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MH007

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There was a lot more after that , cousins etc claiming he was cheating and so on , sorry to tell you nejib also knows of this website .......
I mentioned to him before I even checked it and when I asked his intentions and he said these things say lies about people . Which now is comical
So sorry you are going through this - I think this rat is known to us and Im just waiting further information xxxx
 

MH007

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Of course , either have to see the ridiculousness laugh and move on or cry . I've been lucky to know so early on , the loss of £150 and only my youngest daughter meeting him is a blessing . I was going through a miscarriage whilst there and he knew it too so , like most stories just part of the jigsaw ...
So sorry :(
 
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Donna DMCG

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So sorry you are going through this - I think this rat is known to us and Im just waiting further information xxxx
A big red sticker on thé shop he works in in the bottom of the medina might help
Hes in such a prime position to look for victims there . I was actually in the restaurant next door and my daughter kept running up to him , and when I went outside I asked where I could but something Islamic and after taking me to find it he asked for coffee (I know rolls eyes ) .. and the rest is history now unfortunately
 

MH007

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A big red sticker on thé shop he works in in the bottom of the medina might help
Hes in such a prime position to look for victims there . I was actually in the restaurant next door and my daughter kept running up to him , and when I went outside I asked where I could but something Islamic and after taking me to find it he asked for coffee (I know rolls eyes ) .. and the rest is history now unfortunately
Yes I have heard he is good with kids :confused:
 

FoolInLove

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A big red sticker on thé shop he works in in the bottom of the medina might help
Hes in such a prime position to look for victims there . I was actually in the restaurant next door and my daughter kept running up to him , and when I went outside I asked where I could but something Islamic and after taking me to find it he asked for coffee (I know rolls eyes ) .. and the rest is history now unfortunately

 

MH007

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Of course , either have to see the ridiculousness laugh and move on or cry . I've been lucky to know so early on , the loss of £150 and only my youngest daughter meeting him is a blessing . I was going through a miscarriage whilst there and he knew it too so , like most stories just part of the jigsaw ...
OMG you poor thing :Cry:
 
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FoolInLove

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Ben Ahmed Nejib
10 January · Edited ·


BEWARE OF THIS MAN
Details: take a look at the pictures... Ben 29 years old in June 2011, is 5 foot 4 inches, has a scar in his left eyebrow, light skin, well built, lives in SOUSSE/ MONASTIR TUNISIA, and speaks good English, German, Dutch and Russian.

I’ve put this profile on here to warn all women about this man!
It’s not just because he stole £5,000 of my money, but because he made me fall in love with him and lied his way into my bed and my heart!
He stole £5,000 from me to ‘move to Germany and start a job with an airline’. He apparently needed financial proof in his bank for his visa. Just like the bastard he is... he never gave the money back and disappeared for 2 weeks. When he got back in contact his excuse was that his mother had died and that he had spent the money on her funeral and getting out of the army.

I thought i could possibly forgive as his reasons were quite legitmate, how could someone lie about their mothers death? Why would he be in contact again knowing he had every penny of my money? Well two weeks later when he asked for a further £500... i knew it was all a con...
This man made me feel amazing for a while... im not a stupid person and i don’t give my trust lightly... but he had me in love and happy...
If you are in Sousse on holiday and are anywhere near the Movenpick hotel.... stay well away from this man... i think he even believes his own lies....
 
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cloud

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Donna....you are a muslim? So PLEASE how IS it possible THAT you HAVE a daughter without a marriage? Jesus 2? I don't like this show "oh I love Islam (or any ither religions) I wear a scarf over my hair, but I don't follow the rules'.

You already had a bad relationship with a Rat- why are you falling in love AGAIN and mAke stupid mistakes LIKE Sendunf money?
You knew this Site- why you didnt check the name There?
Sorry...For me you are (this time) No victim- you LIKE to play with Fire...
 

Big Bang Theory

Senior Rat Expert
How is he going to send it - it's closed currency in Tunisia?
I'm not bothered about the money
I think the point is that he blatantly lied to you, he promised you he would pay it back when he KNEW there is no way he can (unless you visit again).

And £150 is a months salary in Tunisia, not bad for a weeks work really.....
 
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Donna DMCG

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I think the point is that he blatantly lied to you, he promised you he would pay it back when he knew there is no way he can (unless you visit again).

And £150 is a months salary in Tunisia, not bad for a weeks work really.....
At this point I don't know if he lied , I gave him the money for something and he went and paid it . And he didn't ask for it I offered. In Islam giving charity means that you will never lose wealth from the money you give . I my intention at thé time was exactly that, charity, as it helps to remove bad deeds from us on the day of judgement . Maybe he got lucky .

I am going back and won't chase him to get it. I was blatant and said don't ask me for money , I'm nobodies fool believe me , I give people a chance even if they done bad, and let them know about it . I already knew about thé money and the other woman , the method that is was given just differs. I won't let this sort of thing overshadow my time I've spent in the country or will again . Men are never worth the bother
 

FoolInLove

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At this point I don't know if he lied , I gave him the money for something and he went and paid it . And he didn't ask for it I offered. In Islam giving charity means that you will never lose wealth from the money you give . I my intention at thé time was exactly that, charity, as it helps to remove bad deeds from us on the day of judgement . Maybe he got lucky .

I am going back and won't chase him to get it. I was blatant and said don't ask me for money , I'm nobodies fool believe me , I give people a chance even if they done bad, and let them know about it . I already knew about thé money and the other woman , the method that is was given just differs. I won't let this sort of thing overshadow my time I've spent in the country or will again . Men are never worth the bother
He didn´t get lucky, he know what he is doing and saying to get money..
 
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Big Bang Theory

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At this point I don't know if he lied , I gave him the money for something and he went and paid it . And he didn't ask for it I offered. In Islam giving charity means that you will never lose wealth from the money you give . I my intention at thé time was exactly that, charity, as it helps to remove bad deeds from us on the day of judgement . Maybe he got lucky .

I am going back and won't chase him to get it. I was blatant and said don't ask me for money , I'm nobodies fool believe me , I give people a chance even if they done bad, and let them know about it . I already knew about thé money and the other woman , the method that is was given just differs. I won't let this sort of thing overshadow my time I've spent in the country or will again . Men are never worth the bother
Yeh, my rat did that too, he didn't really ask for money, just told me about all his problems:

"I can't pay my rent babe, the owner he make me leave but is ok, is not cold to sleep outside..."
"my boss he don't pay me and I am so hungry...."
"somebody steal all my money, I have nothing...."
"I have to pay a fine, I am scared, they will take me to prison...."
"My mother is sick and family don't have enough for medications....."

Blahblahblah

Sometimes he even said 'no' when I offered, but he knew I would insist - who wants to see the person they love hungry, homeless or in prison? but it was just a ploy to keep the money coming in.

It's fine if it's all true but I can guarantee whatever sob story he gave you he probably used your £150 on wine and beer to party with his friends.

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She made the profiles and she made the accusations. There is no evidence why/ how the money was given so its just word against word to me . wouldn't trust either of them with the truth
You wrote: "I already knew about thé money and the other woman , the method that is was given just differs."

Is his excuse to keep the money like Khaled Chourabi´s :

Irish wrote: "But yesterday he said I give him Shite because I ask about a Facebook I have found . So he has finished with me and is keeping the wedding money because he spent time with me and I took his body ...."
 
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Donna DMCG

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Yeh, my rat did that too, he didn't really ask for money, just told me about all his problems:

"I can't pay my rent babe, the owner he make me leave but is ok, is not cold to sleep outside..."
"my boss he don't pay me and I am so hungry...."
"somebody steal all my money, I have nothing...."
"I have to pay a fine, I am scared, they will take me to prison...."
"My mother is sick and family don't have enough for medications....."

Blahblahblah

Sometimes he even said 'no' when I offered, but he knew I would insist - who wants to see the person they love hungry, homeless or in prison? but it was just a ploy to keep the money coming in.

It's fine if it's all true but I can guarantee whatever sob story he gave you he probably used your £150 on wine and beer to party with his friends.

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I swear there was None of that , I took his phone to see what he was doing all the time and he was betting . Which is really bad to me . So I said what you need , the "landlord " was phoning , and I have the money with good intention. If anyone had a drink with my money they can choke on it
 

Big Bang Theory

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I swear there was None of that , I took his phone to see what he was doing all the time and he was betting . Which is really bad to me . So I said what you need , the "landlord " was phoning , and I have the money with good intention. If anyone had a drink with my money they can choke on it
Do you speak Tunisian ?
Could you understand what was being said on the phone ?
I recorded some of my rats conversations with his friends, which he kindly translated for me while they chatted ;). Later, I got the conversations translated (difficult to know who you can really trust so this took a while) and what my rat was telling me was absolute bullshit - in some conversations they were discussing the next sob story he could tell me - while they all smiled sweetly at me and treated me like a princess :Evil:
 
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Donna DMCG

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Do you speak Tunisian ?
Could you understand what was being said on the phone ?
I recorded some of my rats conversations with his friends, which he kindly translated for me while they chatted ;). Later, I got the conversations translated (difficult to know who you can really trust so this took a while) and what my rat was telling me was absolute bullshit - in some conversations they were discussing the next sob story he could tell me - while they all smiled sweetly at me and treated me like a princess :Evil:
This is why I said "landlord" maybe it was maybe it wasn't . I like to think it was , maybe after 10 years of learning Arabic I will know. Unfortunately mine is alif fatha A ,baa fatha Ba, and not much else lol
 
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