You couldn’t access his account. Is it because he gave you a wrong password? Also, as Tutusandfrogs said, he’d know if you accessed his account or attempted to -on Facebook at least, not sure about other social media sites- Knowing that, he’ll make sure there is nothing suspicious on it.
Who does that? He probably has other accounts and this account is the one where he’ll leave everything clean for you. This is deceptive and manipulative.Exactly!!!
What in the heck are Olive trees and why do they watch them? Is, this a legit job?
I know mine had date trees and had to go out and water them several hours out of the day, not every day of course, I’ve not heard of olive trees though
There are lots of olive trees in tunisia and many families have them. @Hayhud with olive trees they can produce olive oil or sell the olives. Each year they have to pick the olives and as far as I know family members help then
They are trees that grow olives and there are thousands and thousands of them in Tunisia - someone has to tend and harvest them so yes it is legit.
I can tell you that from my personal experience, I would not ask him too many questions. because then he wanted to know more about you. unless of course .........but, you can talk about neutral topics, and never talk to yourself about your family. I also asked a lot of questions, and then he said that I know everything about him, but he knows nothing about me. and when I told him everything about myself it was already late, I was completely dependent on him. He lied to me all the time and I listened to his lies, I was happy. He blocked me several times, but money solved this problem and I was happy again.
knew about the date trees I didn’t know about the olive trees, cool
Myriam1, that is exactly what I kept doing judging the rat by my standards. I was never given a password ever, ironic how his so-called ex had passwords to a few of his fake Facebook profiles to play so called games, like what a load of BS. Never had his personal email addresses like her neither, although after the sham marriage I found he had google earth satellite images of where I lived. So no bar is too low for the rats and I found that rather intrusive. When I got back to Canada last time he tried to hack into my email, of course I was warned that was an attempt to get in my email from Tunisia so I keep changing passwords every few months. So it is a job in itself to keep away from the rat, but for now I feel free because I have blocked all his attempts.
How can you be sure? I’m sorry but for me, it’s sad to see that you’re so trusting toward a perfect stranger. That makes you an easy target. Everyone here will tell you that in fact, it’s more than likely that he has multiple accounts. We can’t be that naive with them.
No he just wanted you to spend all your effort’s and money on getting him over there when mine didn’t get the visa he was wanting me to do it over just whatever it takes and of course it’s always our faultOnce you let the rats in, they will step up their game and if you cannot do as they want they say and do the worst things.
What I will never forget is when was looking after my sick relatives, I received a nasty Facebook message in 2018, " karma is a bi**h"
the message said.
Of course I know who she was, and I never deserved for my mother and brother to die
Of course I broke up a few months after the sham marriage because it was unbearable.
He would say things like "Stop educating yourself, you have been studying since 2008" and "help me to be with you"
So how does the rat know all these things, I never knew him then, so he takes notes of my past.
AS if educating yourself is a bad thing.
I want to also take 3 more courses to get my credentials and I will do whatever I want.
SO NOBODY COULD TAKE THIS RAT GUARANTEED!
See they can't take rejection well, but they cause so much grief.
Not sure if I am off track on the discussion but I felt to let that out.
There is no end to the rats demands, that is what made it unbearable!
Unfortunately you are right when learning the language it is when they show their true I think I and it is important to listen to their gut feeling it does not lie even if you want to believe it. Another thing is that even though they like that they like us and our lifestyle, they are condescending to their own women who have chosen a different path than the traditional Tunisian woman. They talk nasty about Tunisian girls who for example drink alcohol have a boyfriend out of marriage but it is okay to marry women who are divorced single mothers etc as long as she is in from Europe. The whole country and culture smells.
Yeah, i was thinking exactly along those lines. An honest person won't suggest you to have his password. Honest people don't have to prove that they are good and well intentioned. Only rats do that to gain your trust. They have multiple accounts everywhere, on dating websites too, with different names. You will never find out. Plus, you are probably blocked in his other accounts.
Hi Annie-May, welcome.
He knows he is a bit late, from what he says I think he feels a bit pressured by family, he said he is the oldest and they are waiting on him to marry first
Because he's suggesting that either you don't trust him or he can't be trusted so he needs to provide you with proof or.......he's trying to protest his innocence and trust to you on how he conducts his social media ( where he met you)!!!
They are betrothed to their cousins for years and years!
From what he has mention he has barely any female cousins
A Tunisian I know has olive trees/ groves which formed part of his mothers dowry
He will have second cousins if not first cousins, I can't divulge on here but trust me, it's real and arranged when they are young-ish
I must add Annie-May
