Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
Good vibes and prayers.
Help – I don’t want to be another victim, but…
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Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
You almost get to a point where you don’t really give a shit.. that’s when you know it’s close to the end
They always say I'm using a friends phone that's a big red flag as they want a new phone not any phone but the latest phone then u also pay to have the phone opened up to the rat !!!
Or im using a neighbours WiFi
Or i have to sit outside coffee to video or call as u have no money for data
Red flag send me money in mg/ wu!!
Butterflies
Major Ratslayer
I'm sorry @taleo528 this happens many times with them and then they try to say it's not true when they are caught out in lying. These rats share texts in what works and what don't. He slipped up and now your trust is gone.
Videos can be safed, so is it even true he's on training?
Did you call him out on it? What is his explanation? You understood him wrong or he did not say it?
Rats talk to many women, if you caught him in a lie he probably forgot to who he said what. He will say you misunderstood him and say you are wrong.
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
Right it’s always us misunderstanding or lying not them EVER
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
You have to listen very carefully to all they say because they will slip up more than once! They lie so so so so much! But when confronted it’s our fault
minnie
Major Ratslayer
Glad u got the eyes open up now at all times makes me happy inside knowing another rat won't be successful and nierther can they make anchor babies that eventually have to carry out their fathers conciquences
Викья, можешь писать по-английски, мы не понимаем русский язык.
@Vikjja can you please write in English, we don't understand Russian language.
Yvonne xxx
I do think he’s in training. He mentioned a couple of the guys by name so I looked around… and one’s Facebook is public. He left at the end of August – we weren’t speaking at the time – and this guy he mentioned has some things on Facebook around the same time that could reference training like… prayers have been answered, getting through tough times with brothers, a military style reel, etc. Could it be a setup? Yes, but he’s been so off lately.
I haven’t said anything to him regarding lying about this weekend yet. I don’t know when I’ll hear from him next, but I will say something to him. I know he’ll find a way to turn it back on me, though. I have actual pictures from some guy’s story on IG of two guys that are in training with him. That means someone had a phone, took those pictures, posted them publicly and didn’t worry about being caught? Because phones aren’t banned!! He makes me so damn angry.
Yup and I’ve been paying attention to every detail. That’s how I found the pictures! Also, I don’t know if I mentioned this yet, but he was able to message me at two different times yesterday. The first time he sent a video clip of himself and the other guys in the room. There were at least 2 other guys using phones so I questioned him. “Nobody was using his phone.” BS – I literally just watched the video! “Some guys sneak them in but not me but if I could take it, I wouldn’t think twice.” STOP LYING. Just stop. Now he’s going to have some elaborate story about the other guys’ pictures and how I don’t trust him, I did too much, blahblah.
Butterflies
Major Ratslayer
The men he's training with are posting on IG publicly... That says it all I guess, they are not worried about it so why is he. He has another reason for not being in touch with you.
Have you asked friends to see if you could find him on social media?
Once my rat said he was going to sleep, so we said goodnight and closed phone. But I was awake and after an hour there was a like from a tunisian girl on his social media. I went to the Facebook from that girl and there where videos from her, my rat and other of his friends in a disco. I called him out on it , he lied about it, it was not him but someone who looked just like him with the same t-shirt.
They will lie to your face about anything so I'm curious what lies yours will come up with.
On a serious note now @taleo528, how do you see this evolving? You obviously don't trust him no more, are you willing to stay with him and doubt everything that he does or say in the future?
It’s so clear he has a reason to hide and that it isn’t related to the National Guard. I do wish I would have seen him in one of the pictures because that would be 100% solid proof. And no, I haven’t asked anyone to look for him yet. I don’t really have someone to reach out to because no one knows about him.
I can’t believe they have the nerve to lie about something literally right there! Solid proof, no question about it but still lie. It sounds like your rat could’ve had his name tattooed on his forehead and still would’ve lied.
No, I’m not staying with him. He messaged me on Friday and tried to tell me he never broke up with me. Oh so all the crying [by me] on our video call while he told me the reasons it wouldn’t work and he didn’t want things to be this way wasn’t a breakup? He’s absolutely spiraling right now.
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
OMG this guy is just like ours lying! I hope your feelings have hardened against him so you are not as hurt. No of course they never do anything wrong
it us
Butterflies
Major Ratslayer
Either he can't remember what he said to you ( due to talking to other women and simply forget what he said to who) or he doesn't care what you think about it. Remember @taleo528 for rats this is just a job. Bezness is a job for them.
He barely talks to you, his excuse is he isn't allowed to, you know it's bs because his other training friends have phones so why doesn't he ? If I was you I would test this. Block him. He will reach out to you.
Either you decide now he's history and you block him and after some time you will realize you dodged a life with a rat, or you wait so he can tell you more lies because he will always be secretive.
We all wanted some kind of revenge after we found out ours was a rat. But to be honest rats will never apologize, admit they are lying or scamming you.
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
I think he has his phone and just messages her at his convenience.. But see we can’t contact them because they don’t have a phone BS
Aisha1
Major Ratslayer
I really want to point something out. I’m almost certain they all had a phone, cellphone and Facebook rule the life of Tunisians. I’ve seen some not have money for basic needs but always have phone, fix phone, buy phone… live on phone
My feelings are kind of like a roller coaster at the moment… I have moments of sadness and moments of ‘the hell with him.’OMG this guy is just like ours lying! I hope your feelings have hardened against him so you are not as hurt. No of course they never do anything wrong
I think there’s some truth in every lie and some lying within every truth; he just doesn’t remember the little details and slips up. And on the other side, no, he more than likely doesn’t care until he’s the one being neglected.
I think I’m going to block every IG [of his brothers in training] and leave his IG unblocked. I forget where I mentioned this but he added some of their names in his “journal.” I found most of them and some have public accounts on IG and Facebook. If I block all of them, he won’t be able to contact me because he “can’t have his phone” and won’t communicate with me via his own IG because it’s “illegal” anyway.
*Edit – This is just something to test for the week. His accounts, the ones I know of anyway, will be blocked by the end of the week. My surgery is 3 weeks from Friday and Thursday is pre-surgery paperwork day. I don’t need the added stress.
I wouldn’t ever wish the worst for someone… and hoping he has his heart broken the way he has broken mine doesn’t matter because he doesn’t have a heart.
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Right, he does have his phone. I’m not even questioning it anymore. He’s gone as far as not accepting new followers or following new people – unless they’ve approved his request – to make it look like he hasn’t been on IG. I guarantee he posted pictures to his story but for close friends and removed me.
Thank you! This is so accurate but reading it from you was like a stamp of validity. I have an online friend from Morocco – just a friend – and he couldn’t afford medicine for himself and his Mom… but he made sure he jumped through hoops to have WiFi access.
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
Stay with “the hell with him” it’s really not worth all the hell you will go thru
Astarisborn
Major Ratslayer
Imagine if you stayed the course with the rat like some of us, they have been our absolute ruin
and they demand more and more of you as time goes on
you will not get anything back from him except more scamming.
I was asked recently by a friend why my ex-rat who is turning 50 (still lives with parents) this year had no children and no fulfilling life goals as I have had
that's a good question?
How shameful it looks for my ex-rat, she said at this point he should be having grown children
and looking after his own.
Being the oldest son and oldest sibling its a shame for him to rely on his parents, brothers and sisters
and its a burden on everyone else.
He is perfectly capable of working for himself if need be, this rat had networks in his own family
and friends!!
Well its because he still scams to this day, but nothing substantial has happened.
he deserves the hell he gave me and others as he sits in the hell of his own making!!
Still complaining, still scamming and in the same place he began!!
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Butterflies
Major Ratslayer
Wishing you well with your surgery in 3 weeks and hope it all goes smoothly @taleo528 xxx
If he finds out his friends are blocked he will try to find a way to get to you. Rats don't like to be blocked or ignored. If you are ready for it the best way is to leave him blocked and step away from this man and all the situations he created with his lies. He's not worth it
Living with stress and a broken heart is the after affect from being in contact with them. You just can't believe what happened and why these people do these things.
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
This is why the parents are so angry with you…you didn’t take him off their hands
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
And don’t think he won’t try sending messages but you don’t have to answer it will be from a fake account of course
Sabrina that was brilliant I can't stop laughing haha
Astarisborn
Major Ratslayer
He has a face only a mother could love!! NOT
Can't give this rat away for free, they really tried but this one has no luck
they are stuck with the rat for the rest of their lives OMG I feel really sorry for them
to be honest, it must be a living nightmare
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