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Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
But that is what I cant get my head around is that they dare ask us for money as if we owe them
And we come all the way from our country pay for everything and the cheek off the rats expect multi gifts too are we that stupid !!!
Then they say we took advantage off them hahaha really!!!!
what do get from all this nothing one day we wake up and seriously think wtf are we doing here look at the rat and think i must have been on a serious break down to even consider the rat as a potential boyfriend
We were all off us delusional till we opened our eyes to the truth the tunisian rats are scum and will never change!!!!
They are no good but great at manipulating that’s all!! And playing a game that involved us and our bank account! But now we know and we are free of their demands ! All that’s left is the memories of the rats which will disappear one day and the hurt we feel toward us allowing us to let them do that to us!
 

Moonshine1

Major Ratslayer
I know the rats are like vampires taking everything even your blood if they could.
What I don't get is how the ex-rat stated in the past that I put him through all this and that I knew I was unable to sponsor him?
No I went in with the best of intentions, if anyone lost out it was me in many ways.
So this is the guilt trip he left me with, but you know the rat second guessed me, downplayed and shortchanged me
and it was the rat that changed and flip flopped not me.
The rat stated as all the rats do that our love lasted long and it was worth any amount of money.
Sorry sometimes that rat relationship was hanging by a thread, and it lasted because of me.
Otherwise it would have ended like it always did before me!
How does treating someone bad time after time, cheating, the narcisisstic games, lying, betrayal and just doing and saying
dirty nasty things does not get a rat in my good books.
Backtracking after getting caught in their deception does not help their case.
I always try hard and never quit on people, even when never given an apology I deserve but you know
its not possible for me to be a doormat when another man would take me in an instant.
There are good men out there who would love to have the chance to have a good woman who never leaves or quits on them.
Excatly they play narrsastic games abuse u before mg wu abuse u after!!!
How can u win the abuse game when they think they have the right to abuse u no they ###### dont
They play the games lose move on to next game
I know what u mean about the blood vacuuming my rat sucked the life out off me made me tired off life tired off his game playing tired off him so much
So much abuse that sunk into your body like a explosion and caused me so much sleepless nights !!!!
He could have had a beautiful life and future with me but his denomic ways demands wants greediness cheating narrsisum manipulation lieing lost him the life he craved so much
He played the game and lost me
I couldn't take it last time making arrangements behind my back then expecting me to pay no I wasn't that stupid so i went home and never went back again i told him in my last message the truth about him his family and friends he called me a liar and insisted he had repaid me everything with his body wtf these rats need serious mental health intervention !!!!
Never ever again !!!!
It seems like we both had the same type off rstscum !!! Yougogirl 75:
Let the rat die a lonely death most do anyway!!!
 

Free at last

Rat Expert
This is my first posting, not sure if Ive done it right - I am still married to a Tunisian but he is back in Tunisia now because he mentally and physically abused me bruising my arms and stomach on many occasions because I had an opinion on many things one being controlled - has this happened to anyone else?
Yes this happened to me. Slowly over our 14 year relationship he got more possessive, abusive & vile. It was when he beat me in front of his family on the day of Eid that I realised I needed to leave. Took me 6 more months of hell to find a way though.
Hes still in the house that I set up - he came to the UK with nothing! Playing the big man & lying about me. He was in an Islamic marriage after me but she saw through him and took his £10,000 & blocked him on everything
Thankfully not my problem anymore. We are divorced & I am happier than ever with my fiance from the states.
Please dont put up with it and leave! And dont look back! It gets worse nit better regardless of what they say
 

Free at last

Rat Expert
This is my first posting, not sure if Ive done it right - I am still married to a Tunisian but he is back in Tunisia now because he mentally and physically abused me bruising my arms and stomach on many occasions because I had an opinion on many things one being controlled - has this happened to anyone else?
When I left my ex some of the girls at work said they had never seen any bruises......mine were usually on my arms or where they couldn't be seen. Except when he attacked me at his parents house. But I had time to heal then before coming back to the uk
Counselling would be a good idea. I'm waiting for my cognitive behavioral therapy as I have PTSD from being with him so long. Never again would I go through all that again. My man now is 6ft 3in and built like a barn door! Lol. Ain't nobody treating me like shit while hes around & he would love to bump into my ex I've been gone almost 3 years now and I'm happier with ****** than I've ever been xx good luck xx

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Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
When I left my ex some of the girls at work said they had never seen any bruises......mine were usually on my arms or where they couldn't be seen. Except when he attacked me at his parents house. But I had time to heal then before coming back to the uk
Counselling would be a good idea. I'm waiting for my cognitive behavioral therapy as I have PTSD from being with him so long. Never again would I go through all that again. My man now is 6ft 3in and built like a barn door! Lol. Ain't nobody treating me like shit while hes around & he would love to bump into my ex I've been gone almost 3 years now and I'm happier with ****** than I've ever been xx good luck xx
Good for you and your new found love and happiness!!!!
 

Butterflies

Major Ratslayer
When I left my ex some of the girls at work said they had never seen any bruises......mine were usually on my arms or where they couldn't be seen. Except when he attacked me at his parents house. But I had time to heal then before coming back to the uk
Counselling would be a good idea. I'm waiting for my cognitive behavioral therapy as I have PTSD from being with him so long. Never again would I go through all that again. My man now is 6ft 3in and built like a barn door! Lol. Ain't nobody treating me like shit while hes around & he would love to bump into my ex I've been gone almost 3 years now and I'm happier with ****** than I've ever been xx good luck xx
Hi @Free at last so nice to hear you are still happy with your new love and life.
Leaving an abusive relationship with a vile rat is hard and difficult it will leave scars and these scars are not always shown but are hidden in your mind. Therapy will be great for you to come to terms with it.
The fact your ex got scammed is karma doing his work he deserved it isn't it?
It's always lovely to hear from older members they are doing great after a very bad experience with a rat.
Thank you for the update @Free at last wishing you a great future with ******
 
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