Hi Bittersweet. The members here are not all bitter, and the ones who are, feel that way rightfully so. They are still objective and realistic and are able more than anyone else to give advice and to see the signs when a woman has questions about a significant other or a man who recently contacted her online. No one here believes that all Tunisian men are rats -that would be unfair- but they can recognize one from how a lady describes her man. Being bitter and angry doesn’t affect their judgments and doesn’t make them cynical. They have knowledge and experience and that makes them good judges of character. They’re here to answer questions and to give support and they have their own life. Whether a woman stays with a man when she was advised to run doesn’t affect their own life. Makes them just feel sorry for the lady and they wish she had listened.
Personally, I wouldn’t trust a man who has used women for money in the past, even if it was years and years ago. Sure, people can change but when they are dishonest and entitled , it’s from a lack of morals that was never instilled in them and life won’t change them. It’s the kind of mentality that is deeply ingrained in them.
I’d be cautious and observant. From what I read here, they are excellent actors, know what to say, and are very charming and manipulative.