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Marie Josée

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@Marie Josée you must understand that the post by Alice have so much inside information that i find it impossible that it have been written by a "friend" based on conversations you clime you had with her at the time. This is a woman telling she have met this Tarek . She have visit him at the camp in the desert. She have met his family and she had made planes to go back. She even write when she was returning. The post also contain their future plans. Tarek have confirm that he had a relation to her. And that this relation was ended. There have been also other women who question him.
Then you come here and tell a different story. And also clime that this page is not serius b/c the admin do not delete Alice´s post just on your word. That is impossible like i see it. You have no prove that Alice is not real.
It is time you open your eyes for what this story is all about. You will not be the first woman that have been being deceived by a Tunisian man and you will probably not be the last.
You tell he is a good man and his family is loving and caring. But he signed an Islamic marriage with you. This is illegal in Tunisia. And it's not a real marriage vow. You are in fact not married.It is not worth the paper it is written on. And it is a criminal offense to enter into such "marriages" As you well know, it is illegal for Tunisian law to live together as unmarried in Tunisia. And this is not accepted wherever you live in Tunisia.
It's obvious that you know little about Islam and Tunisian culture. Have you thought about the fact That this good man and his loving family and friends have made you believe that you are married by law, but the truth is that you have not been married at all? That family has accepted that you lived together as unmarried? No good respected family, apsolutly none at all would ever accept this. And respectable genuine families will not be able respectere a family that allows an unmarried couple living together without being legally married.
And I assume that you have read the serious threats Tarek came with yesterday. Do you think it is testament to a good and genuine man?
I think you should sit down and reconsider the whole story. He has actually confirm That he had a relationship with Alice. And that it was ended. You can not close our eyes to his own words.
Some Tunisian player on several horses simultaneously. There are endless stories about this. It's sad but true. And it is common for us women to deny this fact. We have mostly been in the same boat all WHO is here on this page.
I never said that i was an expert in Islam or tunisian culture. I try to respect the people and their religion, that's it.
Yes i have read the threats and i have read also how you were pushing him around to. I think just 1 or 2 members of the forum tried to be fair with him. But at that time he was really angry.
All this are taking big proportions now. I came just here for one thing. I don t want to argue, but how you are treating the whole thing is unfair.
 
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Do you think i am Dumb Heidi ? i told the forum already that since i have moved in Douz i could not contact her anymore... I send emails, phone calls and i even tried to call her daughter without success. Anyway, until 3 or 4 days ago, i didn t know that thread existed about me and tarek.
Seems like she don´t want contact with you. Somehow I understand that ;).
On the other hand, I don´t think she can avoid it if you take the legal way

Your words:
If all this continue, I will take other alternatives to make an end to this rubbish.
like i say in my post if all this continue i will go further on to stop all this.
if you do not stop with all this i will go further as i said it before.
Unless that you can come with proofs, i will try to stop all those bad comments in a legal way.
 
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Marie Josée

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So why don´t you tell Alice to delete her posts herself. Go threaten her instead of the forum :rolleyes:
Heidi, i am a very polite woman. Until now, i have never threatened a member on this forum. Even if you are pushing me around and putting my words in doubt. I am trying to stay calm and polite.
I saw the annoucement in the Gallery about pictures of Tarek Ben Mimoun. I wanted to tell you, That if i see a picture of me in that Gallery, then for sure, I will sue you legally for publishing pictures without my permission.
I told every member here, that i am the victim of an usurpation of identity. I would never have been on that forum if someone didn t put my story here in first place.
For 4 days i have been posting and posting trying to make you understand this, without success. I got just an alternative left and that is the legal way.
Now, you can turn my words round if you like it. But i will do what i say.
When you are publishing a story in a public forum, you should verify the identity of the person who tell you the story. Because if you don t do it, that leave a big breach and anybody can come and say what they want, true or false. and you are exposing yourself legally.
 
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Marie Josée

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Seems like she don´t want contact with you. Somehow I understand that ;).
On the other hand, I don´t think she can avoid it if you take the legal way

Your words:
If all this continue, I will take other alternatives to make an end to this rubbish.
like i say in my post if all this continue i will go further on to stop all this.
if you do not stop with all this i will go further as i said it before.
Unless that you can come with proofs, i will try to stop all those bad comments in a legal way.
There are 2 ways to understand. Maybe she knows that what she have done is really bad,
 
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Heidi, i am a very polite woman. Until now, i have never threatened a member on this forum. Even if you are pushing me around and putting my words in doubt. I am trying to stay calm and polite.
I saw the annoucement in the Gallery about pictures of Tarek Ben Mimoun. I wanted to tell you, That if i see a picture of me in that Gallery, then for sure, I will sue you legally for publishing pictures without my permission.
Dear, we never put pictures of victims in the forum or the gallery.
We also never put the real names of victims here, like you did with the name of Alice

"The friend that i had talk about Tarek at that time is Dxxxx Bxxxxx"
 
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Marie Josée

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Dear, we never put pictures of victims in the forum or the gallery.
We also never put the real names of victims here, like you did with the name of Alice
Yes, i did
'Alice' never mentioned your name so how is that defamation of character?
no, she didn't. but she wrote a story about tarek and me..she said things and asked questions as if she was me..that is really disturbing. can you understand this ? what if your best friend was going to put something of your life online, would nt you ask that site to take it off ? would you not be angry ? Unless i am completly crazy and senile, i didn t wrote all this on TLR.
 

simple

Major Ratslayer
Tarek and me are separated since 11 months.
So what are you bothered about ??? Your name hasnt been mentioned ,there are no photos of you ,,Why the big deal about everything being removed ??If your not with him ,why do you care .The only one who will benefit from all this is the rat ..Nothing bad was said about him previously ,,untill he started threatening and verbally abusing,,,Why do you care ....No one knew who Alice was talking about ,,untill you came on and told us
 
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Marie Josée

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So what are you bothered about ??? Your name hasnt been mentioned ,there are no photos of you ,,Why the big deal about everything being removed ??If your not with him ,why do you care .The only one who will benefit from all this is the rat ..Nothing bad was said about him previously ,,untill he started threatening and verbally abusing,,,Why do you care ....No one knew who Alice was talking about ,,untill you came on and told us
I don t believe this, so if i understood you well, it is okay for someone to come and ask and talk and mention name of my companion, without problems. do you think that is normal ??? I am angry at the fact than that have happen and everyone here find that normal...I am not with Tarek anymore, but he have never be bad with me and have always traited me well.
yes, i care because althrough he have insulted you, he was insulted too in the way you were calling him a rat. Like i said, he didn t do anything wrong to me. You know , for me a person is still innocent until proved coupable. but on this site, it seems everybody is coupable unless proved innocent.
 

simple

Major Ratslayer
I don t believe this, so if i understood you well, it is okay for someone to come and ask and talk and mention name of my companion, without problems. do you think that is normal ??? I am angry at the fact than that have happen and everyone here find that normal...I am not with Tarek anymore, but he have never be bad with me and have always traited me well.
yes, i care because althrough he have insulted you, he was insulted too in the way you were calling him a rat. Like i said, he didn t do anything wrong to me. You know , for me a person is still innocent until proved coupable. but on this site, it seems everybody is coupable unless proved innocent.
Thats why this site exists ,,,When someone mentions a name ,we wait and see if anyone else knows about him ,,If he wasnt a rat then no one would say they know him ..If he hasnt been bad with you then great ,forget him and get on with your life .Prehaps Alice did you a favour by mentioning him on here .because he certainly knows a lot more women than you thought and when you were living with him..Youve been angry and frustrated by us also ,,,But i dont hear you threaten and intimidate us like him..Its in his makeup to abuse women ,,wether you want to hear this or not ,,he is a bad man and i for one think he should stay in the gallery .As for Alice ,she said nothing against him .
 

mmclean38

Major Ratslayer
Yes, your right. And tarik has the right to come on here and defend him self. This is a open forum. And he is the one named so it is his right to do so. But it also is their right when he gets verbally ugly and threatening to to take him off. So as long as he wants to be like that then they will keep kicking him off. But you have not been accused or named. Really you have no legal ground to stand on. And I know you say he was backed in a corner and was just reacting to our attitudes towards him. But there is never an excuse for getting threatening towards someone. I'm sorry but it's the truth.
 
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.I am not with Tarek anymore, but he have never be bad with me and have always traited me well.
He lied to you. He has a wife and child in Europe
he made an islamic marriage with you because he knew that he could not make a civil one and did not tell you that this is illegal
he cannot have worked a day in all the years you were there since you wrote that you were with him night and day.
If that´s your idea of been treated well, so be it
 
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katt1828

Major Ratslayer
Thats why this site exists ,,,When someone mentions a name ,we wait and see if anyone else knows about him ,,If he wasnt a rat then no one would say they know him ..If he hasnt been bad with you then great ,forget him and get on with your life .Prehaps Alice did you a favour by mentioning him on here .because he certainly knows a lot more women than you thought and when you were living with him..Youve been angry and frustrated by us also ,,,But i dont hear you threaten and intimidate us like him..Its in his makeup to abuse women ,,wether you want to hear this or not ,,he is a bad man and i for one think he should stay in the gallery .As for Alice ,she said nothing against him .
Exactly. If anything it sounded like she was trying to prove he was a good guy.
 

Sun rise

Major Ratslayer
What i don’t understand is that your so negative about this site! The name is
tunisianloverats.com so no pink glasses or sweet stories! If you want to sue just take your best shot because we didn't do anything illegale. And i wonder how the judge will react when he is going to see or hear the ' sweet ' post of Tarek ;)
 

FoolInLove

Major Ratslayer
Tarek and me are separated since 11 months.
But you came here claiming you where angry on behalf of you and HIM.
And not once have you mentioned his behavior.
And like Simple said, NO one would ever have known who the hell you are.
I can´t find head or tail in any of it anymore, but one thing is clear Tarek is a nasty piece of Shite. Dirty mouth and ugly moral.
And yes we warn others against rats, and when they are nasty we backfire. But the dirty way he threatened a member who was NOT the one who have posted him here is evil and over the line!
And forTarek being your companion and that he treated you well - All the rats here, could have someone come here and say the same. All the corrupt rats have a fan club of their own unfortunately..
 

mmclean38

Major Ratslayer
Sure, she knew all this details. she was my best friends and the one who worked with me. So, it was easy for her to know all those details like you said. i was trusting her completly with my confidences. i suppose that in a way it was my own fault. i should have shut up and said nothing to her. but she was my best friend at that time.
I believe all of us can have full understanding of this. This would be a horrible way for a friend to act, and if this is the case well you could not have known. You were just trusting a friend.
But please understand there is another point to this web site, and whole other point of view. These ladies have full understanding and knowledge that these men sometimes play several women at one time. They use the same scams, props, and stories. So this means that one women can come on here and tell her story. And it can in fact sound to another women to be her story.
 

olderandwiser

Major Ratslayer
To finish with this, i must add that i left Douz for health reasons. I am not with Tarek anymore for nearly 11 months but we still friend.
I can assure you that while living with Tarek, i have been very happy and he was very nice and considerate with me.
I just got caught up on the Alice saga on the other thread and I don't think she is who you think she is (i.e. your friend). In the other thread it quickly became obvious that she was in love with this Tarek fellow, desperately wanted to believe everything he was telling her and refused to recognize signs of his rattery when other members pointed them out to her. Your name never came up. In her eyes, this was a single 30 year old man with no other women in his life at all. She maintained, over and over again, that since (a) he hadn't asked her for money and (b) their talks of starting a business together was just talk and (c) that he'd been married before but his wife died then ergo he must be the real deal. It was only after another member did some research and found out that Tarek had never been married to a Tunisian woman as he claimed. He was in fact married to a European woman with whom he had a child. He was well known as a dodgy character in the community and had not worked where he claimed to have worked. Even then, Alice refused to believe this could be "her Tarek" until she was given the physical description of the "bad Tarek". Hardly a woman who came on the site just to spout Shite about the guy--she wanted to believe. Again, she never mentioned you or the existence of any other woman.
 
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Zensis

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Hello Heidi, and an the women, who are involved in this story,

as I have seen that you don´t stop writing about Tarek Ben Minoun I want to clear a lot. May be you understand, I hope y are intelligent women.

At first, I am a journalist and drive a lot, specially into arabian countries, because I like this places of the world with their culture and people and so on. I have some good tunesian friends in my town.. in my mothers house there was a nice familie from Hamamet. And they had very good connections, about that I have some more tunisian friends here from more than 30 years. I know the mentality and I can not imagine that tunisian woman are able to write this bad and ugly words about anyone, specially if they don´t know the person. May be I am wrong, would like to know where they are coming from. They must have had very bad and sad past.
I tell you something: Before you judge about anyone you have to proof both sides very good and don´t forget the human rights. About that you can get a lot of trouble with the justice, because it´s not allowed to do it, speciall in Google. They have their rules too.

To my person: when I planed to go to Douz for some vacation, one of the ladys from here has relativies in Douz and she namend Tarek as a good travel guide for the desert and Matmata I wanted to go. So we came in contact at the beginning of 2016. We called and did write a lot, nearly each day, because we found out, that we have a lot in common. Then I came to Douz and we are a couple since then.
I can only say the best of him, He is a very responsible person with a big heart, intelligent and the best friend you can have. There was no reason not to trust him, he didnt´ask me for anything. He only was giving. And - there is nothing to get from me, I am a normal woman, have to work hard like everybody here.

I am not a victim of Tarek, I clear it now.
Found your homepage by a hap, because I am interested in everything about Tunisia and specially the area Douz. I was more than shoked when I saw, what the women are writing there. We would say no niveau, never. So many bad words so ugly and hatefully, what´s wrong with these women? I did read the whole story two times and saw, that his ex-girlfriend didn´t talk bad about him, she made no business with him, gave him no money - and the story about his european woman and a son is not proofed. And about that no reason to name him a rat. That would be his privat thing. But in the meanwhile I know it´s all a lie.

I talked about that with Tarek and saied I will get an account on this platform and try to get informations about everything and specially a contact to his Ex Alice. I made me to a "victim" to get more informations perhaps and the contact. You remember our conversation. But when I saw there are still two other women searching for him, I was sure, there´s something wrong. this women are not looking for him, they must have other reasons, may be to make him bad again. May be the girlfriend who acted as Alice (I know now). I guessed it because of the way of writing. That was only a feeling, but I think that was right my feeling. Because nobody of you shows his real personality. I am not used to that. In my job we are fair, have rules and we respect each humans rights. Show me your face. Now you know who Zensis is.

After that - not getting a contact I stopped writing because of all this negative women. Only wrote a little commentar about being fair.
So now you know about me. I am not a victim . I love Tarek and I respect him as a very good friend and may be more for ever. I am very happy, to have found him, I know his brothers and sisters. And that´s a good family. He invited my family to visit him. I have a son and we will see him soon. We all have contact - also the Tunisian family - with him. And about that: he is not fat, he is big and I love that, he is a nice man, and how he walks - I like it too. And - I am not an ugly woman...

You can be sure; I know a lot about Tunisian rats and love scammers. Allready did knew about before Tarek came in my life. Germany is not the end of the world. And I am a journalist and know what´s going on. I allready did read about this before I got in contact with Tarek. And he gave me no brainwash. I am very clear in my mind and brain. And love doesn´t make me blind.
And Marie Jose cleared it all, you should believe here.

So I wish you all the best, and don´t forget: everything bad you do to anyone comes back to you.
Regards
 

magic

Major Ratslayer
You have just disproved everything Marie Josie has said by confirming Alice is his ex,when mj has been banging on about her being a jealous friend of hers ! At least get your stories straight, cos as u say ,we are intelligent women,and these discrepancies are getting very tedious ! He had a chance to explain his side ,but being a generic ,uneducated rat could only do so by insulting ....always about sex...and threatening! U did not read that ? And love DOESN'T make u blind hhh ! And ,finally ,yes wat goes around.....and that is exactly wat is happening here for this rat,he's been cornered ,and showing his fangs ! Good luck u are GOING TO NEED IT
 
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Oh Geez. Really?
Apparently this must really REALLY bother him: trying to open accounts after being banned and sending his fan club in to post.
If anything it's only hurting him more, as you ladies know, by bumping the thread and showing his true colors
Yeah :D
 

Big Bang Theory

Senior Rat Expert
Hello Heidi, and an the women, who are involved in this story,

as I have seen that you don´t stop writing about Tarek Ben Minoun I want to clear a lot. May be you understand, I hope y are intelligent women.

At first, I am a journalist and drive a lot, specially into arabian countries, because I like this places of the world with their culture and people and so on. I have some good tunesian friends in my town.. in my mothers house there was a nice familie from Hamamet. And they had very good connections, about that I have some more tunisian friends here from more than 30 years. I know the mentality and I can not imagine that tunisian woman are able to write this bad and ugly words about anyone, specially if they don´t know the person. May be I am wrong, would like to know where they are coming from. They must have had very bad and sad past.
I tell you something: Before you judge about anyone you have to proof both sides very good and don´t forget the human rights. About that you can get a lot of trouble with the justice, because it´s not allowed to do it, speciall in Google. They have their rules too.

To my person: when I planed to go to Douz for some vacation, one of the ladys from here has relativies in Douz and she namend Tarek as a good travel guide for the desert and Matmata I wanted to go. So we came in contact at the beginning of 2016. We called and did write a lot, nearly each day, because we found out, that we have a lot in common. Then I came to Douz and we are a couple since then.
I can only say the best of him, He is a very responsible person with a big heart, intelligent and the best friend you can have. There was no reason not to trust him, he didnt´ask me for anything. He only was giving. And - there is nothing to get from me, I am a normal woman, have to work hard like everybody here.

I am not a victim of Tarek, I clear it now.
Found your homepage by a hap, because I am interested in everything about Tunisia and specially the area Douz. I was more than shoked when I saw, what the women are writing there. We would say no niveau, never. So many bad words so ugly and hatefully, what´s wrong with these women? I did read the whole story two times and saw, that his ex-girlfriend didn´t talk bad about him, she made no business with him, gave him no money - and the story about his european woman and a son is not proofed. And about that no reason to name him a rat. That would be his privat thing. But in the meanwhile I know it´s all a lie.

I talked about that with Tarek and saied I will get an account on this platform and try to get informations about everything and specially a contact to his Ex Alice. I made me to a "victim" to get more informations perhaps and the contact. You remember our conversation. But when I saw there are still two other women searching for him, I was sure, there´s something wrong. this women are not looking for him, they must have other reasons, may be to make him bad again. May be the girlfriend who acted as Alice (I know now). I guessed it because of the way of writing. That was only a feeling, but I think that was right my feeling. Because nobody of you shows his real personality. I am not used to that. In my job we are fair, have rules and we respect each humans rights. Show me your face. Now you know who Zensis is.

After that - not getting a contact I stopped writing because of all this negative women. Only wrote a little commentar about being fair.
So now you know about me. I am not a victim . I love Tarek and I respect him as a very good friend and may be more for ever. I am very happy, to have found him, I know his brothers and sisters. And that´s a good family. He invited my family to visit him. I have a son and we will see him soon. We all have contact - also the Tunisian family - with him. And about that: he is not fat, he is big and I love that, he is a nice man, and how he walks - I like it too. And - I am not an ugly woman...

You can be sure; I know a lot about Tunisian rats and love scammers. Allready did knew about before Tarek came in my life. Germany is not the end of the world. And I am a journalist and know what´s going on. I allready did read about this before I got in contact with Tarek. And he gave me no brainwash. I am very clear in my mind and brain. And love doesn´t make me blind.
And Marie Jose cleared it all, you should believe here.

So I wish you all the best, and don´t forget: everything bad you do to anyone comes back to you.
Regards
 

Belladonna

Major Ratslayer
That's how you feel about him and that's your right. But does not take away from how he treated others and their words.
Regardless of how many cheerleaders come in here it will NEVER take away his horrible vile words to the women here. And worse of all his THREATS to a member here.
So if you continue to deal with him be very careful as he has a nasty vile side he has not shown you yet.
 
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