Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
If this is correct I assure you it was an honest mistake
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i see it in post, and i not him.
also if i was the brother, i will not register with the same name.
in eralier post, it says that other member do not know for sure if he has brother named mourad or not.
all this is just mistake of name.
Unicorn
Ratslayer
Reading your comments I can see that you are a friend with good intentions, you are so concerned for your friend. With Icon coming forward this must have put you in a awkward position as to whether to tell your friend about this guy or not I was wondering have you told her or at least given her any sort of hint?
Tinker-lulu
Major Ratslayer
ermm reading your post I see you already call him "a tunisian Rat"... I think your friend will want to see the signs what a love rat is, maybe you can show her this site and let her see for herself, remember 2 is company 3 is a crowd, sometimes no matter our intentions are as a friend you can not let them see the truth, good luck with that 
Ok I am sorry for thisi see it in post, and i not him.
also if i was the brother, i will not register with the same name.
in eralier post, it says that other member do not know for sure if he has brother named mourad or not.
all this is just mistake of name.
Well HE has finished our relationship and says he has never cheated on me and says anyone can get his pic off the hotel website it is ok icon, i hope you are good and find solution and have nice life
Well HE has finished our relationship and says he has never cheated on me and says anyone can get his pic off the hotel website
I sorry to hear this, but i think maybe it was excuse to keep relationship with other member friend? i think intention of him are bad, i not know, but i think it is good if ends soon, cause later, u wil suffer from his lies maybe, i not know.
if he says never cheated, why there is a post about the member friend? if anyone can get his pic off the hotel website, he thinks that someone is setting him up and cause trouble?
i hope u feel good now and think of good things in life, u fine i hope.
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
But most likely they would not post a pic here unless they were involved or hurt by them. I hope that someone would not be that devious as to put a photo here just because she was dumped or mad.. again something a childish teenager would do maybeWell HE has finished our relationship and says he has never cheated on me and says anyone can get his pic off the hotel website
Unicorn
Ratslayer
I thought you said previously, that you both agreed to be friends, so there was no relationship for him to finish, he just tried to get the upper hand.Well HE has finished our relationship and says he has never cheated on me and says anyone can get his pic off the hotel website
Is the photo that was posted on here of him, easily to find on the hotel website, I thought it was more of a personal photo.
I know its hard Icon, but your best off away from him, have good cry, put your big girl pants on and move on and find someone who truly loves you and just you.
yes i knew he was using her straight away i originally posted a few months ago, its taken a lot to open her eyesermm reading your post I see you already call him "a tunisian Rat"... I think your friend will want to see the signs what a love rat is, maybe you can show her this site and let her see for herself, remember 2 is company 3 is a crowd, sometimes no matter our intentions are as a friend you can not let them see the truth, good luck with that
when i first posted i was just looking for back up to show my friend she needed to cut him out i never expected to find they were both getting played by the same guy honestly these tunisian men have some balls to think they can get away with it. but yes i've shared with her of course!
when all the other infomation matches name age siblings jobs etc matches he can't truly think he can still play innocent. I'm so sorry you're better off withoutWell HE has finished our relationship and says he has never cheated on me and says anyone can get his pic off the hotel website
I agree with you hun… I’m not saying I believe him just telling you all what he’s said lol
Has she confronted him? I bet he’s said the same to her that he’s said to me again! Lol
Yes that was him! I think it is a personal photo and ermm put it on the hotels facebook page. It is hard as it’s been nearly 12 months since we met and in those 12 months we have made so many plans! Also I have shared with him a medical diagnosis and he’s been really supportive but then again how genuine was that now I’ve found all this out!
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
Well as long as you know the truth!
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
Leaves you wondering about anything he has said. And with good reason. But at the end of the day, hope you are ok
Thank you
Well HE has finished our relationship and says he has never cheated on me and says anyone can get his pic off the hotel website
He hasn't finished your relationship, he's just Gaslighting you.
He'll be back..... oh baby I miss you so much my love, why you do that to me, i can't live without you blahblahblah
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Big Bang Theory
Senior Rat Expert
Gaslighting - a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in their victim's mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person, by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition.
Big Bang Theory
Senior Rat Expert
Yep, they never cut up a credit card/visa application, they put it away but get it out every now and then to see if it wlill work again.
He'll be back in a few days, a week, a month, maybe a year or two. I got a phone call after 5 years!! Apparently he'd been missing me all that time, did nothing but cry, 5 years of heartbreak blahblahblah
Strange that, as a few of his victims had posted on here during that time
Tinker-lulu
Major Ratslayer
I had one like that, I asked him straight... do you want to marry me to obtain a Visa? and to my surprise he said Yes, I was grateful for his reply because I told him that was marriage of convenience and I was not going to beak the law, he still keeps in touch sometimes but that's all , , he's not a bad guy but now he knows I wont comply, I showed him that I wont be used that way, I made my stand and he knows that I don't play that game! so yes a bit of respect on his part.
Ask your friend to ask straight him if He just want a Visa and see what he says and just keep it as a friendship without a serious relationship.
Hey i don't know if you're still on here, but i caught up with my friend yesterday who was telling me that she was still in contact with him, he's finished his military training and is now working in nebul i think she said something about him having weekends off and going back home to gafsa when he can on the weekends.
I don't know if you're still talking to him but in case you are
Hi yes I am still in touch with him and he wants me to go over to him next month, he has told me he’s still in the military but is studying at the moment in the military…. Thank you for letting me know hun I really appreciate it
QueenV
Junior Rat Expert
You are absolutely right Moonshine I asked my rat to pay for things and he would never say no but he never actually keeps his promise and he can make you wait for years until you finally give up waiting Oh and when I ask him where his’s been for the past 8,10, 12 hours that he can’t message me his answer is I need to work because you ask me to pay
Aisha1
Major Ratslayer
The real problem is you should not have to ask him to pay anything, he should already be doing that as a man.
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QueenV
Junior Rat Expert
Yes, you are right Aisha1
I wouldn't be spending any money to go back and see him but thats just me
