I understand. This is not about knowing everything, just the things that help you make an informed decision whether he is worth the hassle or not, whether you are wasting your time. Because you're still young and there's probably a lot of guys closer to your age that would love to know you better.
My point is this. If he's a rat, especially an older one, emotional manipulation is his bread and butter. That gives him an enormous head start to someone looking for love. There's no place for manipulation in that equation.
Again, the aim is to prod him a bit, see if discrepancies come up.
If he is underqualified in his field in Tunisia, why would a US company even bother?
Asking him directly won't get you anywhere. You'd sooner squeeze water from a stone.
They (the rats) all do
. How else would they manage to abuse the trust of so many women with careers, an active social life and accomplishments?
They often say that, and that they're not religious. @Aisha1
could tell you a bit about the chances of that being true, I'm not Tunisian.
I didn't really want to pluck your replies apart like this, either... You sound very smart and switched-on, so that's good. All I'm saying is don't ignore red flags like his desire to work with an American company. That's really worrisome because he won't get to the US working serving the food on a cruise ship, and he can't work his way up from serving food on a cruise ship. It's a fact that he would need a US spouse for that.