Don't be worrying about me, I'm just a softhearted, sensitive wazzock.....it still really upsets me when people like UKlady gatecrash our little safe space with hostility.
Note to self: Toughen up, you softhearted wally!!
It's okay to feel this way, it is understandable under the circumstances, and I can see the kind hearted person you are. She will return, and we will fix her.