Don’t paint all Tunisian men with the same brush. My husband is Tunisian, however I’m Arab also... so the situation is something different. However many of my husband’s friends and cousins have foreign wives and they have legitimate loving relationships. Tunisia has its fair amount of rats, but also some really good men. Just never act around him in a manner that you say bad words, smoke, drink, dress provocative, speak loosely with other men in front of him. Arab men overall are jealous and watch every move their woman makes like a hawk. I suggest meet him first and then form your opinion, feel him out. Never give him something, unless you are married, help to your spouse is acceptable, but not to the point that you are the bread winner and the money is buying gifts for him. I live in Tunisia, I stay home and my husband works. If I want to go to shopping or beach during the day I do it, but I make sure house is spotless and dinner is ready at 3.... other then this he is laid back. The only thing I can see that makes me question your situation is that he is educated and possibly moving to a better country.... Tunisian women and their mothers would have already secured him 100 percent.