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Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
I completely understand the reason you are overwhelmed by all the stories here at the forum. Here at the forum are women (Muslims and not Muslims) married to a tunisian man. Here are also women and men living there in tunisia and they see first hand how these rats act with the women who come visit them in tunisia. Here we call them rats as they are proven rats to be called that way. We are not talking about genuine honnest tunisian men. You know how the Caribbean men try to scam women for a visa but they are not Muslim as far as I know? It's a completely different culture in tunisia as a Muslim country.
These scumbags have earned the name rat!
 

Tinker-lulu

Major Ratslayer
Hi, yes he is tunisian. He is currently planting and looking after the familys olive trees. Apparently when younger he worked in a few hotels (one being a relatives, if I remember right) but he hated that work. He then had a shop but due to circumstances closed. I've tried to search about other possible accounts but have not found any (he assures me he just has one facebook account). As for visiting he has spoken about who would pay and said if I visit this year he wouldnt be able to pay but next year and any other years after he would be able to
HI @Annie-May welcome dear, you said he’s planting and looking after the family olive trees , well basically he’s trying to tell you his family owns land and he got money!! Mmmm
To me it sounds like he’s a worker on an olive plantation, most of them are, it’s a good job and plenty of fresh air.
Then is the “shop”, and it’s closed mmm.
Please be careful as I detect a few fibs here, don’t get emotionally involved with this guy , find out who he is .
As for you to visit him, well according to “his family olive trees plantation “ he will have no problem paying for you to visit him.
All the best to you and stay safe x
 

Tinker-lulu

Major Ratslayer
He sounds to me he is trying to hard to get your trust or very experienced already at what we have experienced be careful, the messages he’s showing you in arabic could be anything or anyone
@Sabrina omg you’re spot on!!
They get your trust then your mind and obviously your love
After that you’re all f**ked up because when they get what they want from you it’s bye bye.
Specially when it comes to the routine for video chats, phone call, loving words every single day but ALL OF A SUDDEN..... NOTHING
I hope Annie is really taking on board all our advice from experience x
 

Annie-May

Rat Expert
HI @Annie-May welcome dear, you said he’s planting and looking after the family olive trees , well basically he’s trying to tell you his family owns land and he got money!! Mmmm
To me it sounds like he’s a worker on an olive plantation, most of them are, it’s a good job and plenty of fresh air.
Then is the “shop”, and it’s closed mmm.
Please be careful as I detect a few fibs here, don’t get emotionally involved with this guy , find out who he is .
As for you to visit him, well according to “his family olive trees plantation “ he will have no problem paying for you to visit him.
All the best to you and stay safe x
Hi, just to clarify yes His mother has land with olive trees. I know alot of them do have them.He tends to them for his mother. As for the shop, he does not have it anymore, that was quite a few years ago.
 

yougogirl75

Major Ratslayer
my rat never gave a password, from the first days of meeting I was blocked. as I found out later he had 3 or 4 profiles Facebook....
my rat never gave a password neither, block and unblock depending on his mood and later I found 20 profiles on Facebook that were his and an unknown huge number of fake profiles that were his on tagged.com
I guess as the rats age in their late 40's they become experts, but still no takers for my ex-rat
Don't see him escaping his life in Tunisia LOL
 

confuseddotcom

Major Ratslayer
I wanted to say something about this finding you on the internet thing because like I just don’t get it. It’s 2021 people use the internet for everything I understand like it may seem more normal for some rather than others and of course when you combine it with multiple red flags it’s like ok yea I get it dudes a rat...take for example you make a profile on an international dating site with no picture any dude that automatically try’s to connect with you without a picture is a freaking rat in my opinion I don’t know any man trying to get with a woman without knowing what she looks like seriously but I mean isn’t it possible for there to be a small shift in their culture as well? I met mines on the internet and he was there because his family member met his wife on the internet and he thought why not try but didn’t expect to find anyone. (I’ve talked to the family members wife btw I asked to be connected to her in order to feel more comfortable about things and she went through the same layers of doubt I’m going through but said she is beyond happy and of course told me to be mindful still) so like is meeting on the internet really the ultimate crime? I apologize for my continuous use of the word like lol
I get what you’re saying and it’s great to have a positive attitude, but with regards to online dating I would say that “as a rule” there’s a higher percentage of men that are up to no good.... and that includes western/euro men. It’s just a lot easier for them to lead double lives online, or to seek out vulnerable women. Many are already taken but like the convenience of being able to compartmentalise. It’s also a cultural thing in that traditional marriages are usually arranged in person rather than online. It’s just something to be a little extra cautious about.

Jerks do indeed come in many guises, but with North African jerks they seem to have a knack for playing the “long game”. They understand women very well and know what makes us tick, so by the time we’ve already sussed them out we’re chemically addicted to them and can’t let go. But, everyone has their own journey in life and all I can say is actions over words. Most are all fur coat and no knickers lol. You really have to pick him apart. Every man knows what he wants in life and the end goal. And with MENA men they will only respect a woman that their mother genuinely likes, and one that keeps to herself.
 
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confuseddotcom

Major Ratslayer
Another way these relationships break down is lack of understanding and miscommunication. In the beginning, or the honeymoon phase, the differences are a turn on. And it’s exciting to get to know someone completely different. For example, for some the sex might be a mind blowing experience (that’s up for debate and most of us will say the opposite lol) but when you take all that away there’s no common ground. If one of you have a ton of pet peeves about each other it won’t work out. The differences you once admired turn into a source of resentment.
 

SouthernGirl

Major Ratslayer
my rat never gave a password neither, block and unblock depending on his mood and later I found 20 profiles on Facebook that were his and an unknown huge number of fake profiles that were his on tagged.com
I guess as the rats age in their late 40's they become experts, but still no takers for my ex-rat
Don't see him escaping his life in Tunisia LOL
How on earth can someone manage 20 different profiles on Facebook?! It shows that Bezness is really like a full time job to rats. They dedicate their entire days working on scamming. It’s their life career. What deviant minds.
 

March

Junior Rat Expert
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моя крыса так и не дала пароль, с первых дней встречи меня заблокировали. как я узнал позже, у него было 3 или 4 профиля в Фейсбуке ....

Why were you blocked? What a bad way to start a relationship! He didn’t want you to see all the other victims with their❤️On posts.... jerk
yes he was afraid that I would see many women from other countries, he was afraid that I would write to them
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
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yes he was afraid that I would see many women from other countries, he was afraid that I would write to them
What a snake! That’s how I found out about a woman mine was talking to, I saw he❤️Some of her posts and she back (gag) so I messaged her and asked if she was talking to him? Yep she sure was and sending him money, of course she denied sending money,she showed me a conversation he said (the usual) I love you so much:) they are all the same dirty lying rats
 

yougogirl75

Major Ratslayer
Did he send love songs/videos to her like my ex-rat did?
Making long distance calls frequently or Facebook messenger videos!
Romantic messages and posts, I think the whole nine yards
and what a fool for all it got him LOL
How about how quick the rats show their zibis?
My ex=rat would do that day one just after meeting her online
and the dirty vile rat saved it!
I saw it the first time I was there.
What snakes in the grass these rats are!
I mean just disgusting behaviour!
So glad he is out of my life!
 
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Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
Did he send love songs/videos to her like my ex-rat did?
Making long distance calls frequently or Facebook messenger videos!
Romantic messages and posts, I think the whole nine yards
and what a fool for all it got him LOL
How about how quick the rats show their zibis?
My ex=rat would do that day one just after meeting her online
and the dirty vile rat saved it!
I saw it the first time I was there.
What snakes in the grass these rats are!
I mean just disgusting behaviour!
So glad he is out of my life!
Yes they are I saw all I wanted to see and heard all I wanted to hear she was just another victim I guess
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
Did he send love songs/videos to her like my ex-rat did?
Making long distance calls frequently or Facebook messenger videos!
Romantic messages and posts, I think the whole nine yards
and what a fool for all it got him LOL
How about how quick the rats show their zibis?
My ex=rat would do that day one just after meeting her online
and the dirty vile rat saved it!
I saw it the first time I was there.
What snakes in the grass these rats are!
I mean just disgusting behaviour!
So glad he is out of my life!
Yours beats em all he was really some kind of special :Evil:
 

PaWaa

Junior Rat Expert
Nowadays tunisian men get married later, exacty about 30. Some even closer to 35. When they are ready with the house and all that.
They can be engaged for years, but engagement is still not a marrige:)
And girls also, I would say 25 y.o. average age of brides.
This man who we are talking about in this thread seems to be a common farmer, not like he is absolutely jobless.
What website did @Annie-May meet him? FB or some dating chat maybe?
 

Annie-May

Rat Expert
Nowadays tunisian men get married later, exacty about 30. Some even closer to 35. When they are ready with the house and all that.
They can be engaged for years, but engagement is still not a marrige:)
And girls also, I would say 25 y.o. average age of brides.
This man who we are talking about in this thread seems to be a common farmer, not like he is absolutely jobless.
What website did @Annie-May meet him? FB or some dating chat maybe?
He has also in the past grown wheat and peppers but financially cant afford to do that aswell as the tomatoes this year. We met through facebook. Yes I see 30-35 is a common age for them to get married, he said most of his friends are married and the last few will be married this summer. He has also stated that he wouldnt think about a relationship with anyone either more than 5 years younger or older than him but would prefer the girl to be younger than him not older
 
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