Yes I understand you want to warn other persons, but you did yourself something that will make them doing it the next time. You let a stranger into your room and let him take a shower, I bet he was disappointed that he didn't get more from you, but he learned that he asked and you let him in your room, so maybe the next European women will give him more than a shower........
You are rewarded his behavior / his asking, with him letting taking a shower in your room!
Wouldn't it be normal like Crazypink did write to fill a complaint by the hotel when he was standing OUTSIDE your door and not leting him into your room?
That is what I'm trying to say, European women do other things than they (hopefully) normally doing at home. The Tunisian men only respond to that.
So who has to change.....?
nertniet there is some points you have made that i agree with and i feel are true... no woman would marry a man after just 8 weeks ( i know i wouldnt and no body would be in my room haveing a shower ) and yes if you dangle things in front of a person they will try and grip it ... Its only human to want somthing so bad thats been offerd to you with open arms......
So if you want to talk about the marriage game, it's pretty much the same as your shower story.....
European women come here on holiday, maybe 3 or 4 times max 2 weeks each time, so they meet the Tunisian men 8 weeks in real life....well real life, no way offcourse because they are on holiday, beach, palm trees, alcohol and fun, so you can't call it real life to my opinion....than the 5th time they are getting married here and after that getting the visa for him.
That is very common how it goes.
Can you tell me how many women, how common is it in your country that women are getting married after knowing their boyfrined for 8 weeks....?!
I suppose the answer that it isn't very common....?
So who has to change.....? The European women who is getting married after maybe only knowing him 8 weeks, something she wouldn't think about to do that in her own country or the Tunsian men who asked the European women to marry him and she said yes....?
So I understand from your message that you don't want to toss about who is to blame and that you have enough said, but pleas if you really want to do something and if you really want to reach the Europan women, you have to look in the mirror, have to take responsibility aswell and from that point you have a right basis to reach European women. But by only blaming the Tunisian men, you will not reach the European women to protect themselves if that is necessarily, you will only reach that a group off women are blaming the Tunisian men and talking bad about them.......well there are already places enough worldwide at the internet for that.... ;-)