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I debated on if I should make this thread or not. I have been allowing this man to still have power over me. One of the reasons I did not write a thread on him was because I felt sorry for him, I felt I would do him wrong and I also felt as if he would feel I was doing this because I still had feelings for him. Well ENOUGH!! I don’t have feelings for him, and I am grateful to NOT be married to a Tunisian man. Best decision of my life was giving my new man a chance. But if I can help 1 foreign woman out and save her the heartache, then I have done the world a good deed. I digress.

I came here like many of you did, a Tunisian man had found me and I wanted to know about who this man really was. This forum came up. I read here for 3 months while doing all the research on Tunisian culture and their men. I saw Mohamed was helping the ladies here, so I decided to message him. After all, he was a Tunisian male himself, helping women here translate. He had been apart of this site for 3 years at that point, so I thought he was genuine. Fast forward, we message one another, he sent me the link to his Facebook and WhatsApp. On august 4, my life changed forever. We started messaging one another.

He told me he had never applied for a visa, he told me that the women him knew him as a honest man. He told me he loved me on august 11. At the time he was trying to get into a school in Austria. He was using an address of another Tunisian living in Austria to accomplish this. He told me the man offered him a wife there and he declined. He explained to me that he wanted to wait to apply for a visa because if they deny him the first time, it would look bad. Well, later in our relationship, I found more than 1 visa attempt (3 to be exact, and was on his 4th).


I then discovered that he was helping another victim here on the forum. He told me he only spoke with her about a few times. He sent me 4 screenshot of their conversation, she sent me over 30 screenshots. He was angry that I had spied on him at this point. But I didn’t spy on him. His answers to my questions were not making sense. So I asked someone about a post he made and found out the real truth. I was never spying. So he lied about that. I was actually defending him.

He also wrote a post here called, I AM A TUNISIAN MAN HERE TO WARN YOU. I questioned that post because everything he wrote on that post, 5 of those things applied to our relationship. He told me they Heidi, and Laura forced him to write that. It was Heidis and Laura who duped him into writing such a post and he shouldn’t have done that. He said, he followed his heart with me.

He fished me from TLR. And the first guy that I came here about, turned out to not be a rat, just a dummy. He has an amazing Tunisian fiancé now and actually apologized to me for even attempting to try and talk to me. Mohamed was the rat all along. Not the first guy. Well the first guy was probably a rat, but didn’t want to shame the family name, so he got his crap together and is with a cute Tunisian woman. They seem happy.

Below are the screenshots of how it started and I will write more as people ask question.

Ladies beware, he is a Visa Hunter. He is an engineer and doesn’t really need the money. So you will be fooled because of that. But he wants a visa. His goal is to leave Tunisia by any mean necessary. This is a dangerous kind of rat because they can fool you because they have employment. So they will never ask for money. So it can appear that he isn’t a rat. But don’t be like me and look over those little details.

I actually fell for this....and I am ashamed to be honest. That I even allowed such a person in my life.
 
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These last 3 months I have been made out to feel bad. Even after I told his sister what happened, she still asked me to apologize to him. Saying he loves me and we will get back to each other. All because he was jealous because a man who I have known as a friend for years had feelings for me. What this man was doing all along, was trying to protect me from Mohamed. He smelled scamming a mile away. I was going to bring him to Tunisia as an escort for my safety. Some of his friends were to fly there with me. Mohamed gets mad and tells me, he hopes God doesn’t forgive me because he won’t forgive me either. Once again failing to acknowledge ALL HIS LIES. This one thing, he gets mad at me about, but doesn’t about his lies.
 
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Forgive me for not coming to Tunisia? Yeah ok. Didn’t care about my safety. All he cared about was a man who I had told to stand down, leave me alone, I’m with Mohamed. And this person apologized for his feelings and asked if we could just remain friends. Mohamed wasn’t accepting that.
 

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His finally words to me. At the time it made me angry. But looking back, I am so happy that this happened. I am grateful that my prayers were answered and God exposed this man for who he was. I was praying and I distinctively asked God, “please show me the real Mohamed Naouali.” 2 weeks after that, I was flooded with all the evidence I needed. Stuff he did not tell me even though I asked him about all these things. 32FE2E57-F6D3-4408-8757-3F82C296983A.jpeg
 
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I debated on if I should make this thread or not. I have been allowing this man to still have power over me, even with me being in a new relationship. One of the reasons I did not write a thread on him was because I felt sorry for him, I felt I would do him wrong and I also felt as if he would feel I was doing this because I still had feelings for him. Well ENOUGH!! I don’t have feelings for him, I’m in a new relationship and I am grateful to NOT be married to a Tunisian man. Best decision of my life was giving my new man a chance. But if I can help 1 foreign woman out and save her the heartache, then I have done the world a good deed. I digress.

I came here like many of you did, a Tunisian man had found me and I wanted to know about who this man really was. This forum came up. I read here for 3 months while doing all the research on Tunisian culture and their men. I saw Mohamed was helping the ladies here, so I decided to message him. After all, he was a Tunisian male himself, helping women here translate. He had been apart of this site for 3 years at that point, so I thought he was genuine. Fast forward, we message one another, he sent me the link to his Facebook and WhatsApp. On august 4, my life changed forever. We started messaging one another.

He told me he had never applied for a visa, he told me that the women him knew him as a honest man. He told me he loved me on august 11. At the time he was trying to get into a school in Austria. He was using an address of another Tunisian living in Austria to accomplish this. He told me the man offered him a wife there and he declined. He explained to me that he wanted to wait to apply for a visa because if they deny him the first time, it would look bad. Well, later in our relationship, I found more than 1 visa attempt (3 to be exact, and was on his 4th).

Then Mohamed found a job with a man who is German. He owns a factory in tunisia. I was so excited for him, that he found this job. But later found that he motives were to get close to this man for a visa. I couldn’t see it then, but I see it now.

I then discovered that he was helping another victim here on the forum. He told me he only spoke with her about a few times. He sent me 4 screenshot of their conversation, she sent me over 30 screenshots. He was angry that Inhad spies on him at this point.

He also wrote a post here called, I AM A TUNISIAN MAN HERE TO WARN YOU. I questioned that post because everything he wrote on that post, 5 of those things applied to our relationship. He told me they Heidi, and Laura forced him to write that. It was Heidis and Laura who duped him into writing such a post and he shouldn’t have done that. He said, he followed his heart with me.

He fished me from TLR. And the first guy that I came here about, turned out to not be a rat, just a dummy. He has an amazing Tunisian fiancé now and actually apologized to me for even attempting to try and talk to me. Mohamed was the rat all along. Not the first guy. Well the first guy was probably a rat, but didn’t want to shame the family name, so he got his crap together and is with a cute Tunisian woman. They seem happy.

Below are the screenshots of how it started and I will write more as people ask question.

Ladies beware, he is a Visa Hunter. He is an engineer and doesn’t really need the money. So you will be fooled because of that. But he wants a visa. His goal is to leave Tunisia by any mean necessary. This is a dangerous kind of rat because they can fool you because they have employment. So they will never ask for money. So it can appear that he isn’t a rat. But don’t be like me and look over those little details.

I actually fell for this....and I am ashamed to be honest. That I even allowed such a person in my life.
It's really pathetic to see rats trying to pass themselves off as human beings. I can see that it's happened time and time again on this forum with little success.
This rat's thread was one of the very first threads I read here and I thought oh how nice of him to help out here :rolleyes:Shaking my head now.

You are definitely not alone, I came here several times while I was with the rodent, he is also an engineer so I didn't feel threatened about him wanting a visa in the beginning, but as time went on and the more I read I faced reality.

Don't beat yourself up. You got yourself out of it, you survived, that's the important thing, and now you have the perfect man.
 
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It's really pathetic to see rats trying to pass themselves off as human beings. I can see that it's happened time and time again on this forum with little success.
This rat's post was one of the very first posts I read here and I thought oh how nice of him to help out here :rolleyes:Shaking my head now.

You are definitely not alone, I came here several times while I was with the rodent, he is also an engineer so I didn't feel threatened about him wanting a visa in the beginning, but as time went on and the more I read I faced reality.

Don't beat yourself up. You got yourself out of it, you survived, that's the important thing, and now you have the perfect man.
Thank you.

Yes, he fooled me. He gave me different reasons why he came to TLR. Here are his reasons:

1. His brother had a pet hamster (rat) and it died or got sick. So he was Googling how to treat it or something. This website came up. And he decided to help the women because the rats give Tunisia a bad name.
2. A friend told him about it and he checked it out
3. He saw a guy he went to school with on here, so he decided to take a look.
4. He told Laura and the other women, his ex was fished by a rat and taken away from him. So he came to see if the rat was here.

These are all the reasons he said he came to TLR. Not one time has he apologized to me about that lie. After I brought it to his attention, he deflected. Making me out to be the bad person.
 
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Here is me asking him about a visa. He claimed he declined a visa. Then it was, I never applied for one. He twisted so many words around. Then guess who he made feel bad about it.

I was then sent evidence of him writing on an expat forum explaining his visa attempts. Once again, he tells me he used the wrong word. He didn’t mean he applied for a visa. It was all about the acceptance to the school. Not a visa he said.
 

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AB4970DB-9E86-40BC-B5DE-C23F0594BB35.jpeg Oh and Mohamed aka Hama. Your sister has no regards for me at all. She wanted me to apologize to you for something I didn’t do. I told you how I felt about you at that time and I could not control another mans feelings for me. I had him to apologize. But you couldn’t accept that.

In America we have guy friends. See that’s the thing I love about the free world. We can mingle with each other. We can even have feelings for each other and still decide to be friends instead. It’s called maturity, growth and being human.
 
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Thank you. My man woke this morning and said “you need to write this post.” You did nothing wrong. Stop thinking you did something wrong to him. You didn’t do anything but love him.

Yes, he fooled me. He gave me different reasons why he came to TLR. Here are his reasons:

1. His brother had a pet hamster (rat) and it died or got sick. So he was Googling how to treat it or something. This website came up. And he decided to help the women because the rats give Tunisia a bad name.
2. A friend told him about it and he checked it out
3. He saw a guy he went to school with on here, so he decided to take a look.
4. He told Laura and the other women, his ex was fished by a rat and taken away from him. So he came to see if the rat was here.

These are all the reasons he said he came to TLR. Not one time has he apologized to me about that lie. After I brought it to his attention, he deflected. Making me out to be the bad person.
Wow! He couldn’t stick to one story? Do they even have hamsters in Tunisia?

I am sorry for what has happened to you.
These rats are all the same. Just some a bit more crazy. I still beleive they are all networked together between families, friends, cousins and, of course, the coffee shops.
Mine was good at deflection too.

** hugs **
 
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Wow! He couldn’t stick to one story? Do they even have hamsters in Tunisia?

I am sorry for what has happened to you.
These rats are all the same. Just some a bit more crazy. I still beleive they are all networked together between families, friends, cousins and, of course, the coffee shops.
Mine was good at deflection too.

** hugs **
Thank you @Brasilgirl. I’m so over him. As a professional in the field I am in, I had to make sure all my affairs were in order before I exposed this man. Everything was worth what I have now. I am back in the gym better than ever, I am traveling around the country and I have a good life. Not a perfect life, but a good life.
 
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View attachment 57445 Oh and Mohamed aka Hama. Your sister has no regards for me at all. She wanted me to apologize to you for something I didn’t do. I told you how I felt about you at that time and I could not control another mans feelings for me. I had him to apologize. But you couldn’t accept that.

In America we have guy friends. See that’s the thing I love about the free world. We can mingle with each other. We can even have feelings for each other and still decide to be friends instead. It’s called maturity, growth and being human.
I think these rats worry about our friends because they have sex with anyone and anything and think we must too. They don’t understand self control, unless it’s part of their scam.
 
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Thank you @Brasilgirl. I’m so over him. As a professional in the field I am in, I had to make sure all my affairs were in order before I exposed this man. Let me show you how over him I am. The best decision I made was to allow Mohamed to hurt me. If he didn’t hurt me, I wouldn’t have found my Prince Charming. I needed to be hurt by him to appreciate the man I have today. This man has been my best friend for years. He put aside his feelings for me and protected me from afar. He tried to warn me. He did. But I wouldn’t listen. I sent him messages defending Mohamed. He almost gave up on me. So everything was worth what I have now. I am back in the gym better than ever, I am traveling around the country and I have a good life. Not a perfect life, but a good life.
That’s so good to know!
I am happy for you. :D
For me, it’s taking longer. I know I’ll meet the right guy one day. The rat could have kept me away from another bad situation. Who knows? It could have been fate, be it good or bad.
 
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That’s so good to know!
I am happy for you. :D
For me, it’s taking longer. I know I’ll meet the right guy one day. The rat could have kept me away from another bad situation. Who knows? It could have been fate, be it good or bad.
Thank you. You will find him. I promise. He almost kept me away from this situation cus I was truly gong to marry Mohamed and bring him to the States. If I needed to live in Tunisia, I could be a professor online with my degrees. I used to be an adjunct for a University. So living in Tunisia would been fine, because I could do the professor thing online.

But I believe every word Hama said. I thought he could do no wrong in my eyes.
 
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The man I am with now has been my friend for years. He was trying his best to warn me. He saw his scamming was before I did. It didn’t make sense. Nothing made sense. But I believe every word Hama said. I thought he could do no wrong in my eyes.
That’s the brainwashing. Others can see what’s happening, but we can’t.
I don’t know how I fell for my rat either. When I looked back, I was like “Seriously? What was I thinking?”
Hindsight is perfect.
 
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That’s the brainwashing. Others can see what’s happening, but we can’t.
I don’t know how I fell for my rat either. When I looked back, I was like “Seriously? What was I thinking?”
Hindsight is perfect.
I agree. After I messaged Heidi and Mango about a post that he claimed Laura and Heidi made him post, the flood gates were open. All the evidence came flooding in. Even after that, I still didn’t believe he could be a rat.
 

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Forgive me my presumptuousness, and I hope you will soon completely recover from this... But you seem to still be looking to manipulative and potentially harmful aquaintances for validation. The thing is, that acceptance of oneself must come from within. To see him for what he is is purely auxiliary, because you have no control, while he tries to gain control over you.

His messages in post #6 are particularly insidious.
 
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Forgive me my presumptuousness, and I hope you will soon completely recover from this... But you seem to still be looking to manipulative and potentially harmful aquaintances for validation. The thing is, that acceptance of oneself must come from within. To see him for what he is is purely auxiliary, because you have no control, while he tries to gain control over you.

His messages in post #6 are particularly insidious.
What are you talking about! Please explain.
I seem to what a what? I have fully recovered. What me warning potential victims have anything to do with my recovery?

I’m kind of lost on what you’re trying to convey here.
 
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He is a little Shite! Nobody forced him to write anything :Evil:
He was private messaging members (myself included) and asking how he could help .....one member SUGGESTED he write a thread.....at no point was this rat forced into anything....just want that here on the forum....another one of his lies! :Evil:

I can’t even remember all the crap he fed me, but I’ve shown you anyway.....that was where you started to discover his different stories....and the cousin marriage :D

Well done, Ratsnatcher....he deserved his own thread...it’s always good to have an explanation behind the gallery exposure :)
 
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He is a little Shite! Nobody forced him to write anything :Evil:
He was private messaging members (myself included) and asking how he could help .....one member SUGGESTED he write a thread.....at no point was this rat forced into anything....just want that here on the forum....another one of his lies! :Evil:

I can’t even remember all the crap he fed me, but I’ve shown you anyway.....that was where you started to discover his different stories....and the cousin marriage :D

Well done, Ratsnatcher....he deserved his own thread...it’s always good to have an explanation behind the gallery exposure :)
Thank you Mango. It took me months to muster up the nerve to write it. It’s simply not fair to other members to be exposed to rats. I don’t care who think what and if they truly believe I am not over him. I don’t understand why my testimony has anything to do with me still wanting him. I DONT WANT HIM!! I’ve worked hard to be the successful woman I am. If anybody thinks I’m about to forfeit that for a Tunisian man is beyond me. I had more to lose than he ever had.

I need people to know the manipulation and lies they force on you. And then the aftermath and guilt.

I simply took back my power. And now any other woman can decide whether she wants to proceed or not.
 
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Forgive me my presumptuousness, and I hope you will soon completely recover from this... But you seem to still be looking to manipulative and potentially harmful aquaintances for validation. The thing is, that acceptance of oneself must come from within. To see him for what he is is purely auxiliary, because you have no control, while he tries to gain control over you.

His messages in post #6 are particularly insidious.
Forgive me for being presumptuous, but do you know him? Based on what you just wrote on my thread, you’re leaving it all for interpretation. :confused:

I haven’t even started to present all the evidence I have to prove that this man is a visa hunter. So what are you saying?
 
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Thank you Mango. It took me months to muster up the nerve to write it. It’s simply not fair to other members to be exposed to rats. I don’t care who think what and if they truly believe I am not over him. I don’t understand why my testimony has anything to do with me still wanting him. I DONT WANT HIM!! I’ve worked hard to be the successful woman I am. If anybody thinks I’m about to forfeit that for a Tunisian man is beyond me. I had more to lose than he ever had.

I need people to know the manipulation and lies they force on you. And then the aftermath and guilt.

I simply took back my power. And now any other woman can decide whether she wants to proceed or not.
Hold your head high. You have happiness and freedom. You have love and support. Your rat will never have these things.
 
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Hold your head high. You have happiness and freedom. You have love and support. Your rat will never have these things.
Thank you and you do the same. I turned the pain into a blessing. I wake everyday knowing that I don’t have to wonder if he is lying about something. I almost missed out on a chance to be really happy.

People need to understand, just because we are here doesn’t mean we are unhappy with our lives, and are not over these men. I validate myself first of all, then I have an amazing man to instill
love in me, then family and friends. I don’t need to scam anyone or lie to get ahead in life. The good karma I put in the universe does that for me. I am simply here to make sure another women doesn’t get bamboozled like I did. She may not be as strong as I am.

I’m one of the blessed ones. You didn’t win Mohamed. You simply pushed me into my greatness. You help push me into real love and I am grateful that I get to experience it everyday for the rest of my life. You may not be as bad as Apple, Mango, Jisela’s rat, but you are still a rat.

Unlike some folk, I still hope you find true love with a Tunisian bride. Just leave foreign women alone. They are innocent and do not deserve to be exposed to your ways. Marry your own kind. Like I decided to marry mine.
 
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He also wrote a post here called, I AM A TUNISIAN MAN HERE TO WARN YOU. I questioned that post because everything he wrote on that post, 5 of those things applied to our relationship. He told me they Heidi, and Laura forced him to write that. It was Heidis and Laura who duped him into writing such a post and he shouldn’t have done that.
Watch it Momo! I use my halo to ratslap! engelteufel1.gif

People need to understand, just because we are here doesn’t mean we are unhappy with our lives, and are not over these men.
giphy.gif Right on RatSnatcher :)
 
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View attachment 57470 Right on RatSnatcher :)
Yes. He is probably reading thinking I’m just not over him. Like I want him back. They all think we are here cus we want them back or are unhappy. Their brain can’t comprehend that we don’t take Shite lying down. I am happy, healthy and loving life with my visa, free to go to any country I want (except 5). Why would I be jealous of any 3rd world cesspool Rat? Makes no sense that people would think we are just home crying, eating ice cream and listening to some slow jam music.

2 quotes I live by:

“The world suffers a lot. Not because of the violence of bad people, but because of the silence of good people.”

“The world will not be destroyed by those who do evil, but by those who watch them without doing anything” —-Albert Einstein

I’m on the right side of history, I think he better take a good look at which side he’s on. ;)
 

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Thank you and you do the same. I turned the pain into a blessing. I wake everyday knowing that I don’t have to wonder if he is lying about something. I almost missed out on a chance to be really happy.

People need to understand, just because we are here doesn’t mean we are unhappy with our lives, and are not over these men. I validate myself first of all, then I have an amazing man to instill
love in me, then family and friends. I don’t need to scam anyone or lie to get ahead in life. The good karma I put in the universe does that for me. I am simply here to make sure another women doesn’t get bamboozled like I did. She may not be as strong as I am.

I’m one of the blessed ones. You didn’t win Mohamed. You simply pushed me into my greatness. You help push me into real love and I am grateful that I get to experience it everyday for the rest of my life. You may not be as bad as Apple, Mango, Jisela’s rat, but you are still a rat.

Unlike some folk, I still hope you find true love with a Tunisian bride. Just leave foreign women alone. They are innocent and do not deserve to be exposed to your ways. Marry your own kind. Like I decided to marry mine.
Ratsnatcher, the only way you could have proved he was as bad as the other rats listed is if you had let him have complete authority and control over you. Thank God you did not, because you WOULD have had the same outcome on a range of torture.

Clearly, the other behavior was similar in every other way and it all came to an end before you got to that point. It’s scary some women don’t trust the information/instincts upfront and end up learning when inside. So, it’s a good thing the story ended where it ended.
 
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