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Wicker

Senior Rat Expert
Excuse me .. how the hell do we have to know she was writing about your relation? The only one knowing that is you because there is some inside information in the post you will only know and is completely unknown to other people (whatever it may be). I am sorry to say but in her posts she says nothing about living with him, only wanted to visit him in March 2012 after a visit in september 2011. It was Tarek who came up with breaking up with a woman called Alice in 2015.
 

Big Bang Theory

Senior Rat Expert
I am not a specialist in Iman...That is not the subject of the thread. The subject is Alice and nothing else. I came here just for that.
Actually the subject off this thread is to 'test the name'.....not 'Marie Josee's relationship.... it is for everyone, not just you - if you want to start your own thread you are welcome to do that.

We all fully understand what you are trying to say.... what we are trying to say is that your posts don't ring true - you are repeatedly ignoring he questions we ask to try to ascertain the truth and just making demands without being specific as to which posts you think should be deleted.
 

Big Bang Theory

Senior Rat Expert
so, tell me why an iman will put his freedom at risk to do an islamic marriage ? It doesn t make sense.
Didn't Tarek tell you it was illegal?

It is also illegal and an imprisonable offence for an unmarried couple (legal marriage) to have sex. I'm sure you know this, having lived in Tunisia for a number of years with your 'nice' Tunisian family, i'm sue they would have told you.....
 
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Marie Josée

Guest
I understand your request, but how do other people have to know that you are not two different persons? You claim she is telling wrong things about your relation with him. The only one who knows the inside information are the ones involved in this story. We have to believe one person and not another because someone says so? What if this Alice is not the person you think she is? I have seen some other woman in this post asking about him.
If i remember the posts of Alice, They were written in 2011. So, why should i wait until 3 days ago to intervene on your site ? What will be my interest ? apart from removing the story that Alice wrote pretending she was me.
 
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Marie Josée

Guest
Didn't Tarek tell you it was illegal?

It is also illegal and an imprisonable offence for an unmarried couple (legal marriage) to have sex. I'm sure you know this, having lived in Tunisia for a number of years with your 'nice' Tunisian family, i'm sue they would have told you.....
That is not the point ! Because if it is, then i think half of tunisia should be in illegality...Get real, please
 

Wicker

Senior Rat Expert
No, not only in 2011 .. And why you would come just three days ago? I do not know .. because of Tarek entered this site again? Maybe you have to come with some proof Alice pretends to be you, because to me it is absolutely not clear .. Just saying it is so it is no proof .. And reacting on something else .. Islamatic marriages in the north of Tunisia are not done ...
 
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Marie Josée

Guest
I think making a claim that a Tunisian has done something illegal is a serious matter for discussion whether you want it to be or not....
Big Bang, when did i say that a tunisian i made something illegal ???? You said that an islamic marriage was illegal. Someone said that the iman maybe was not a real one..you are turning words around.
 

Big Bang Theory

Senior Rat Expert
If i remember the posts of Alice, They were written in 2011. So, why should i wait until 3 days ago to intervene on your site ? What will be my interest ? apart from removing the story that Alice wrote pretending she was me.
Because you want to believe your illusion that your relationship was with an honest and kind man....

Honey, we get lots of illusional blind women on here who refuse to believe they were lied to and deceived and they all sound just like you....

If you behaved in a more rational way instead of just demanding we do what you want we might get somewhere....

Now which posts do you want admin to remove?
 

simple

Major Ratslayer
Ive actualy never heard of an iman "blessing" a couple before a civil marriage ,,,You should have registered at a police station ,for it to be ok to live with him ,,,,That is what the law states ...
 
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Marie Josée

Guest
No, not only in 2011 .. And why you would come just three days ago? I do not know .. because of Tarek entered this site again? Maybe you have to come with some proof Alice pretends to be you, because to me it is absolutely not clear .. Just saying it is so it is no proof .. And reacting on something else .. Islamatic marriages in the north of Tunisia are not done ...
we were living in the south, not on the north.
 
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Marie Josée

Guest
Ive actualy never heard of an iman "blessing" a couple before a civil marriage ,,,You should have registered at a police station ,for it to be ok to live with him ,,,,That is what the law states ...
I was registered . are you satisfied. Am i the accused here ?
 

Big Bang Theory

Senior Rat Expert
That is not the point ! Because if it is, then i think half of tunisia should be in illegality...Get real, please
Exactly, but the NON rats, the genuine honest Tunisians, will tell their girlfriend that it's illegal so that they can make an educated decision on whether to take the risk....

A rat will NOT tell you and will keep you in ignorance, not giving a fig about the risk for you.....
 
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Big Bang Theory

Senior Rat Expert
Big Bang, when did i say that a tunisian i made something illegal ???? You said that an islamic marriage was illegal. Someone said that the iman maybe was not a real one..you are turning words around.
What words am I turning around?

YOU said you had an Islamic marriage, not a legal one....

YOU said you lived alone with Tarek in a rented apartment for 3 years so presumably you had sex - maybe not but, only the two of you know that but that's usually the purpose of the illegal marriage.

I'm just stating facts, Tunisian law is a fact
 

simple

Major Ratslayer
I was registered . are you satisfied. Am i the accused here ?
No your not the accused ,,i believe youve been a victim ,without realising .I know you came on here wanting posts removed and to clear his name ,,,,Although youve finished with him 11 months ago ,i hope you dont go back to him once your health is better....Whatever your relationship is and was with him,,it really wasnt real ....I dont believe youve seen the real Tunisia or understand the role a foreigner plays in their lives ...But whatever, i like you and wish you well ...
 
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Marie Josée

Guest
What words am I turning around?

YOU said you had an Islamic marriage, not a legal one....

YOU said you lived alone with Tarek in a rented apartment for 3 years so presumably you had sex - maybe not but, only the two of you know that but that's usually the purpose of the illegal marriage.

I'm just stating facts, Tunisian law is a fact
Heidi asked about it. and i said yes, an iman came in the family to bless tarek and me. that's it.
 

Big Bang Theory

Senior Rat Expert
No your not the accused ,,i believe youve been a victim ,without realising .I know you came on here wanting posts removed and to clear his name ,,,,Although youve finished with him 11 months ago ,i hope you dont go back to him once your health is better....Whatever your relationship is and was with him,,it really wasnt real ....I dont believe youve seen the real Tunisia or understand the role a foreigner plays in their lives ...But whatever, i like you and wish you well ...
I agree with simple....
Right now you're coming across as arrogant, delusional, inconsiderate and unpleasant but actually I think you're scared to admit the truth that you were living with a scammer and a liar the past few years...

Perhaps it's better, now that you've separated, for you to maintain your belief that he is a good man so I'm out of this conversation.
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Marie Josée

Guest
You know, i am tired of all the pickering. You just want to ignore for what i came for in the first place.. I don' t think you are making honest jugments. You are just interested in making little comments to drown the fish...what i understand in all this, is you want to make audiance, like the cheap newspapers that you can buy in England...You are making honest people to talk for after that, picking on them with ironic comments...Maybe you truly help people when they are desperate. But, when someone like me come here to ask to remove texts wrote by imposter, you make me feel like i am accused.
I leave you between yourselves. I finish the discussion now.
Have some fun with others.
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Tiger

Major Ratslayer
@Marie Josée you must understand that the post by Alice have so much inside information that i find it impossible that it have been written by a "friend" based on conversations you clime you had with her at the time. This is a woman telling she have met this Tarek . She have visit him at the camp in the desert. She have met his family and she had made planes to go back. She even write when she was returning. The post also contain their future plans. Tarek have confirm that he had a relation to her. And that this relation was ended. There have been also other women who question him.
Then you come here and tell a different story. And also clime that this page is not serius b/c the admin do not delete Alice´s post just on your word. That is impossible like i see it. You have no prove that Alice is not real.
It is time you open your eyes for what this story is all about. You will not be the first woman that have been being deceived by a Tunisian man and you will probably not be the last.
You tell he is a good man and his family is loving and caring. But he signed an Islamic marriage with you. This is illegal in Tunisia. And it's not a real marriage vow. You are in fact not married.It is not worth the paper it is written on. And it is a criminal offense to enter into such "marriages" As you well know, it is illegal for Tunisian law to live together as unmarried in Tunisia. And this is not accepted wherever you live in Tunisia.
It's obvious that you know little about Islam and Tunisian culture. Have you thought about the fact That this good man and his loving family and friends have made you believe that you are married by law, but the truth is that you have not been married at all? That family has accepted that you lived together as unmarried? No good respected family, apsolutly none at all would ever accept this. And respectable genuine families will not be able respectere a family that allows an unmarried couple living together without being legally married.
And I assume that you have read the serious threats Tarek came with yesterday. Do you think it is testament to a good and genuine man?
I think you should sit down and reconsider the whole story. He has actually confirm That he had a relationship with Alice. And that it was ended. You can not close our eyes to his own words.
Some Tunisian player on several horses simultaneously. There are endless stories about this. It's sad but true. And it is common for us women to deny this fact. We have mostly been in the same boat all WHO is here on this page.
 
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Tiger

Major Ratslayer
I know! I am just telling you in the north it is different .. nothing more, nothing less ... I also have been registered at the police station because I stay outside a hotel .. Still no reaction of the actually issue ..
This is true. if you are a foreigner and staying private (not tourist at a hotel) it shall be registered with the police. It has nothing two do with registering marriages.
 

BrownGirl

Moderator And Queen of Summaries
I'm very confused. "Alice" came here to post a story about her internet boyfriend, calling us all bitter and twisted etc etc. We then gave her proof that he was married to an overweight blonde European, we also found out that the lovely Tarek has a fat ass and walks like a duck. I remember being very amused at the description :D
So "Alice" dumped Tarek.
Is Marie Josee the European wife?
I'm too lazy to search - what sordid stories did "Alice" tell?
Tarek is obviously a vile excuse for a human being, he proved that here. I hope any woman who has the misfortune to come across him does a search first. His threats and disgusting language will stay here for all to see.
He would send shivers down my spine except I remember he waddles like a duck, so I can run faster lol
 

katt1828

Major Ratslayer
Again, I am not saying who or what is right here, but in my own opinion, if Alice was an imposter, who wanted to ruin this man's reputation, I would think she would post terrible, ratty horror stories about him, not come here and act all in love and "just checking to see if anyone knows him."
I believe had she just been some random woman who wanted to ruin this mans reputation with false stories, she would have logged on and given unflattering information straight away. If anything she doubted the women giving her advice and proceeded to act like a woman who was still wearing those rose colored glasses to me. It honestly didn't seem like she was bashing him or talking about him in an unsavory way at all.
Again, as a third party not involved in this story whatsoever, it seems like a bit much just to set up a false story.
I don't wish to argue or cast doubt, this is merely my humble opinion.
 

FoolInLove

Major Ratslayer
You know, i am tired of all the pickering. You just want to ignore for what i came for in the first place.. I don' t think you are making honest jugments. You are just interested in making little comments to drown the fish...what i understand in all this, is you want to make audiance, like the cheap newspapers that you can buy in England...You are making honest people to talk for after that, picking on them with ironic comments...Maybe you truly help people when they are desperate. But, when someone like me come here to ask to remove texts wrote by imposter, you make me feel like i am accused.
I leave you between yourselves. I finish the discussion now.
Have some fun with others.
..
One thing i am wondering about, is the fact that you seem to take no distance to the fact that Tarek have made some very nasty threats to a member here. Doesn´t it bother you at all??
 
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Marie Josée

Guest
@Marie Josée you must understand that the post by Alice have so much inside information that i find it impossible that it have been written by a "friend" based on conversations you clime you had with her at the time. This is a woman telling she have met this Tarek . She have visit him at the camp in the desert. She have met his family and she had made planes to go back. She even write when she was returning. The post also contain their future plans. Tarek have confirm that he had a relation to her. And that this relation was ended. There have been also other women who question him.
Then you come here and tell a different story. And also clime that this page is not serius b/c the admin do not delete Alice´s post just on your word. That is impossible like i see it. You have no prove that Alice is not real.
It is time you open your eyes for what this story is all about. You will not be the first woman that have been being deceived by a Tunisian man and you will probably not be the last.
You tell he is a good man and his family is loving and caring. But he signed an Islamic marriage with you. This is illegal in Tunisia. And it's not a real marriage vow. You are in fact not married.It is not worth the paper it is written on. And it is a criminal offense to enter into such "marriages" As you well know, it is illegal for Tunisian law to live together as unmarried in Tunisia. And this is not accepted wherever you live in Tunisia.
It's obvious that you know little about Islam and Tunisian culture. Have you thought about the fact That this good man and his loving family and friends have made you believe that you are married by law, but the truth is that you have not been married at all? That family has accepted that you lived together as unmarried? No good respected family, apsolutly none at all would ever accept this. And respectable genuine families will not be able respectere a family that allows an unmarried couple living together without being legally married.
And I assume that you have read the serious threats Tarek came with yesterday. Do you think it is testament to a good and genuine man?
I think you should sit down and reconsider the whole story. He has actually confirm That he had a relationship with Alice. And that it was ended. You can not close our eyes to his own words.
Some Tunisian player on several horses simultaneously. There are endless stories about this. It's sad but true. And it is common for us women to deny this fact. We have mostly been in the same boat all WHO is here on this page.
Sure, she knew all this details. she was my best friends and the one who worked with me. So, it was easy for her to know all those details like you said. i was trusting her completly with my confidences. i suppose that in a way it was my own fault. i should have shut up and said nothing to her. but she was my best friend at that time.
 
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Marie Josée

Guest
This is true. if you are a foreigner and staying private (not tourist at a hotel) it shall be registered with the police. It has nothing two do with registering marriages.
i did say that i was registered....i was not an illegal migrant as you are trying to say.....so stop to emphasy on small subjects when the reason i am here is that someone wrote about me and tarek under an assumed name (Alice). I find this really anoying that someone can come here and write something without impunity, and me, asking you to take off that imposture from your site, find myself in the rank of the accused.
I am not stupid, far from this, and last night all your questions was trying to prove that i was lying. read back all your questions. I don t know how all of you would react if something like that happened in your life. (usurpation of identity) is called in uk. And while trying to restablish the truth about it, you find yourself undermined by the members of the forum ?
 
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Marie Josée

Guest
So why don´t you tell Alice to delete her posts herself. Go threaten her instead of the forum :rolleyes:
Do you think i am Dumb Heidi ? i told the forum already that since i have moved in Douz i could not contact her anymore... I send emails, phone calls and i even tried to call her daughter without success. Anyway, until 3 or 4 days ago, i didn t know that thread existed about me and tarek.
 
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Marie Josée

Guest
One thing i am wondering about, is the fact that you seem to take no distance to the fact that Tarek have made some very nasty threats to a member here. Doesn´t it bother you at all??
Tarek and me are separated since 11 months.
 
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