I absolutely agree!!! and what i meant that a normal man will not make any hints about money for treatment.I’m sorry but I don’t really understand what your point is. It may be because your last sentence was not completed. If you read a bit in this forum, if you know how rats operate, you know that when a man friended a woman online and that after a few conversations, he mentions a sick parent and hints that the family doesn’t have the funds to pay for the treatment, chance is he is being deceitful and he is waiting for the woman to offer to send money.
I find it bizarre advising women to sympathize with the man from all their heart! Or to tell him that she’ll pray for the relative. Doing that gives the message to the rat -because it’s a typical rat trick- that she is gullible and will be easy to manipulate. I’d rather tell the ladies : Beware, Red Flag!
A man who is not a rat may mention in a conversation that he has a sick relative but he won’t talk about the difficulty his family is having to pay for the bills.
Again, I apologize if I misunderstood what you were saying but I was somehow confused when I read your last two posts.
I appologize if something sounded weird, English is not my first, and even is not a second language)))
I meant, if a man makes hints, just ingore his hints. Do not offer help and do not send money. If you don't want yourself, you are not obliged to help anybody.
I meant about praying, simpathising, if - let's imagine - he is not a rat, normal person, who are talking about bad health. But even in the case he is geniune, you are not have to send him money.