in here, read on this forum and you’ll see that the way he is and acts is all rat. there are plenty of stories like yours. It’s almost if yours was copy/paste from them.

I know it’s hard to hear but this man is a loser and he’s dishonest and it’s all an act so he can get money and get out of his country. This is not love. A man in love doesn’t ask his woman for money. A respectful Tunisian man would want your parents at the wedding and things to be done the proper way. Open your eyes and accept that you’re being fooled and act on it even though it’s very difficult. Protect yourself or he’ll suck you dry. I understand you already gave a huge amount of money. He is disgusting.
Don’t be another victim. Only you can stop that. You are young and there are many men your age who will not use you for your money and will love you for who you are. Of course, they won’t bullish.. you with flaming love declarations but they’ll respect you.

SouthernGirl, thank you for this post. I have as well the feeling that Aisha nows what she talks about and she is out for the good.

 

[Sabrina]

SouthernGirl, thank you for this post. I have as well the feeling that Aisha nows what she talks about and she is out for the good.

Whether you can see it or not we all are! Some alittle more harsh but we know what it’s like to be scammed for love

 

[Aisha1]

SouthernGirl, thank you for this post. I have as well the feeling that Aisha nows what she talks about and she is out for the good.

As every woman on this forum is out for good, we want to save you heartbreak and make you understand you deserve a good man… he is not one. If you want Arab man for their sweet words they do exist, just not the one you found.

 

[yougogirl75]

But how could any person do that and talk about love. It makes me think - one would not ask for money for the parents in this countriy. That would be very disgraceful if the parents are not in need. When they are in need I think it is honorable to do this for his parents. And this asking for money shows a lot of trust.

Exactly, how could any human being do bad to another and say they love the foreign woman, they just do it because other rats and their families are doing it.
They don't care how you feel, its all about money.
you won't believe the contradictions and hypocrisy after it ends , its like the joke will be all on you.
It's not honorable to ask for money, they have lots of family and friends its not like you think.
If my ex-rat had friends in high places and family who is well off , why would he choose me then because its easier to rip off victims then
look for work.