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Judithlyn

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This is a forum for being open, truthful, venting, bitching, cussing (from hurt), and finallyyyyyyy recovering! Editing posts, deleting posts.....does NOT build trust on a forum where ALL of us should be helping, listening, and tolerating each other regardless of the language used! We are from every country. Our backgrounds are different, but our unity is that we ALL were hurt, damaged, and nearly destroyed by these rats! This forum should be the place to go, where we can say anything, even bad language....cause we ARE HURT.....we need support and let’s face it....Bezness is unknown in most of our lives. Our friends and family can not even fathom it! This site should be a safe haven for ALL!!!!!! If we can not speak openly and freely here, we are just doomed to being victims! Please think about my words, Administrators and moderators? Thank you!!!!
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
This is a forum for being open, truthful, venting, bitching, cussing (from hurt), and finallyyyyyyy recovering! Editing posts, deleting posts.....does NOT build trust on a forum where ALL of us should be helping, listening, and tolerating each other regardless of the language used! We are from every country. Our backgrounds are different, but our unity is that we ALL were hurt, damaged, and nearly destroyed by these rats! This forum should be the place to go, where we can say anything, even bad language....cause we ARE HURT.....we need support and let’s face it....Bezness is unknown in most of our lives. Our friends and family can not even fathom it! This site should be a safe haven for ALL!!!!!! If we can not speak openly and freely here, we are just doomed to being victims! Please think about my words, Administrators and moderators? Thank you!!!!
I don't need to think about your words at all - being so offensive and abusive will not be tolerated.

You have been warned several times about being offensive and abusive. so perhaps think about my words.

MH
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
This site should be a safe haven for ALL!!!!!!
Exactly my point - glad you grasped the ethos of this support forum:

1. Remain respectful of other members at all times
All posts should be professional and courteous. You have every right to disagree with your fellow community members and explain your perspective.
However, you are not free to attack, degrade, insult, or otherwise belittle them or the quality of this community. It does not matter what title or power you hold in these forums, you are expected to obey this rule.

Please take the time to review our terms and rules again.

MH
 
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Judithlyn

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Exactly my point - glad you grasped the ethos of this support forum:

1. Remain respectful of other members at all times
All posts should be professional and courteous. You have every right to disagree with your fellow community members and explain your perspective.
However, you are not free to attack, degrade, insult, or otherwise belittle them or the quality of this community. It does not matter what title or power you hold in these forums, you are expected to obey this rule.

Please take the time to review our terms and rules again.

MH
Excuse me, with all due respect, I was hunting the rules of this forum but they seem to be gone. I always obey laws and rules, but I can’t seem to find them on here. Please direct me to where I should search? Thank you! Have a nice day!
 
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Judithlyn

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I want to talk nicely to you, so please do not be mad or offensive! Okay? This sight is to expose rats and help victims of them! Am I correct in my understanding of this TLR sight? Maybe I’m very wrong! If so, I should not be on here because I have a heart of gold, was very abused and it was stolen from by the ElHamma rat Abdelhak Rahali. It took me forever to recover, BUT I finally did, thanks to this sight and so many wonderful members who were banned in complete shock to me!?!?!?! Now my language is never nice when discussing rats or people who laugh at us....the victims! I finally recovered! I lost HUGE amounts of money, but I’m wiser now! I can help victims because they are where I once was! Now, this sight needs to be open to VICTIMS! Ranting, raving, cussing are all paths to recovery! Fact! Please, please stop editing comments, banning victims, and please restore them! Together, we have a mission! Our goal is supposedly the same!!!! PLEASE, anybody as an administrator on here can restore the banned accounts? Please do it? We are a group against rats, NOT each other, right??????
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
I want to talk nicely to you, so please do not be mad or offensive! Okay? This sight is to expose rats and help victims of them! Am I correct in my understanding of this TLR sight? Maybe I’m very wrong! If so, I should not be on here because I have a heart of gold, was very abused and it was stolen from by the ElHamma rat Abdelhak Rahali. It took me forever to recover, BUT I finally did, thanks to this sight and so many wonderful members who were banned in complete shock to me!?!?!?! Now my language is never nice when discussing rats or people who laugh at us....the victims! I finally recovered! I lost HUGE amounts of money, but I’m wiser now! I can help victims because they are where I once was! Now, this sight needs to be open to VICTIMS! Ranting, raving, cussing are all paths to recovery! Fact! Please, please stop editing comments, banning victims, and please restore them! Together, we have a mission! Our goal is supposedly the same!!!! PLEASE, anybody as an administrator on here can restore the banned accounts? Please do it? We are a group against rats, NOT each other, right??????
No - a decision was made but it has all been discussed on previous threads.

I will not stop editing posts that are offensive, abusive or degrading, that is my job.

Now any further questions please feel free to pm me and let us get back to bezness.

MH
 

simple

Major Ratslayer
Rant and rave scream and cuss as much as you wont ,but aim it at rats ..We have a right to be angry at @Loudlovin ,but we dont know the circumstances or the real reason she lied,She may be a victim ,she may not and it all is just jealousy and saboutage .But what is a fact is he is a rat and he may be controlling her ,if so then she is a victim ,if not she is on her way to being a victim ..Do any of us for one minute believe he finished with her .No one believes that hes fithfull to his new gf ,we all know what his goal is and we all know how he trys to acheives it ..Our anger should be aimed at rats themselves ,,,these rat groupies who try to defend them will also be victims and we know this ,because weve seen it happen so many times >But if we burn down the bridges ,who are they supposed to turn to ,when rat has taken all her money or abused her .I also get angry when defenders come on here and try to prove us wrong ,,but its our unity that keeps up strong ,knowing that all of us have each others backs and rats can only break us by dividing us .
 

Big Bang Theory

Senior Rat Expert
Please, please stop editing comments, banning victims, and please restore them! Together, we have a mission! Our goal is supposedly the same!!!! PLEASE, anybody as an administrator on here can restore the banned accounts? Please do it? We are a group against rats, NOT each other, right??????
Judith, why do you think forums have administrators and moderators?
Do you think nothing should be edited and we can all be disrespectful or nasty when we want to be and that would be ok?
Do you think we shouldn't have rules to keep the forum running peaceably?
Don't you think members should be banned when they repeatedly break the rules?
Yes, we should be a group against rats and not each other but if people are disrespectful on the forum or they break the rules, and nothing is done, than that that create disharmony among the members and causes damage to the forum :(
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
This site is a sanctuary to many victims - things change, members come and go but TLR continues and will continue without them..

All you have done today is create friction and I haven't noticed any supportive posts.

Enough is enough now - please start kindness and not some kind of mission to rehash past issues that were dealt with.

@Ben has trusted me to look after TLR and that is what I am doing.

Because of all the previous warnings you have had please accept this is your final one - we have been very lenient with your abusive rants but enough is enough.

Don't make me close yet another thread.

MH
 
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Judithlyn

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This site is a sanctuary to many victims - things change, members come and go but TLR continues and will continue without them..

All you have done today is create friction and I haven't noticed any supportive posts.

Enough is enough now - please start kindness and not some kind of mission to rehash past issues that were dealt with.

Ben has trusted me to look after TLR and that is what I am doing.

Because of all the previous warnings you have had please accept this is your final one - we have been very lenient with your abusive rants but enough is enough.

Don't make me close yet another thread.

MH
Go ahead and close it! It was a lie anyways! We are here for victims, not rats! Thanks! Xx
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
Go ahead and close it! It was a lie anyways! We are here for victims, not rats! Thanks! Xx
Judith has been removed for 48 hours to calm down - plenty of chances given but we cannot have posts being hijacked like this - it isn't fair on new members nor supportive members and devalues the ethos of why we are all here.

Sorry if this upsets certain people but it is a decision that needed to be made.

MH x
 

SouthernGirl

Major Ratslayer
Loudlovin is now silent. I hope she uses this experience as a lesson. I for one don’t think the rat made her write these lies. I didn’t believe her story about her being pregnant, I rolled my eyes when she said she was at the hospital but then I gave her the benefit of the doubt toward the end when I saw everyone was supportive. I thought I may be too harsh not believing her.
This is so sad that women fall in love with bad men and still continue to believe in them after they come here and read stuff about him.
 
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Big Bang Theory

Senior Rat Expert
Sadly, our unity here has fallen and failed! I do not know nor understand why...jealousy, control, manipulation, or just a love of Tunisian retards over us victims! It’s a fact! Now, to fix these problems, ALL of us can come together as a rat-banning group OR those with power can CHOOSE to ban victims! Aren’t we on a mission together to expose rats? If NOT, ALL of us have have been deceived and need to leave this sight NOW! STOP the jealousy and anger among members...it accomplishes ZERO! PEACE!!!!!!

Are you kidding me? I’ve been a very long time member in TLR! I was suicidal, angry, depressed, and everything from what a nasty piece of garbage, Abdelhak Rahali, did to me! I’m not kidding! I’m a doctor. I have so many degrees in so many fields, but a con artist got to me when I was going through a husband split, and much more! I was so vulnerable! Abdelhak wrote to me at the lowest point of my life ever! I was an easy target then but I’m not anymore! I’m here to help victims! I’m very educated, very compassionate, and only here to help. I know that the others were here to help like me! I know they were victims! What I don’t know is why they were banned! My God, we all are victims! We need each other! PLEASE restore this forum to its former glorious days! Please?

No I'm not kidding, they were reasonable questions that you apparently don't want to acknowledge.

Unity failed for 4 or 5 members who repeatedly broke the rules despite warnings. You know that is why they were banned :confused:
You also know that they were allowed to register again after agreeing to abide by the terms and rules so they are still members here and can still give and receive support if they want to. So stop harping on about their demise like they are no longer here.

I don't see jealousy or anger among members :confused: if you do please can you post links to those posts or click the report button so that the mods can deal with them.

While I'm having a small moan, it seems that it is mostly MH doing the moderating, perhaps you would feel happier if your posts were edited by the other moderators so that you can hurl accusations at them too ?

MH is right, you seem intent on causing friction :mad:And then you have the audacity to blame others for causing disharmony. I find your rants very irritating and of little support.
 

simple

Major Ratslayer
Why are there members who keep starting threads on removed members..I dont understand this ,if they have been removed its for a reason ,Im sure its not for personal reasons ,,i have been here for nearly 10 years and i have not met or socialised with any member outside of this site ,but i regarde everyone as a friend ,,If someone breaks the rules then they should be banned and im sure there must be a big reason to ban somone who has been here for a long time ,it cant be taken lightly by admin..I was shocked when Heidi was banned but i dont expect the reason to be broadcast on a forum as it would im sure maybe embaress Heidi ...But i trust admin to do the right thing and if i ever break the rules ,then i too should expect to be banned ,,,I trust mh007 as admin,,just like i trusted Heidi when she was admin ,i never questioned Heidi when she banned members ,just like Mh007 shoudlnt be questioned,,,
 

Loudlovin

Well-Known Member
I am sorry for my lies but really I’m a messed up person I had a breakdown and when I was on holiday I saw him and he never even noticed me I only found his name by asking around then I made a story up about him. Reading all the thread made me see sense and I had to come clean about my life’s I don’t know this person personally. I’m sorry that I lied and my previous breakdown is no excuse for the behaviour I’ve submitted in her I am sorry to all of you and the person I spread these lies about.
 

smiley

Major Ratslayer
I am sorry for my lies but really I’m a messed up person I had a breakdown and when I was on holiday I saw him and he never even noticed me I only found his name by asking around then I made a story up about him. Reading all the thread made me see sense and I had to come clean about my life’s I don’t know this person personally. I’m sorry that I lied and my previous breakdown is no excuse for the behaviour I’ve submitted in her I am sorry to all of you and the person I spread these lies about.
So you dont know this person and you have never met him??
 

Loudlovin

Well-Known Member
That’s what I said I saw him in a hotel that’s all I don’t know anything about him. I liked him and he never once looked at me so I made a story on here
 

Amira

Major Ratslayer
That’s what I said I saw him in a hotel that’s all I don’t know anything about him. I liked him and he never once looked at me so I made a story on here
It's good that you didn't get to know him. After what has been said here, he does not seem like a good man. Appearance is deceiving.
 
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