Hotel Seabel Alhambra - Billy

[LisaM]

Hello all,

I've been lurking on this forum for a while and with my friends permission I can now post her story. (Sorry if my English isn't that great, I'm Austrian)

In June, we went to Tunisia the first time. We stayed in the Seabel Alhambra in Port El Kantaoui, where we met Billy, an animator. He was always flirting with my friend and asking her to dance in the evenings. She enjoyed the attention and eventually got involved with him. When we returned home they kept texting everyday and he always told her how much he loved her and that he wanted to marry her,etc. We both already had some doubts then.

Anyway after some time he became weird and did not respond for days and claimed then that his phone was broken (typical bezness behaviour, I know). At first she wanted to give him money for a phone but then she didn't, thank god. He then claimed that she didn't love him and never really responded to her texts anymore.

We returned in August, but the first few days he ignored her and then claimed he had been told that she has found someone else at the hotel (she didn't of course). They eventually reconciled and the day before we left he asked her for 120TND to buy a sheep for Eid, which she gave him.

The day after we went home someone contacted her on instagram and claimed that Billy had another girlfriend from Germany. He sent her screenshots of the conversation he had with another girl about my friend, where this girl claims that Billy would never cheat on her. My friend contacted this girl and she told her that she had been in a relationshipn with him for a year and that Billy told her to block both my friend and the guy from instagram. Billy also told my friend that this girl was just a friend, he really thought my friend was stupid apparently. Anyway my friend blocked him on all social media platforms and I'm glad there wasn't more damage done by him.


That's him

 

[simple]

Hi LisaM,,thank you for telling us about him,,,He sounds like a very seasoned rat ,,Im glad your friend didnt suffer too much,although knowing your being used like this ,is heartbreaking .What is his full name and is that the hotel in Port El kantaoui ...Thanks again for warning any potential victims ..He now will come up on google search ,if anyone wants info on this hotel...

 

[LisaM]

Hi LisaM,,thank you for telling us about him,,,He sounds like a very seasoned rat ,,Im glad your friend didnt suffer too much,although knowing your being used like this ,is heartbreaking .What is his full name and is that the hotel in Port El kantaoui ...Thanks again for warning any potential victims ..He now will come up on google search ,if anyone wants info on this hotel...

Yes it's the hotel in Port El Kantaoui. According to his Facebook profile his name is Bilel Ben Nsib.

 

[tipme]

Yes it's the hotel in Port El Kantaoui. According to his Facebook profile his name is Bilel Ben Nsib.

Never heard of one called Billy most of them ask you at end of holiday coz they know you can't take money out. They always have a smile on face when the tourists r leaving to see what there giving me. And to ask for money for sheep any tunisian knows that's shame the family sa ve for the sheep that's probably to spend on new tourist then she things her man's good coz he pays for her. Are it will be saved for the tunie bride sorry for being harsh but it's the truth. We didn't know all these things when we met are rats either x

 

[simple]

Never heard of one called Billy most of them ask you at end of holiday coz they know you can't take money out. They always have a smile on face when the tourists r leaving to see what there giving me. And to ask for money for sheep any tunisian knows that's shame the family sa ve for the sheep that's probably to spend on new tourist then she things her man's good coz he pays for her. Are it will be saved for the tunie bride sorry for being harsh but it's the truth. We didn't know all these things when we met are rats either x

Im surprised he only asked for 120 dinar for a sheep ..This is the cheapest sheep ive heard of ...At the moment they average about 300 dn ,which is expensive ,,

 

[Liona]

Im surprised he only asked for 120 dinar for a sheep ..This is the cheapest sheep ive heard of ...At the moment they average about 300 dn ,which is expensive ,,

He must have shared 300 din between all his girlfriends.

 

[LisaM]

He must have shared 300 din between all his girlfriends.

He never asked the German girl about money though and also never said he wanted to marry her...I wonder how many "girlfriends" he really has

 

[Dangerous Beans]

He never asked the German girl about money though and also never said he wanted to marry her...

The German girlfriend may claim she was never asked for money, yes. Technically your friend wasn't pressed for cash, either - she just got the silent treatment, followed up by emotional blackmail. Good on her to not buy him a new phone.

 

[Amira]

Never heard of one called Billy most of them ask you at end of holiday coz they know you can't take money out. They always have a smile on face when the tourists r leaving to see what there giving me. And to ask for money for sheep any tunisian knows that's shame the family sa ve for the sheep that's probably to spend on new tourist then she things her man's good coz he pays for her. Are it will be saved for the tunie bride sorry for being harsh but it's the truth. We didn't know all these things when we met are rats either x

Think that most of these guys who work with tourists don't come from big cities. Think that most people come in from the countryside and that many of them are conservative. If they come in from conservative areas of course we are nothing for them only use and throw method.

 

[Tokyo]

This post might be old now and I hope the people involved then have nothing to do with him anymore, but after reading this I have to comment in case any future people are looking for information. I was in a serious relationship with this man 7/8 years ago, at the time I thought he was the love of my life and we would marry him. Everything was great for a long time, but he started getting controlling, I mean really controlling. To the point when I was in England, I could not go out or do anything without checking with him first. Every penny I had was spent either going to Tunisia, or buying him whatever he needed as there was always some story. Things went especially sour during one a visit there,

 

[Tigerpants]

This post might be old now and I hope the people involved then have nothing to do with him anymore, but after reading this I have to comment in case any future people are looking for information. I was in a serious relationship with this man 7/8 years ago, at the time I thought he was the love of my life and we would marry him. Everything was great for a long time, but he started getting controlling, I mean really controlling. To the point when I was in England, I could not go out or do anything without checking with him first. Every penny I had was spent either going to Tunisia, or buying him whatever he needed as there was always some story. Things went especially sour during one a visit there,

Hi Tokyo, was he in England with you?

 

[Sabrina]

This post might be old now and I hope the people involved then have nothing to do with him anymore, but after reading this I have to comment in case any future people are looking for information. I was in a serious relationship with this man 7/8 years ago, at the time I thought he was the love of my life and we would marry him. Everything was great for a long time, but he started getting controlling, I mean really controlling. To the point when I was in England, I could not go out or do anything without checking with him first. Every penny I had was spent either going to Tunisia, or buying him whatever he needed as there was always some story. Things went especially sour during one a visit there,

He sounds like a guy I know very controlling..controlled with blackmail threats this must be horrible to live thru!! I hope you are finished with him now, this is just sickening

 

[Tokyo]

I’m not sure what happened to my original post, half of it ended up being cut off and it never actually posted the main part of my story and I’ve just realised. As I went on to say, during one visit he ended up beating me so bad, I had a black eye and bruises all over. This was because I stood up for myself for the first time. After this our relationship is ended, but for years he still somehow had a hold over me, he would not leave me alone. Still to this day he will try message me on Facebook, only 2 months ago he tried contacting me, even though we broke up 7 years ago, but now I know better I will never reply to him again. It was fortunate for me that when we were together I was still in university, so at the time I couldn’t apply for a visa, so we never married. I am honestly shocked to see he is still in Tunisia doing the same thing after all this time. I really hope any girl is who meets him will read this message and please stay away. Someone people do not deserve your love.

 

[Tokyo]

Hi Tokyo, was he in England with you?

No thankfully I saw for myself what a horrible man he was before I brought him here. I am so lucky for that.

 

[Butterflies]

No thankfully I saw for myself what a horrible man he was before I brought him here. I am so lucky for that.

Hi Tokyo they are such nasty men I am so sorry you went through this with him they beat you and expect you don't walk away from them he sounds like a very controlling man and still trying to contact you? Woow they really don't give up easy isn't it. It takes a long time to get over it and hopefully you are much happier now. It must have been a horrible experience for you we are happy you are away from him now xx

 

[Sabrina]

I’m not sure what happened to my original post, half of it ended up being cut off and it never actually posted the main part of my story and I’ve just realised. As I went on to say, during one visit he ended up beating me so bad, I had a black eye and bruises all over. This was because I stood up for myself for the first time. After this our relationship is ended, but for years he still somehow had a hold over me, he would not leave me alone. Still to this day he will try message me on Facebook, only 2 months ago he tried contacting me, even though we broke up 7 years ago, but now I know better I will never reply to him again. It was fortunate for me that when we were together I was still in university, so at the time I couldn’t apply for a visa, so we never married. I am honestly shocked to see he is still in Tunisia doing the same thing after all this time. I really hope any girl is who meets him will read this message and please stay away. Someone people do not deserve your love.

I’m happy you got away from him I think many of them can become quite abusive ...thinking they own not only you but your mind also! The bruises go away pretty quickly but what some of these rats put women thru mentally can last so long if not forever!! Glad you are free and speaking about this monster