Please, don’t be naive. I haven’t read the entire thread yet, just a few posts and I saw that you have been warned. @Aisha1 lives there, she is married to a Tunisian and knows the culture well and told you what it is like there. She knows how rats operate because she sees it firsthand almost daily. She is Arabic and she heard and saw the way they talk on the phone so lovingly to their victims, and then how they turn their back and mock them cruelly. Pay attention to what she says, as well as what the other members said. Many of them were at one time exactly where you are now and they learned the hard way. They’re here now to warn other women because they don’t want what happened to them to happen to another woman. Pay attention to what they say and don’t think your dude is different. He is so common, ordinary, and a classic rat.it doesn't feel I pay for it. Yes its real of course I pay. But it feels it is for us. Our future together.
You better stop thinking things like : he’s so good to me, no man never said what he says to me etc.. and start understanding it’s all rehearsed. If you keep being naive, it’s really going to hurt.
I’m sorry to tell you but your story is similar to 100 stories I heard before. It’s all in here, read on this forum and you’ll see that the way he is and acts is all rat. there are plenty of stories like yours. It’s almost if yours was copy/paste from them.
I know it’s hard to hear but this man is a loser and he’s dishonest and it’s all an act so he can get money and get out of his country. This is not love. A man in love doesn’t ask his woman for money. A respectful Tunisian man would want your parents at the wedding and things to be done the proper way. Open your eyes and accept that you’re being fooled and act on it even though it’s very difficult. Protect yourself or he’ll suck you dry. I understand you already gave a huge amount of money. He is disgusting.
Don’t be another victim. Only you can stop that. You are young and there are many men your age who will not use you for your money and will love you for who you are. Of course, they won’t bullish.. you with flaming love declarations but they’ll respect you.