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SouthernGirl

Major Ratslayer
Yes it plays over and over in my head an he still trys to text me using different numbers now I avoid my phone .I am worried he will send pictures some are not even me I lost communication with my son her sent pictures to him my son will not talk to me . My son in law was different he said if you ever disrespect my mother in law like this again I will personally go to Tunisia and beat your ass and he reported him. He still as access to Facebook over many of my family reporting him and what's app his fav to get women. He is reported and he still is at it. I feel so sad for anyone he is playing now .May she be stronger than me and realize right away he is no good .
This is disgusting he sent pictures to your family members and I’m glad your son-in-law stood up for you and other family members reported him. You’re loved and respected by your family and you’re not alone. They are fighting for you and they are understanding.

That’s very sad that he’s victimizing other women too. I wish he’ll leave you alone quick and the other women will fight him too. I’d turn off my Facebook and other social media accounts for a while. It may help. Not seeing you anywhere on the web makes his job harder and it may discourage him. They’re lazy and prefer to take the easier way. If it’s too much effort, there is chance they’ll give up and spend their time elsewhere. He’ll be busy with other women and will focus on victims who are more accessible. It’s very unfortunate that he’ll look for other victims but that’s what they do. They keep preying.

Also they are cowards victimizing women but if there are men who challenge them, they’re likely to back out and instead to find women who are completely defenseless with noone to protect them. Your son-in-law’s warnings and other people reporting him will hopefully calm him down.
Please stay here and keep us updated. The members here can give you good advice and if you have questions, they’ll answer to the best of their knowledge.
 
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SouthernGirl

Major Ratslayer
Thank you for helping me not feel so alone and devastated. It is nice to know I have someone who understands even if I do not know you.Thsnk you so much .
You’re so welcome, dear Foolmeonce ( love your name) You’re definitely not alone and there are many people who understand you. You’ll get through it. You have done a lot already to protect you and your family from this despicable rat.
 

Butterflies

Major Ratslayer
I'm so ashamed and hate myself for being so stupid.
Hi Foolmeonce I am so sorry you have to go through this. These rats are shameless, you trusted them with your intimicy and now you feel violated and ashamed but you shouldn't feel foolish or ashamed at all he is the person who should be ashamed for doing this to you. I know how it feels you want to crawl under a rock and forget all had happened but it did happen and you can't change it no more. Your son will change his mind just try keep reaching out to him in the future after all who is without a mistake in his life? Nobody, everybody makes mistakes. It's stressing but you know what call it as it is just a naked foto of you. I feel for you really I went through it to with the blackmail and it's horrible but you will get through this with the support here or with friends and family who are there for you. Let him do his worst and you shouldn't stay away from your fone keep blocking him without reading his texts each and every time he try reach you. Sending you a big hug xxxxx
 

Poppy

Major Ratslayer
It is so scary to hear the repetitive nature of these Rats . Why do they want pictures of when you are out and about?
Don't they have a life?
Surely it must get boring after a while keep taking and asking for photos to be sent especially romantic ones (putting it politely)
They also keep asking for photos to blackmail you later on, once your relationship is over. They want to have your latest photos, that's why they keep asking. My rat is using my photos to create fake accounts about me and he calls me a porn actress. I talked with another woman who was also harassed by him and he did pretty much the same. He contacted all her Friends and told them she makes porn movies. He also created fake accounts about her. It looks like rats have no life. They only live to trouble others. Arseholes.
 

Poppy

Major Ratslayer
I am proof of this I am told if I do not answer his texts or messages he finds a way to torment me he said if I block him he will send all the pictures he took without my knowledge or permission to everyone iny family friends every one that may even slightly know me . I need more women to come forward with me and fight these guys they are beyond anything you can imagine. They do not want to lose .
Mine did exactly what you described. He was threatening me that if I keep blocking him, he will send all my intimate photos to my family members and friends, which he did as I kept blocking him without answering. Even worse, he trapped me while I was staying with him. While I was taking my shower, he had removed all the towels. When I came out from the shower, I had to go to the bedroom to start searching for a towel. He was hiding in a cupboard and had placed his cellphone on the bed, against a pillow to take a video of me. I was calling him and was getting no response. Then I noticed the phone....I closed it but didn't get the time to delete the damn video. He lied to me and said later that he had deleted it. Of course he didn't. He tried to blackmail me for a long time after that with this video "Remember I have your porn video. I Can send it to all", even though it's not at all a porn video. It was a trap. And he did this while I was with him in his country. Proof that he was already planning to harm me later.
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
They also keep asking for photos to blackmail you later on, once your relationship is over. They want to have your latest photos, that's why they keep asking. My rat is using my photos to create fake accounts about me and he calls me a porn actress. I talked with another woman who was also harassed by him and he did pretty much the same. He contacted all her Friends and told them she makes porn movies. He also created fake accounts about her. It looks like rats have no life. They only live to trouble others. Arseholes.
That’s pathetic! They are too
 

Butterflies

Major Ratslayer
Mine did exactly what you described. He was threatening me that if I keep blocking him, he will send all my intimate photos to my family members and friends, which he did as I kept blocking him without answering. Even worse, he trapped me while I was staying with him. While I was taking my shower, he had removed all the towels. When I came out from the shower, I had to go to the bedroom to start searching for a towel. He was hiding in a cupboard and had placed his cellphone on the bed, against a pillow to take a video of me. I was calling him and was getting no response. Then I noticed the phone....I closed it but didn't get the time to delete the damn video. He lied to me and said later that he had deleted it. Of course he didn't. He tried to blackmail me for a long time after that with this video "Remember I have your porn video. I Can send it to all", even though it's not at all a porn video. It was a trap. And he did this while I was with him in his country. Proof that he was already planning to harm me later.
I am so sorry Poppy is he still harassing you now? They are vile men, yours especially is not giving up. It takes over your life completely because you are worried it will show up somewhere on the internet. I hope you have support to go through this all. Big hug to you xxxx
 

Poppy

Major Ratslayer
I am so sorry Poppy is he still harassing you now? They are vile men, yours especially is not giving up. It takes over your life completely because you are worried it will show up somewhere on the internet. I hope you have support to go through this all. Big hug to you xxxx
Yes, he keeps sending messages, using fake accounts. I just ignore them.
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
I am so sorry Poppy is he still harassing you now? They are vile men, yours especially is not giving up. It takes over your life completely because you are worried it will show up somewhere on the internet. I hope you have support to go through this all. Big hug to you xxxx
That has to be so unnerving , holding that over your head he has to be a demented person
 

Tigerpants

Major Ratslayer
Mine did exactly what you described. He was threatening me that if I keep blocking him, he will send all my intimate photos to my family members and friends, which he did as I kept blocking him without answering. Even worse, he trapped me while I was staying with him. While I was taking my shower, he had removed all the towels. When I came out from the shower, I had to go to the bedroom to start searching for a towel. He was hiding in a cupboard and had placed his cellphone on the bed, against a pillow to take a video of me. I was calling him and was getting no response. Then I noticed the phone....I closed it but didn't get the time to delete the damn video. He lied to me and said later that he had deleted it. Of course he didn't. He tried to blackmail me for a long time after that with this video "Remember I have your porn video. I Can send it to all", even though it's not at all a porn video. It was a trap. And he did this while I was with him in his country. Proof that he was already planning to harm me later.
Is he in the gallery Poppy and named?
What an absolute scumbag as you say , planning ahead wow
 

Seldon#marg

Major Ratslayer
I will be okay I hope. Many of us feel the same wa on this site.i can not tell anyone I know because of shame. .Thank you. it helps to now Tere is someone I can reach out to .All I do is cry and can not sleep. .It will take time to heal.
I'm also feeling like you right now. Its heartbreaking soul destroying. You put all your trust in someone love them with all you have and the reality they don't give 2 hoots for us.. I am trying to stay strong as I can after I've realised what type of man my rat is.. truth is all I want to do is message him or call him but im not being treated like that anymore. We all deserve so much better than them.. now my rat knows I won't send him money he's called me a C.u.n.t , stupid a faggot also threatened to use a private photo I sent him .. they are absolutely vile humans... have 0 respect for us Western ladies just using us for every last penny then once they are done with us they move onto the next .. please stay strong and you can always private message me if you need. Xxx
 

Poppy

Major Ratslayer
I'm also feeling like you right now. Its heartbreaking soul destroying. You put all your trust in someone love them with all you have and the reality they don't give 2 hoots for us.. I am trying to stay strong as I can after I've realised what type of man my rat is.. truth is all I want to do is message him or call him but im not being treated like that anymore. We all deserve so much better than them.. now my rat knows I won't send him money he's called me a C.u.n.t , stupid a faggot also threatened to use a private photo I sent him .. they are absolutely vile humans... have 0 respect for us Western ladies just using us for every last penny then once they are done with us they move onto the next .. please stay strong and you can always private message me if you need. Xxx
No matter what we do for them, they will always end up calling us whores, bitches and so on. There was a lady who had sent money to my rat. She told me that he had asked for more several times. She refused. He made fake accounts about her on several social medias and called her a scunt too! She never met him. He contacted all her friends to say that she makes porn movies and that she had cheated on her husband even though it's not true at all. Rats will never thank you for the help you provided to them. Plus they will try to create problems for you. He also searched on the net the place where she is working. He phoned her boss and called her a racist and told him he should fire her.
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
No matter what we do for them, they will always end up calling us whores, bitches and so on. There was a lady who had sent money to my rat. She told me that he had asked for more several times. She refused. He made fake accounts about her on several social medias and called her a scunt too! She never met him. He contacted all her friends to say that she makes porn movies and that she had cheated on her husband even though it's not true at all. Rats will never thank you for the help you provided to them. Plus they will try to create problems for you. He also searched on the net the place where she is working. He phoned her boss and called her a racist and told him he should fire her.
This guy is a real psycho.
 

Seldon#marg

Major Ratslayer
No matter what we do for them, they will always end up calling us whores, bitches and so on. There was a lady who had sent money to my rat. She told me that he had asked for more several times. She refused. He made fake accounts about her on several social medias and called her a scunt too! She never met him. He contacted all her friends to say that she makes porn movies and that she had cheated on her husband even though it's not true at all. Rats will never thank you for the help you provided to them. Plus they will try to create problems for you. He also searched on the net the place where she is working. He phoned her boss and called her a racist and told him he should fire her.
Wow real piece of work x
 

Trusted

Junior Rat Expert
Thank you for such a big response
on rats asking for photos it was very interesting to hear this is common.
Just out of interest how often do these rats message victims.
Do they facetime often when in these so called relationships?
Interesting to see if they are all the same
as when asking for photos !
 

confuseddotcom

Major Ratslayer
Thank you for such a big response
on rats asking for photos it was very interesting to hear this is common.
Just out of interest how often do these rats message victims.
Do they facetime often when in these so called relationships?
Interesting to see if they are all the same
as when asking for photos !
They usually prefer consistent communication (unless they’re entertaining someone else), and we mistake it for the rat being a rare, doting partner when really it’s to get us attached and under his thumb. This is why it’s so hard to let go because they become a part of your routine.

About FaceTime yeah I would imagine most do in order to give you a sense of false security. For example it’s a lot harder to be angry w/ someone when you’re seeing them live on cam. Things just seem to get more heated when you’re typing or is it just me lol. Most ask for pics, especially dirty ones (never send those). Usually for blackmail and control purposes. Anyway, they are sneaky f***ers!
 

dumped

Junior Rat Expert
They usually prefer consistent communication (unless they’re entertaining someone else), and we mistake it for the rat being a rare, doting partner when really it’s to get us attached and under his thumb. This is why it’s so hard to let go because they become a part of your routine.

About FaceTime yeah I would imagine most do in order to give you a sense of false security. For example it’s a lot harder to be angry w/ someone when you’re seeing them live on cam. Things just seem to get more heated when you’re typing or is it just me lol. Most ask for pics, especially dirty ones (never send those). Usually for blackmail and control purposes. Anyway, they are sneaky f***ers!
It is quite an eye opener of the repetition
carried out they certainly do not need to go to acting school as it sounds they are true professional at this
But surely if they facetime victims why the need for fotos as well
Do they ever stop chasing
 

Trusted

Junior Rat Expert
They usually prefer consistent communication (unless they’re entertaining someone else), and we mistake it for the rat being a rare, doting partner when really it’s to get us attached and under his thumb. This is why it’s so hard to let go because they become a part of your routine.

About FaceTime yeah I would imagine most do in order to give you a sense of false security. For example it’s a lot harder to be angry w/ someone when you’re seeing them live on cam. Things just seem to get more heated when you’re typing or is it just me lol. Most ask for pics, especially dirty ones (never send those). Usually for blackmail and control purposes. Anyway, they are sneaky f***ers!
May
Pics mainly for revenge porn and for their own satisfaction. And yes it scary how deceptive they are
Be play them at their own game
Is the best revenge it may make them think twice !
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
Thank you for such a big response
on rats asking for photos it was very interesting to hear this is common.
Just out of interest how often do these rats message victims.
Do they facetime often when in these so called relationships?
Interesting to see if they are all the same
as when asking for photos !
As much as possible what else do they have to do??? Real jerks
 
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