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[FrozenHeart]

I dont know where to post this,but i try here. I know a woman who have a relationship with a Tunisian. He is from Kef. They have been together for more than a year,and she have been visiting him many times this last year.I dont know his age but he looks maybe 25 or so,and she have children at the same age. She is with him now and they stay at Kantaoui
So,should i warn her and send her a link to this site or what should i do??
Advice
He might be genuine,but he dont look like it

I No offense but, you known this woman a year and has only thought of this now? Maybe rat maybe genuine you said, why interfere?
We are job to name and shame who prove 100% rat. I mean why we judge what we don't know.

I hope you understand what I say

 

[Deleted Member 002]

I No offense but, you known this woman a year and has only thought of this now? Maybe rat maybe genuine you said, why interfere?
We are job to name and shame who prove 100% rat. I mean why we judge what we don't know.

I hope you understand what I say

Read my post one more time.
Did i say i know her for a year,??
I will stop to bother,let all live the life they want,but i hope they dont get used and abused like i was for many years!!!!!

 

[Peny]

if you read my post I made today you would know why, too bad there isn't a block button like on other social media platforms because ignore is just that
ignore that person never mind the damage they did and still others can see them on your posts
the ignore button doesn't do much so sorry to say
its like watching somebody get shot or feel suicidal and these 2 rats would laugh, that's a special kind of sick couple of rats not just little rat boys
I have a big problem with that I am sorry to say Peacock!
so strong or not it wasn't right, its not just your typical rats having fun, its the sadistic two today that got me
and I am done talking bye you all

@yougogirl75
I know what you mean , I'm fighting with Depression since long time now, i go to the therapies and i take medicine to get out of this. It's a long journey with many ups and downs.
I know how a single damn comment , reaction or whatever can push you to the limits, even though it doesn't seem that bad in other peoples eyes, it can ruin everything you've been hard working on for months or years.
I would tell you not to let that BS put you down, but i see it already did. I just want you to know that it will get better , eventually.
Just give yourself some time now, leave the forum for a while and try to get busy with other stuff that will carry you mentally away from those thoughts.
You are worth more than you know and you don't have to prove that to anyone.
It's ok not to be ok but in the end you have to let go of it.
And trust me I know too damn good how hard it is.
So take a pause and come back when you feel like it's the right time for you.
Please take care. There are people all over who care for you, try not to push them away, i know i did too many times because I'm the type of person who deals with everything on her own, till i break down.
We are here for you

 

[FrozenHeart]

Read my post one more time.
Did i say i know her for a year,??
I will stop to bother,let all live the life they want,but i hope they dont get used and abused like i was for many years!!!!!

I sorry for what you have been through. I say that must be look at reality. We been manipulate by rats does not mean we interfere with other life.
Wish you good life and you forget about everything

 

[Astarisborn]

@yougogirl75
I know what you mean , I'm fighting with Depression since long time now, i go to the therapies and i take medicine to get out of this. It's a long journey with many ups and downs.
I know how a single damn comment , reaction or whatever can push you to the limits, even though it doesn't seem that bad in other peoples eyes, it can ruin everything you've been hard working on for months or years.
I would tell you not to let that BS put you down, but i see it already did. I just want you to know that it will get better , eventually.
Just give yourself some time now, leave the forum for a while and try to get busy with other stuff that will carry you mentally away from those thoughts.
You are worth more than you know and you don't have to prove that to anyone.
It's ok not to be ok but in the end you have to let go of it.
And trust me I know too damn good how hard it is.
So take a pause and come back when you feel like it's the right time for you.
Please take care. There are people all over who care for you, try not to push them away, i know i did too many times because I'm the type of person who deals with everything on her own, till i break down.
We are here for you

thanks Peny for what you said it means a lot
but I am sorry these kind are not even human and I think its criminal
especially what happened to me from years of abuse of my ex-rat to the revictimization of these sick demented rats
my ex-rat used to do that, laugh at my pain and have others join in on destroying me on social media or humiliate me too
in person, I even had abusive messages saying Karma is a b##tch, just cruel people to just keep abusing and I don't know why
I cannot be left alone like I am always being paid out by the cruel rat and his supporters
He is a deeply insecure rat who is old and lonely
somehow he makes it my fault for everything and I am not responsible for what he did or does
only for myself
So my pain goes deep
I am taking a break, I feel sick actually from all that transpired today
I actually feel these kind are suffering themselves one day they will
have to answer to their maker just saying I would never want to be one of them
I will go now wish everyone the best

 

[Mica]

A Tunisian Love rat is someone who puts money first and u have to pay for everything
A rat will ask for gifts talk about how he can't manage on his wages hint at u
The family want gifts they know u are paying but say nothing
a rat will use his anger abuse control towards getting what he wants
A rat cheats
You pay wedding engagement visa he pays nothing that's a rat
You get no gifts but his list is like a shopping list
He Love bombs whe he wants and gets
He angers when he dosent get or u say no
RATS bring friends with him and has no shame handing u bill. They work but still won't pay nothing g towards anything
A rat demands best hotel best car best gifts
A rat will show off to his friends his car the hotel the gifts u bought
U won't be mentioned
That's the definition off a rat from what iv seem and heard from women
I know a few Tunisian friends one in France 2 in England are deeply inlove with their wife's 2 have children they work hard i and the wife's want for nothing
They never asked for nothing and paid what they could towards visit always ready with a small gift for the woman
They worked hard in Tunisia bought gold rings for the engagement and wedding had a small wedding but the Tunisian men paid they work hard now In the countries they are in
One off them stayed working hard saved his tips and put towards visa
They all treat their wife's with respect and photos are always happy. That's a true Tunisian man love respect loyalty xx

Not all of them. I've know rats who appeared to be in genuine relationships for 5 or more years, working and contributing to the living expenses etc. Then as soon as they get their foreign passport they up and leave, some even say to the wife "Thank you for helping me" as they leave
They played the long game for the visa, nothing else, gifts and money were not important to them, only the visa

 

[Mica]

I No offense but, you known this woman a year and has only thought of this now? Maybe rat maybe genuine you said, why interfere?
We are job to name and shame who prove 100% rat. I mean why we judge what we don't know.

I hope you understand what I say

I disagree Frozen heart- I think we have a responsibility to make potential victims aware.

It's not necessarily interfering in their relationship but making them aware of the dangers and that bezness is rife in Tunisia. Then at least they're in a position to understand and recognise red flags and can decide for themselves. If they know nothing about bezness how can the recognise.it in their own relationships?

I never tell a woman directly that she's being used, (unless I know her very well), I tell her my story and others that I know and then she can work it out for herself.

None of us know for certain if another's relationship is genuine or not but in all aspects of life we have a duty to warn others of possible dangers.

 

[Big Bang Theory]

I think the best way is not to even react to what they do.
I imagine them sitting there and boiling in anger cause they can't do nothing about them being revealed to the world so all they can do is try to get in between the women here and make them fight each other.
F.... Those losers!

So true, worst thing you can do is feed the trolls, they thrive on your attention, they love your anger, distress even your mockery. They just want to know theyve got your atrention and theyre effecting your emotions. Give them what they want and they'll just keep coming back for more......

They've been well fed on here the past few days

 

[Big Bang Theory]

I disagree Frozen heart- I think we have a responsibility to make potential victims aware.

It's not necessarily interfering in their relationship but making them aware of the dangers and that bezness is rife in Tunisia. Then at least they're in a position to understand and recognise red flags and can decide for themselves. If they know nothing about bezness how can the recognise.it in their own relationships?

I never tell a woman directly that she's being used, (unless I know her very well), I tell her my story and others that I know and then she can work it out for herself.

None of us know for certain if another's relationship is genuine or not but in all aspects of life we have a duty to warn others of possible dangers.

Absolutely. I was very confused, I felt like something was wrong but I couldn't work out what, my rat seemed so genuine in context to my culture and my lack of awareness about visa hunters.

Once I discovered TLR and what motivates them to seek out relationships with foreigners the red flags became glaringly obvious. But without that knowledge I would have continued to give him the benefit of doubt probably for many more years ☹


Making someone aware of this is not 'interfering' in their relationship it's giving them the tools to protect themselves.

 

[Moonshine]

Not all of them. I've know rats who appeared to be in genuine relationships for 5 or more years, working and contributing to the living expenses etc. Then as soon as they get their foreign passport they up and leave, some even say to the wife "Thank you for helping me" as they leave
They played the long game for the visa, nothing else, gifts and money were not important to them, only the visa

The rats play the game In different ways
Some only visa some money visa some just money sex
U don't really know what kind off rat you have till they show their true colours weeks months years later
Then it's too late to turn the past around so stop and think with your head not your heart before they truly break you

 

[Moonshine]

thanks Peny for what you said it means a lot
but I am sorry these kind are not even human and I think its criminal
especially what happened to me from years of abuse of my ex-rat to the revictimization of these sick demented rats
my ex-rat used to do that, laugh at my pain and have others join in on destroying me on social media or humiliate me too
in person, I even had abusive messages saying Karma is a b##tch, just cruel people to just keep abusing and I don't know why
I cannot be left alone like I am always being paid out by the cruel rat and his supporters
He is a deeply insecure rat who is old and lonely
somehow he makes it my fault for everything and I am not responsible for what he did or does
only for myself
So my pain goes deep
I am taking a break, I feel sick actually from all that transpired today
I actually feel these kind are suffering themselves one day they will
have to answer to their maker just saying I would never want to be one of them
I will go now wish everyone the best

We will all miss you so much and I'm truly sad to see u go xxxxx

 

[FrozenHeart]

I disagree Frozen heart- I think we have a responsibility to make potential victims aware.

It's not necessarily interfering in their relationship but making them aware of the dangers and that bezness is rife in Tunisia. Then at least they're in a position to understand and recognise red flags and can decide for themselves. If they know nothing about bezness how can the recognise.it in their own relationships?

I never tell a woman directly that she's being used, (unless I know her very well), I tell her my story and others that I know and then she can work it out for herself.

None of us know for certain if another's relationship is genuine or not but in all aspects of life we have a duty to warn others of possible dangers.

I understand and I agree. What I mean is awarness is good, but how approach to tell story is imporant too. Not all people are same. Some poeople lack appropriate manner to say about bezness, and instead of awarness they destroy.

 

[Peny]

I understand and I agree. What I mean is awarness is good, but how approach to tell story is imporant too. Not all people are same. Some poeople lack appropriate manner to say about bezness, and instead of awarness they destroy.

No one is assuming that everyone is the same but before some girls go on like "but mine is different" they get the chance to read through this forum and find out how many of other women thought exactly the same thing about their rats.
In the end it's the woman who has to decide if she wants to give the man a chance or leave it.
But at least here's the place to get informed about their tactics.

 

[Moonshine]

No one is assuming that everyone is the same but before some girls go on like "but mine is different" they get the chance to read through this forum and find out how many of other women thought exactly the same thing about their rats.
In the end it's the woman who has to decide if she wants to give the man a chance or leave it.
But at least here's the place to get informed about their tactics.

I was shocked how similar these stories are about the rat
Same conversations same words same actions same want same greed same fakery
Even dressing same
If u read the stories u will think its your tuni man and hes a rat truly on disguise
Oh I'm different habibi no your actions prove your same rat not qnd kuck his arse before he breaks u
Leaving him first is the best payback for a rat !!!!

 

[Peny]

I was shocked how similar these stories are about the rat
Same conversations same words same actions same want same greed same fakery
Even dressing same
If u read the stories u will think its your tuni man and hes a rat truly on disguise
Oh I'm different habibi no your actions prove your same rat not qnd kuck his arse before he breaks u
Leaving him first is the best payback for a rat !!!!

Yeah they never really leave do they?
They are like this Hemorrhoids on your arse that disappears for a while and then BOOOM back at ya! Right when you forgot that it exists.

 

[Peny]

I think it fits too good y'all

 

[Sabrina]

They start at 18

Only few are good and is is worth spending years finding out and spending all your hard earned money on visits gifts paying for truly everything
They even drmand u pay their data cigs beers they refuse to spend one dina on you
And with what I see in Tunisian love rats more woman are coming in New so the rats are still in full force still fleecing still putting love in money terms the more the women give the more the rats say You love them
Rats are 100% greedy some wait till visa then true colours are shown !
Only few Tunisian men are genuine and looking for love not money visa

So if the few are good we should know quickly as they pay for things and do not ask the female but in our case this was not the truth…we should’ve ran the other way immediately

 

[Mica]

So if the few are good we should know quickly as they pay for things and do not ask the female but in our case this was not the truth…we should’ve ran the other way immediately

My rat paid for things initially. Then slowly slowly things changed

 

[Moonshine]

My rat paid for things initially. Then slowly slowly things changed

This how they have started to work working on you to trust them and they think we are stupid oh we will pay for few months a year or 2 they won't think I'm rat when I finally do ask for money they will think I'm genuine tuni man that just needs a little help then before u know they want apartment house car scooter even a fuckung business the knobheads !!!
You will never hear the last off the scrounging dirty begger rats
They have no shame in demanding screaming threatening you for your money
Resign from your job as the rats banker and cut up his supply off Dinas gifts visits
Your not the rats banker or carer !!!!!

 

[Moonshine]

So if the few are good we should know quickly as they pay for things and do not ask the female but in our case this was not the truth…we should’ve ran the other way immediately

Yes and kicked I'm their wonky teeth before we ran llll

 

[Sabrina]

My rat paid for things initially. Then slowly slowly things changed

You had a sneaky one, he knew what he was doing..so there ya go ladies they work in different ways! Just BEWARE

 

[Distressed1]

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I think it fits too good y'all

Yes………..This reminds me of when I told my Rat to ‘Fuck off to Italy’……....He didn’t understand well, as his English was poor and thought that I was telling Italy to ‘fuck off’………..What an idiot !!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Yvonne]

Yes………..This reminds me of when I told my Rat to ‘Fuck off to Italy’……....He didn’t understand well, as his English was poor and thought that I was telling Italy to ‘fuck off’………..What an idiot !!!!!!!!!!!

Welcome here @Distressed1 it seems you had an experience with a rat , and not a clever one either.
Have you searched the forum to see if he's mentioned here in the past, or looked through the media?

Yvonne xxx

 

[Distressed1]

Welcome here @Distressed1 it seems you had an experience with a rat , and not a clever one either.
Have you searched the forum to see if he's mentioned here in the past, or looked through the media?

Yvonne xxx

Yes, I’ve looked, but don’t see him…………I’ll tell my story shortly, Yvonne………….