Hey all

thank you for your commets.
First of all, i apologize for my english writing
I will share my story with you and all informations i know about him.
So we met in August 2017, i was on vacation in Hammamet or generally in tunisia for the first time. So i never heard about Bezness before. I just heard the typical stuff about entertainers.
It all started with the fact that he asked me if I would like to have a drink with him. First of all he wanted me to come alone, but i said no. In the eveneing me and my two friends went to a neighbour hotel were he worked in the night too. We danced and drank a little bit and yeah he said the usual compliments like every rat do. I know he is not the prettiest but i liked his behavior etc. He was charming and a little bit crazy - a funny guy. After the disco we went to the beacht, than he tries to kiss me etc. but i said no i dont want it. I cant remember good but i think he said "I love you" at this night for the first time but iam not really sure, maybe it was the second night. He told me that a friend from Germany said to him, that all Tourists are Sex-tourists. I had to laugh and found it pretty funny, because i never heard about this before. Anyway - i think we spend 4 eveneings together (without sex) during my vacation.
He always wanted me to come to his apartment but i always said no. He gave me his Facebook and phone number.
back in germany, the first message from him. "I miss you so much", "I cried", etc. etc.
So we stayed in contact, i never thought i will go back to tunsia again - but it turned out differently.
We messaged every day and made video chat in whatsapp. He gave me the feeling that he is a true man. But very quickly he talked about marriage, and it would be the only solution to be together. During the time in Germany i heared about Bezness, so the alarm bells went off. I always had doubts but on the other side i wanted to know if he is honest or not and i had to find it out. It was something new and I was curious.
In november i visited him again. I booked a hotel near his apartment but the most of the time i stayed with him in his apartment.
He was always courteous and take care of me. Buy food and juice etc. He never wanted money from me, I've offered to pay him a few times but he always said no. The only thing he wanted was a bottle of vodka.

(Iam a student and have no money, and he knows this, he always said he will wait for me and when i finish my education we can marry) I always said to him marriage is no solution for me!
We had a good time together, but in the end it was all fake and a big fat lie.
After my second vacation in tunisia we stayed in contact again, for sure...every day video chat. He wanted me to come in February again. I said i will see, if i have money for the flight.
In January he told me: "my phone broke, you will see" - I thought, how do you know that your phone will be broke

Than i heard 2 weeks nothing from him, he was not online in whats app and i did not try to contact him in other ways.
After two weeks he messaged me: habibi, how are you, i miss you, i love you so much. This is the last thing i´ve heard from him.
Yesterday a friend send me a picture of another facebook profile of him. I did not know this profile before. Is just know his facebook:
mkw riahi but i think he has deleted it or blocked me, i dont know. Anyway on this other Profile:
NO va(marwen) you can see that he is married with a woman from the unitdes states. I looked to the profile of this woman and saw many pictures of him and her, and pictures of they marraige etc. First i was shocked but on the other side not really because in my heart i knew he is a rat, you just do not want to believe it
They married at 18. Januar 2018 - now i know why he dont message me - beacuse he was with his wife

The Lady is 47 years old and like i said he is 28. I messaged her on facebook to warn her, but she dont want to listen. AMIGA?
I read that he has to wait 2-3 months and than he can go to the states and live there with her..poor lady
His family is also involved into the game. They always smiled into the camera when we do video chat. Nice friendly, the typical behavior. On the profiel of his Wife you can see the family, they are all together and smile - they are probably laughing at the lady and are glad that marwen has found a naive victim who gives him a better life..this makes me so angry

how can humans be like that?
I would like to be there when he is in front of Allah and has to explain him why he was such a bad human...anyway.
I have mixed feelings, on the one hand iam very angry and on the other hand i feel sorry for him and his wife...
So thats my story...
typical phrases from my habibi:
i love you so much
i miss you so much
iam so tierd without you
you are my future wife and iam your future husband
i dont want to live in Germany, we can live in tunisia, i just want you to be with me
we will have children
iam a true man
dont look to other men
i dont care about other women
you are the only one
i think about you all the time
i want that you feel that you can trust me
you will see iam a good man
i want true love
i dont want money or papers (visa) i just want to be with you
bla bla bla