SouthernGirl
Major Ratslayer
I imagine his face when you told him to pay this time! Lol! Good for you. That’s what they all need to hear.
Warning signs to those involved with North African men
- Thread starter catrin
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Did not dare to be alone with one of these men in an apartment
Yes it is cruel but if but if a lady is with someone who is 25 years younger than her then she should understand the game why he chooses her and not a young girl. Everything is folded in front of her if she is not blind
confuseddotcom
Major Ratslayer
They do occasionally get their fake Gucci wallets out but even then you WILL at some point be paying it back! There WILL be a family crisis to follow suit! That money is never theirs!
confuseddotcom
Major Ratslayer
Emotional, financial, physical... investment. You invest so much time and money into these relationships and face it most of us hate having to start all over again, with a new man and new BS lol. You convince yourself that it’s better the devil you know. Rats on the other hand invest little to nothing, plus they’re usually juggling a few on the go so no love lost. That’s why they’re able to move on so quickly. The less a guy invests the less he plans to stick around.
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
Good riddance and money saved plus your time!!!!
Don't forget the insults the disrespect we pay them to bestow on us and the hardest word to say is sorry to us they hate you so much but can't leave you because theve become addicated to your money
They think woman are stupid yes we are in one way to put up with a tunisisns man's mentality why we put up with up with it??? well i walked away i diid not give him the satisfaction off finishing it or ghosting me
Nevet again in my lufe will I trust a tunisian again they are the most narrsastic men in the world vile masty pieces off shite they treat woman as beneath them
We need to walk away from them and stop making excuses for the rats no money no gifts let them pay let them.buy you will see the true colours when u refuse and u ask them to buy and pay !!!!!!!
confuseddotcom
Major Ratslayer
Yes this is 100% one of the only ways to see if they’re genuine - make them pay or at least contribute. They find a way to save thousands for their “halal” weddings so why can’t they drop a few hundred for a plane ticket.
Believe that it is easier for men to go and it seems that infidelity is common in Tunisia and that they often have other women on say even though they are married. Understand that it is not easy to go if you have children with them but the fact is that you destroy yourself and the kids. In some cultures it is not acceptable to get divorced but if you live in cruel conditions then you have to make a choice in the end because such conditions are not good
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Aisha1
Senior Rat Expert
We pay 600 dinar per month and our apartments is 2 bedrooms 3 balconies and 1 block from beachYeah I know how that is I pd for week in apt and the car driver and whatever else.... how stupid was iand not just once ..so glad that’s over!
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
I pd a lot more then that for 1 wk guess I pd finder fee and this scmuck is still asking for money... together? NO
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
Of course it was vacation rental if that makes a differenceI pd a lot more then that for 1 wk guess I pd finder fee and this scmuck is still asking for money... together? NO
Yes, that makes a huge difference.
An Appartment can be 600pm on an annual contract but 1,000+ a week in the height of the season, if it's in a popular tourist location
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
I’d rather it be that then a finder fee for the rats
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
But I was there once in April once in November and then last in December...all vacation time??I’d rather it be that then a finder fee for the rats
April and September should be cheaper.
April can be quite warm and also Easter is a Holliday period for tourists so maybe 600-750 a week.
November can be cold and not many tourists so price would be around 300-400 a week.
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
Oh not for me.... grrrrrr yes very cold
Etoyoc
Major Ratslayer
None of it, at least not in the bigger Sousse region (nope, not even Eastern, because then most hotels offer very good deals to Tunisians). You also won't need to pay a "finders fee" at all, actually, just look at the houses near the hotels areas. The little signs with numbers on it - they are all rentals.
If you feel like it, you can even use other methods. For example, sit is a Cafe and ask the waiter if he knows someone in the neighbourhood who rents apartments and then walk over there. Or, what I do sometimes, simply walk slowly along the streets with the rental signs, look closely at them ... and it won't take long until someone comes and offers you an apartment.
The longer you stay, the more you can bring the price down - 1 week is more expensive than 2, and 2 or more than 3 (price per day, that is).
Avoid holiday times, July-September, then it will be difficult to get some acceptable price ... unless you got a rental car and settle 1 town away from the beach ... or in a worse part of the beach town.
Etoyoc
Major Ratslayer
Don't go for an apartment with defunct heating or A/C. The weather is usually nice until mid december (unless the north coast), sometimes rain, but mostly sunny and 20+ °C; water temperatures are, until end of December, still higher than in June.
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
The apartment we stayed in had no heat in November rather cool!!Don't go for an apartment with defunct heating or A/C. The weather is usually nice until mid december (unless the north coast), sometimes rain, but mostly sunny and 20+ °C; water temperatures are, until end of December, still higher than in June.
Etoyoc
Major Ratslayer
Oh yes, I can imagine that. And it will stay that way until May. Even when it is warm outside, it takes some time until the building heats up - needs at least 15C at night and 23C in the day. More and more of the recently built apartments are connected to district heating or gas lines, though.
The difference between Tunisia and Western Europe is: Europeans go in winter out for walks and get back home to warm up - Tunisians go out and sit in the sun to recover from the cold night, hehe (been there, done that...). If you got such an apartment, be sure to have a warming bottle with you and a functioning full bath with hot water ... you will need it, both.
The difference between Tunisia and Western Europe is: Europeans go in winter out for walks and get back home to warm up - Tunisians go out and sit in the sun to recover from the cold night, hehe (been there, done that...). If you got such an apartment, be sure to have a warming bottle with you and a functioning full bath with hot water ... you will need it, both.
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
We at least had some hot water I didn’t wash my hair the whole time too cold but I can go a week without washing it anyway.. thank goodnessOh yes, I can imagine that. And it will stay that way until May. Even when it is warm outside, it takes some time until the building heats up - needs at least 15C at night and 23C in the day. More and more of the recently built apartments are connected to district heating or gas lines, though.
The difference between Tunisia and Western Europe is: Europeans go in winter out for walks and get back home to warm up - Tunisians go out and sit in the sun to recover from the cold night, hehe (been there, done that...). If you got such an apartment, be sure to have a warming bottle with you and a functioning full bath with hot water ... you will need it, both.
I was very stupid, my ex-rat asked £ 1200 to rent a car and accommodation for a week, of course, besides that there were also expenses for restaurants, clothes and gifts ...I pd a lot more then that for 1 wk guess I pd finder fee and this scmuck is still asking for money... together? NO
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
Yes of course
Are they still married? I hope not . They have no respect for women and many unfortunately make a big buck by believing that they are really interested in them. Basically, it's all about money and a residence permit
if you look at how these men behave, you see that when they are with their friends, they overlook their wives. It seems to me that they make fun of her especially when they laugh and speak their language. Who knows what they are really talking about ???? If you are lucky and understand the language, you save yourself in many situations, I think. Believe that all of us on this site have learned that it does not pay to be naive
