Once you let the rats in, they will step up their game and if you cannot do as they want they say and do the worst things.
What I will never forget is when was looking after my sick relatives, I received a nasty Facebook message in 2018, " karma is a bi**h"
the message said.

Of course I know who she was, and I never deserved for my mother and brother to die



Of course I broke up a few months after the sham marriage because it was unbearable.
He would say things like "Stop educating yourself, you have been studying since 2008" and "help me to be with you"
So how does the rat know all these things, I never knew him then, so he takes notes of my past.
AS if educating yourself is a bad thing.
I want to also take 3 more courses to get my credentials and I will do whatever I want.
SO NOBODY COULD TAKE THIS RAT GUARANTEED!
See they can't take rejection well, but they cause so much grief.
Not sure if I am off track on the discussion but I felt to let that out.