The woman on the foto told me he use his phone a lot to check football results, because he gamles on the football games.I swear there was None of that , I took his phone to see what he was doing all the time and he was betting . Which is really bad to me . So I said what you need , the "landlord " was phoning , and I have the money with good intention. If anyone had a drink with my money they can choke on it
@cloud ... dont go so far in your opinions... being a single mother doesnt mean that a woman is a slut. And the religion is not really matter here. I cant see Donna's words about that how she became a single mother so dont judge cause the reasons of that might surprise you. If anyone of us knew that our rats are rats - we wouldnt be here now...Donna....you are a muslim? So PLEASE how IS it possible THAT you HAVE a daughter without a marriage? Jesus 2? I don't like this show "oh I love Islam (or any ither religions) I wear a scarf over my hair, but I don't follow the rules'.
You already had a bad relationship with a Rat- why are you falling in love AGAIN and mAke stupid mistakes LIKE Sendunf money?
You knew this Site- why you didnt check the name There?
Sorry...For me you are (this time) No victim- you LIKE to play with Fire...
I would like to ask you ... you are a Muslim.. why would you want to be with a man that certainly is not? but worst than that portrays himself to be, but acts the total opposite to Islamic teachings.. why do you defend him and have excuses or justify his behaviours. there is obvious evidence that he is a rat.. there also are many women on here who are muslim that have been ratted on this makes no difference to them.. why would a muslim man take money fron you? this is haram.. what is it you are not seeing with this rat?Yeah that's true he does
Excellent post Tiger, I have posted it here because I think it would be good reading for @Donna DMCGBe carefull, This is how it all start. Calling 24/7. Viber, FB, Skyping and and. this is their game.
1. Make you adicted to them. Cal all the time. Talk for hours. Sweet talking. Asking about ur life. It feels flatering . So much interest, understanding and love.
2. Start to tell about their problem. Armey, Bad situation, Sick familymembers, lost job.....not nessesarely ask direckt for money, but it is clear that a little (or big) money can help them out of their problem
3. Come to Tunisia!! We can rent a flat. Stay together. I can find good place!! not expencive!!
4. When this is in box and u have the tickets ask for gifts. Clothes, alcohol, chockolade and and. In Tunisia no good qality!! You bring from ur country!!
5. You come. You met family. Everybody so charming and lovely!! His friends so nice!! But be sure it is you who pay for every coffie cup arround the table!! And everything else too
6. You are my love!! Age is just a number!! Lets get married!! Here we cant stay together without beeing married!!!
If you do go into this relationship THIS IS WHAT YOU GET
1. Now it will be not so inportant to cal all the time. The long sweet cals are now more about that he need financial help. If you dont send money you are a selfish person. Do not understand his needs. the long sweet conversations are now change into fights.
2. Now tunisia is not interesting unless you come with money for buisness and buy or rent a home. You must make me a visa. Here no future. Only with money. Better future in Europe. If he get problem getting visa it is your foult!!!
3. Want more and more gifts. Tablets, pc phone. What about a car?? and traviing (you pay) money money money
Like a Tunisian honest man i talk to say.... Here a man maybe have to save for ages to get married. Much more easy with Europeen, It is cheap. Do cost nothing. It is all about money and visa. Why do you think a young man married an older woman!?? He stay married to her for let say 5 years. Then he have 1. save money by work in europe for the future...2. she have give him money for a start and buisness in tunisia. Then he can marrie a Tunisian girl his own age and start a real family
I know Ben (Nejib) He is a big fat rat, he had at least 2 other women sending him money while I was with him, I've spoken to one but the other a Geman girl, I haven't been able to trace to warn her, maybe she has posted on the German forum? Im not ready to write my story here yet, I new he was on here and that there are two facebook pages and I hoped that would be enough warning for everyone, but it seems not.This was about my ex, the stories about him were proved untrue far too late
Unfortunately he'll still have internet and mobile, all this makes it easier for him to play the poor poverty stricken victim (or Charity Case as @Donna DMCG so eloquently described him) and he won't have to tolerate any visiting females .
At least she will be physically safe, though I understand your point. You are absolutely right.Unfortunately he'll still have internet and mobile, all this makes it easier for him to play the poor poverty stricken victim without having to tolerate any visiting females. He'll have all the time in the world to sit in the coffee after visiting WU to pick up his daily takings.
After how long is he trying again to contact you? :/ this is something that rats love, setting victims on reserve and going back to get whatever they can. XxYep, he's started to try to contact me again gŕrrr trying to convince me he misses me so much, he's sorry for what he's done, he's changed, please come back blahblahblah
Sorry arsehole but this credit card was well and truly cut to shreds and can never be used again
About 4 years since last contactAfter how long is he trying again to contact you? :/ this is something that rats love, setting victims on reserve and going back to get whatever they can. Xx
I truly hope you did win the lottery and could flaunt your new found wealth in his eye. Oh the thought of him seeing a big house, multiple cars and trainers galore could send him into a non recoverable seizure.About 4 years since last contact
He must be short of pickings at the moment.
Or maybe he heard a rumour that I won the lottery
Thank you Roses and thank you for your bravery posting this.First I would like to thank the vigilance of the admin team for bringing something to my attention and I'm really grateful.
Luckily I have met MH in the past and she recognized me from the information they gave so she was able to contact me and let me know.
It seems a member has messaged the admins with threatening messages to me personally, giving them my personal details, on the assumption that I am Mica, one of the admin.
As I live in Tunisia they are threatening to expose my personal identity to the bezness community and close friends, claiming that I am an admin on TLR to try to stir up trouble
I would like to set the record straight, I am *********.
Most friends here in Tunisia have probably guessed that I am Roses have thorns on TLR (if they read here) as I have mainly posted on this thread and they know that this is my ex.
So do your worst you vile pieces of Shite, tell your lies to whoever you want, any friends of value will know the truth.
I am not Mica
I am Roses have thorns
I am ********
I agree with this. None should be in the position of having to disclose their identity.As MH said, its brave to post this and sadly really sick that you have been put in the position of having to post your personal details.
I was really thrown when I got that message and much relieved when MH knew who you were so we could let you know. Hugs and hopefully there are no comebacks for you.
Yes it is truly sickening and anyone involved with these despicable people should be ashamed of themselves so if you are reading this just think how you would feel and ask yourself why you acquaint yourself with such nastiness.If these members were not rats,,,I dont understand why they needed to blackmail and threaten other members ,,Being told your on TLR while living in Tunisia is a rotten thing to do and quite dangerous ,,
They will get bored eventually and yes I don't understand it either but united we stand divided we fallI have read this thread and I assume there where members who outed this woman her real idetinty ? Members from the past who where helped with info about their rats and seek help on here. As MH said they should be ashamed it's beyond my understanding how anybody who went through the same experience can do such a thing.