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Butterflies

Major Ratslayer
I find it hard to understand why my friend's rat asks her to send him photo of her periodically
is this because they have so many they forget who is who ha ha
Maybe but it's more that they want to check to see where you are and if it's true. They want to control you. Never ever send intimate foto's it leaves you exposed and in danger of blackmail in the future when the relationship failes
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
I find it hard to understand why my friend's rat asks her to send him photo of her periodically
is this because they have so many they forget who is who ha ha
Lol probably - my rat never called me by my name it was always my sweet, babe, bbe etc so that he could send generic texts plus no risk of calling me the wrong name.

He also had alarms set on his phone and would look shifty - it dawned on my that they were to remind him who to call because I realised it was always the same times that he would call or rather he would miss call me so that I took the cost of calling.

MH x
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
Lol probably - my rat never called me by my name it was always my sweet, babe, bbe etc so that he could send generic texts plus no risk of calling me the wrong name.

He also had alarms set on his phone and would look shifty - it dawned on my that they were to remind him who to call because I realised it was always the same times that he would call or rather he would miss call me so that I took the cost of calling.

MH x
Real jerk there:Evil:
Lol probably - my rat never called me by my name it was always my sweet, babe, bbe etc so that he could send generic texts plus no risk of calling me the wrong name.

He also had alarms set on his phone and would look shifty - it dawned on my that they were to remind him who to call because I realised it was always the same times that he would call or rather he would miss call me so that I took the cost of calling.

MH x
what a jerk
 

Lass

Major Ratslayer
If he is a rat it may be to show her off to the fellow rats. It may be a warm-up before his real game of asking for more daring pictures in the future. It may be his way of keeping his eyes on what exactly she is doing during the day. It may be to pass on her info along with the pictures if things don't work out for them. Exchanging victims between rats is a common practice.
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
If he is a rat it may be to show her off to the fellow rats. It may be a warm-up before his real game of asking for more daring pictures in the future. It may be his way of keeping his eyes on what exactly she is doing during the day. It may be to pass on her info along with the pictures if things don't work out for them. Exchanging victims between rats is a common practice.
Mine never asked to see where I was this wasn’t an issue on the other hand I would ask for proof from him as not trusting him from the beginning knowing about these “scummers” I tried to control him.. he just told me what he wanted me to believe I’m sure..but the daring ones ...taught me a big lesson very quickly NEVER SEND THOSE even in talking cause he could be videoing or take a screenshot...I have to add mine was young and not as knowledgeable , but learning fast from the best of the worst.. catch my drift
 

Tigerpants

Major Ratslayer
I find it hard to understand why my friend's rat asks her to send him photo of her periodically
is this because they have so many they forget who is who ha ha
Hard to really know the reason, they are obsessed with sending selfies and pictures of what they are actually doing all of the time. My phone was clogged with pics of half eaten baguettes and posing selfies :D
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
Don’t ever send anything you wouldn’t want your parents/kids to see - you may think that video calling is safe because it’s not a photo.....WRONG they can screen capture everything.

Oh the jealousy, I was instructed not to leave my hotel unless it was to see him at his work because “there are bad men out there” hmmmm! So I used to take great delight telling him I had walked to the medina, met friends for coffee, walked a mile up the beach etc - I wasn’t going to be locked in a hotel when he was at work.....oh no, I was on holiday :D

MH x
 

Trusted

Junior Rat Expert
If he is a rat it may be to show her off to the fellow rats. It may be a warm-up before his real game of asking for more daring pictures in the future. It may be his way of keeping his eyes on what exactly she is doing during the day. It may be to pass on her info along with the pictures if things don't work out for them. Exchanging victims between rats is a common practice.
More daring pictures, surely not what I am thinking. They send to others that is awful
My friend said her rat always demands send photo but the rat never responded with his. Now it makes sense
 

Tigerpants

Major Ratslayer
Don’t ever send anything you wouldn’t want your parents/kids to see - you may think that video calling is safe because it’s not a photo.....WRONG they can screen capture everything.

Oh the jealousy, I was instructed not to leave my hotel unless it was to see him at his work because “there are bad men out there” hmmmm! So I used to take great delight telling him I had walked to the medina, met friends for coffee, walked a mile up the beach etc - I wasn’t going to be locked in a hotel when he was at work.....oh no, I was on holiday :D

MH x
I caught onto that fast , I think there was something on TV about revenge porn around the time. I did (stupidly )send a slightly risqué shot once but covered my face totally
 

Butterflies

Major Ratslayer
Don’t ever send anything you wouldn’t want your parents/kids to see - you may think that video calling is safe because it’s not a photo.....WRONG they can screen capture everything.

Oh the jealousy, I was instructed not to leave my hotel unless it was to see him at his work because “there are bad men out there” hmmmm! So I used to take great delight telling him I had walked to the medina, met friends for coffee, walked a mile up the beach etc - I wasn’t going to be locked in a hotel when he was at work.....oh no, I was on holiday :D

MH x
They do in fact try to control you even when as with me it was online all I was demanded to send a foto every few hours to proof where I was he even wanted a clock on the foto. After stressing about it I learned to be as sneaky as him and changed my clock :D:D
 

riseandshinelad

Senior Rat Expert
I find it hard to understand why my friend's rat asks her to send him photo of her periodically
is this because they have so many they forget who is who ha ha

one of the reasons that I would like to mention is that these rats can use these pictures to make fake profile and turn it into a trap for other rats LOL

I had a female classmate whose pictures were used in a fake Facebook profile and we both laughed at how dumb men were commenting on her pictures thinking she is her, anyways she reported it and hopefully it will get removed, so yeah they can use it for making fake profiles as well
 

Trusted

Junior Rat Expert
one of the reasons that I would like to mention is that these rats can use these pictures to make fake profile and turn it into a trap for other rats LOL

I had a female classmate whose pictures were used in a fake Facebook profile and we both laughed at how dumb men were commenting on her pictures thinking she is her, anyways she reported it and hopefully it will get removed, so yeah they can use it for making fake profiles as well
That is so bad taking someone else's profile how does this keep happening?
I would have thought that covid 19 had eliminated most of these Rats
They are worse than covid 19
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
Don’t ever send anything you wouldn’t want your parents/kids to see - you may think that video calling is safe because it’s not a photo.....WRONG they can screen capture everything.

Oh the jealousy, I was instructed not to leave my hotel unless it was to see him at his work because “there are bad men out there” hmmmm! So I used to take great delight telling him I had walked to the medina, met friends for coffee, walked a mile up the beach etc - I wasn’t going to be locked in a hotel when he was at work.....oh no, I was on holiday :D

MH x
FOR REAL!!! And WOW yours actually worked? Awesome and good ..you seem to strong minded to be locked in room because he said so
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
one of the reasons that I would like to mention is that these rats can use these pictures to make fake profile and turn it into a trap for other rats LOL

I had a female classmate whose pictures were used in a fake Facebook profile and we both laughed at how dumb men were commenting on her pictures thinking she is her, anyways she reported it and hopefully it will get removed, so yeah they can use it for making fake profiles as well
They have so many profiles makes sense! Idiot losers ..what a life, would hate to be them!
 

confuseddotcom

Major Ratslayer
If he is a rat it may be to show her off to the fellow rats. It may be a warm-up before his real game of asking for more daring pictures in the future. It may be his way of keeping his eyes on what exactly she is doing during the day. It may be to pass on her info along with the pictures if things don't work out for them. Exchanging victims between rats is a common practice.
It’s either to show off, to use as blackmail or just for pure entertainment purposes. They are also control freaks. I am in Egypt at the moment and I have been stalked and followed by my ex, just a word of warning to anyone planning to visit their rat’s country.
 

Butterflies

Major Ratslayer
They have so many profiles makes sense! Idiot losers ..what a life, would hate to be them!
I would rather live in the streets than be them, they are so much degenerates that homeless people are way respectable than them.
They use these extra profiles to search other women and to hide their selves from the woman they are currently scamming or to try to be in contact again with the woman who blocked them. Dispicable rats who deserve to be outed here I wouldn't entertain any of them no more
 

Butterflies

Major Ratslayer
It’s either to show off, to use as blackmail or just for pure entertainment purposes. They are also control freaks. I am in Egypt at the moment and I have been stalked and followed by my ex, just a word of warning to anyone planning to visit their rat’s country.
They are vile men I hope you are safe and well. I haven't been there maybe in the future as now I am retired we like to visit other countries but I don't think I can sell it to my hubby lol :D. I prefer going to Australia instead
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
They use these extra profiles to search other women and to hide their selves from the woman they are currently scamming or to try to be in contact again with the woman who blocked them. Dispicable rats who deserve to be outed here I wouldn't entertain any of them no more
Me neither no interest at all in meeting someone in person much less on line!!! Recently changed something on my profile on LinkedIn “NOT TRYING TO FIND A DATE ON LINKEDIN “ you wouldn’t believe the guys that want to start chatting ewwwww just reminds me of rats.. told one to join a dating site
 
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