Scottish Lassie
Major Ratslayer
Good afternoon All,
I thought I would share this podcast with you as it resonates with me after finding out that my rat was having sexual relations with men without my knowledge. He opened up about it (and even flaunted it) after he had made the decision that our relationship was not going to lead to marriage (my fault of course because I was taking my time to get the ball rolling). He no longer had to wear the mask. I am sure most, if not all, of us agree that love rats are all narcissistic to the core. I am also sure that many of you though would not agree that your rats have homosexual tendencies. This podcast really opened my eyes. I am subscribed to H.G. Tudor’s website, a narcissist who gives advice to those who may be involved with one (be that in a romantic/sexual relationship, a family member, a colleague, a friend etc.). I have been subscribed to his page for around 2 years. I was trying to understand why my rat was the type of person he was and why some people turn into narcissists. After finding out my rat was having sexual liaisons with both men and women (both online as well as in person) I was keen to know if this was a one off or if it was pretty common amongst narcissists. My questions were answered when I listened to this podcast. Especially when it comes to online relationships with rats it is difficult to know what they are getting up to when the are not online chatting to us. When they give us the excuses of being too tired, not having airtime, their phone is flat/not working, being sick, working late etc. at first we believe that to be true. As time goes on we may have doubts and begin to think that they are chatting with someone else...or worse. But do we ever wonder if we are being “cheated on” with another man? When it comes to narcissists they will do whatever it takes to achieve their prime aims...and if that means having liaisons with other people of the same gender (even if they don’t class themselves as gay) then they will do it. I believe rats would be willing to have liaisons with other men if it meant being able to have sex, obtain money, secure a visa etc. The list goes on and on. Narcissists are sexually fluid and as much as we don’t want to believe it...many of these rats are too. Some of your rats may not have completely removed the mask when things ended between you. You may have known that there were other women but not that there were secretly other men. I think it is a lot worse why you are in a relationship with a rat in the “real world” as you do not know who they are necessarily sleeping with and what sexually transmitted diseases are being spread around. These rats are capable of anything and everything. There are no boundaries for them. I truly believe that. I think you will find this podcast insightful and it certainly gives a lot of food for thought. xx
I thought I would share this podcast with you as it resonates with me after finding out that my rat was having sexual relations with men without my knowledge. He opened up about it (and even flaunted it) after he had made the decision that our relationship was not going to lead to marriage (my fault of course because I was taking my time to get the ball rolling). He no longer had to wear the mask. I am sure most, if not all, of us agree that love rats are all narcissistic to the core. I am also sure that many of you though would not agree that your rats have homosexual tendencies. This podcast really opened my eyes. I am subscribed to H.G. Tudor’s website, a narcissist who gives advice to those who may be involved with one (be that in a romantic/sexual relationship, a family member, a colleague, a friend etc.). I have been subscribed to his page for around 2 years. I was trying to understand why my rat was the type of person he was and why some people turn into narcissists. After finding out my rat was having sexual liaisons with both men and women (both online as well as in person) I was keen to know if this was a one off or if it was pretty common amongst narcissists. My questions were answered when I listened to this podcast. Especially when it comes to online relationships with rats it is difficult to know what they are getting up to when the are not online chatting to us. When they give us the excuses of being too tired, not having airtime, their phone is flat/not working, being sick, working late etc. at first we believe that to be true. As time goes on we may have doubts and begin to think that they are chatting with someone else...or worse. But do we ever wonder if we are being “cheated on” with another man? When it comes to narcissists they will do whatever it takes to achieve their prime aims...and if that means having liaisons with other people of the same gender (even if they don’t class themselves as gay) then they will do it. I believe rats would be willing to have liaisons with other men if it meant being able to have sex, obtain money, secure a visa etc. The list goes on and on. Narcissists are sexually fluid and as much as we don’t want to believe it...many of these rats are too. Some of your rats may not have completely removed the mask when things ended between you. You may have known that there were other women but not that there were secretly other men. I think it is a lot worse why you are in a relationship with a rat in the “real world” as you do not know who they are necessarily sleeping with and what sexually transmitted diseases are being spread around. These rats are capable of anything and everything. There are no boundaries for them. I truly believe that. I think you will find this podcast insightful and it certainly gives a lot of food for thought. xx
