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Amira

Major Ratslayer
I qgree my friend is Married to the most wonderful tunisisn man theve been martied 13 years and have 3 gorgeous children the good genuine tunisian that do love are being pushed into the rats names its not right and theses men I do realy feel sorry for the genuine tunisian man looking for love i have always said that a percentage off tunisian men are real and loving its a shame the rats do this as they give most tunisian men a bad name qnd that's certainly not the case xx
Are they the same age. Your girlfriend and her husband. In fact, I think age has a lot to say
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
I qgree my friend is Married to the most wonderful tunisisn man theve been martied 13 years and have 3 gorgeous children the good genuine tunisian that do love are being pushed into the rats names its not right and theses men I do realy feel sorry for the genuine tunisian man looking for love i have always said that a percentage off tunisian men are real and loving its a shame the rats do this as they give most tunisian men a bad name qnd that's certainly not the case xx
I’m sure the good ones will shine thru and find a love of his life and vice versa this is the case in the whole world good ones and bad ones we just happened upon charming rats what a shame I wonder if the rats will ever acquire real love and happiness
 

Moonshine1

Major Ratslayer
I’m sure the good ones will shine thru and find a love of his life and vice versa this is the case in the whole world good ones and bad ones we just happened upon charming rats what a shame I wonder if the rats will ever acquire real love and happiness
They will always the rats pine for more and more and i don't think they will ever be happy in life or love ,
 

Amira

Major Ratslayer
No there is a few years difference and there are inlove like the first day ,he adores her snd dotes on his children but he knows off the rats and says he's ashamed off them ,they go back once a year and they both say the country is not the same any more , xx
They think that Tunisia has changed for the worse. I was there a few years ago and yes it has become more Islamic.
 

MarinaHi

Ratslayer
A little sad
they say that they want to change their lives and therefore go to Europe. But this is not the case. They don't change anything. They are lazy, they continue to deceive, cheat, disrespect women. Women give them a chance for a new life, but they continue to live like rats. They will never change. They are selfish, they don't need a family. My rat said that when he left for Germany, he would collect clothes there that people throw away and sell them in Tunisia. I'm shocked! Is he going to Europe to go to trash cans? Fu! Dream of such a life? This is wealth for them ??? !!
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
they say that they want to change their lives and therefore go to Europe. But this is not the case. They don't change anything. They are lazy, they continue to deceive, cheat, disrespect women. Women give them a chance for a new life, but they continue to live like rats. They will never change. They are selfish, they don't need a family. My rat said that when he left for Germany, he would collect clothes there that people throw away and sell them in Tunisia. I'm shocked! Is he going to Europe to go to trash cans? Fu! Dream of such a life? This is wealth for them ??? !!
Yeah it’s hard to imagine them changing their ways because the majority of them are scamming money from women who would want to work for mere change after getting hundreds off women
 

MarinaHi

Ratslayer
Who can they work in Europe if they only walked on the beach or danced in a hotel? Do they think they will be given a good job and a big salary? Now quarantined, they have been sitting in a cafe and on the couch at home for almost 2 years. They don't know what labor is. They cannot work 8-10 hours. They will cry that they are tired. Do they think women will always pay for them?
 

confuseddotcom

Major Ratslayer
they say that they want to change their lives and therefore go to Europe. But this is not the case. They don't change anything. They are lazy, they continue to deceive, cheat, disrespect women. Women give them a chance for a new life, but they continue to live like rats. They will never change. They are selfish, they don't need a family. My rat said that when he left for Germany, he would collect clothes there that people throw away and sell them in Tunisia. I'm shocked! Is he going to Europe to go to trash cans? Fu! Dream of such a life? This is wealth for them ??? !!
They have rotten souls, so they can never be truly happy. Even if they “make it”, what’s a cold, empty mansion gonna feel like when they’ve lied, sinned and robbed their way there. As you said they never change. A part of me believes they enjoy cheating others. It’s almost a sport.
 

yougogirl75

Major Ratslayer
They dont need a site they sit in coffee duscussung all the tactics and show your photos off make aughter about you and say many things to each other about each wifes and gfs be careful what you send what you do every thong is scrutinised by the rats ,they brag off what gifts u bought them and invite them unbeknown to you and expect you to foot bill
Di u think when his friends suddenly appear its by accident iff course not the rat has informed them where he is !!!!!
I wonder how my ex-rat knows when to move in on a rat friends relationship when its over. I mean its like they do some networking. Of course us ladies support each other but I know of a few women who had broken up with a Tunisian rat, and are chatted up by another claiming to understand them. I don't like that its like being passed around. I think it is desperation that another rat takes the other rat's girlfriend, fiancé or wife on the rebound just getting over the breakup, I mean it is absolutely disgusting. This Tunisian rat was married and had a girlfriend, she knew he was married and he did not want her anymore so he passed her over to another Tunisian rat that was single. I mean I cannot make this stuff up, its so unreal what they do!
 
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Moonshine1

Major Ratslayer
I wonder how my ex-rat knows when to move in on a rat friends relationship when its over. I mean its like they do some networking. Of course us ladies support each other but I know of a few women who had broken up with a Tunisian rat, and are chatted up by another claiming to understand them. I don't like that its like being passed around. I think it is desperation that another rat takes the other rat's girlfriend, fiance or wife, I mean it is absolutely disgusting.
Wow its a passing on when u finish a rat he passes your name on to other rats and gives information about u to them u are passed onto all rats through coffee places and messages !!!
 

Moonshine1

Major Ratslayer
How did you find this out?
Its easy to find out why do u think they know when a break up has occurred snd I saw my rats messages and his friends messages discussing women sex and sending degrading porn to each other and when his friemds were together they would laugh about it all do u think they care who's listening no they don't when I confronted my rat about this he was shocked at me and said its only jokes men talk !!!!
 

Bubbly

Major Ratslayer
I wonder how my ex-rat knows when to move in on a rat friends relationship when its over. I mean its like they do some networking. Of course us ladies support each other but I know of a few women who had broken up with a Tunisian rat, and are chatted up by another claiming to understand them. I don't like that its like being passed around. I think it is desperation that another rat takes the other rat's girlfriend, fiancé or wife on the rebound just getting over the breakup, I mean it is absolutely disgusting. This Tunisian rat was married and had a girlfriend, she knew he was married and he did not want her anymore so he passed her over to another Tunisian rat that was single. I mean I cannot make this stuff up, its so unreal what they do!
I have seen it done here. They keep phone numbers of girls/women who could be useful to them and exchange them. It show how much respect they had for them. It is scary. Thank god I was never bothered by any other Tunisian but as he told me if a girl seems particularly stupid or easy, she will be preyed on by quite a few.
 

MarinaHi

Ratslayer
I wonder how my ex-rat knows when to move in on a rat friends relationship when its over. I mean its like they do some networking. Of course us ladies support each other but I know of a few women who had broken up with a Tunisian rat, and are chatted up by another claiming to understand them. I don't like that its like being passed around. I think it is desperation that another rat takes the other rat's girlfriend, fiancé or wife on the rebound just getting over the breakup, I mean it is absolutely disgusting. This Tunisian rat was married and had a girlfriend, she knew he was married and he did not want her anymore so he passed her over to another Tunisian rat that was single. I mean I cannot make this stuff up, its so unreal what they do!
I'm in shock!!! It's awful!
 

Moonshine1

Major Ratslayer
I have seen it done here. They keep phone numbers of girls/women who could be useful to them and exchange them. It show how much respect they had for them. It is scary. Thank god I was never bothered by any other Tunisian but as he told me if a girl seems particularly stupid or easy, she will be preyed on by quite a few.
It dosent matter if your stupid or easy pray they will hit on you as it depends on the rat nothing else if he passes u around through messages or coffee then u will be inundated with requests once u add a million more come zooming in but even if the rat had genuine feelings for u but was influenced by family/ friends u will see no matter how much his feelings are for u money greed will always come first before love !
 

yougogirl75

Major Ratslayer
It dosent matter if your stupid or easy pray they will hit on you as it depends on the rat nothing else if he passes u around through messages or coffee then u will be inundated with requests once u add a million more come zooming in but even if the rat had genuine feelings for u but was influenced by family/ friends u will see no matter how much his feelings are for u money greed will always come first before love !
I think its not only through messages or coffee shops, they also infiltrate through other North African rats. I mean I had a friend from Morocco for 10 years way before him nothing but mutual respect and my ex-rat managed to go through him and relay messages. Not only did he ruin the long lasting friendship I had but also got away with living the rat life as usual. The ex-rat could not let me as the victim go, no that would be beneath him to do that. During the last time I was in Tunisia he stated he even told strangers at the coffee shop about us, but I really knew it was other rats or the friends.
How would it serve him to brag to strangers anyways?
You would think someone like me who gave his life meaning that he would not want to betray my trust.
I was more like a rare diamond and I see myself that way that was worthy of so much better!

Who does that, he obviously had no respect for any relationship! Heck, the ex-rat even told me about his exes, and he had nothing good to say while he was getting money from these victims. And who is to say they were exes anyways?
What he failed to understand is that I can see through the lies and deception!
Maybe I failed to connect the dots until later, but thank God I got support from here!
No free rides for the ex-rat to anywhere!
Life during the pandemic has been hard, earned my way through hard work through life so why should anyone else get a free ride!
 
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Butterflies

Major Ratslayer
I think its not only through messages or coffee shops, they also infiltrate through other North African rats. I mean I had a friend from Morocco for 10 years way before him nothing but mutual respect and my ex-rat managed to go through him and relay messages. Not only did he ruin the long lasting friendship I had but also got away with living the rat life as usual. The ex-rat could not let me as the victim go, no that would be beneath him to do that. During the last time I was in Tunisia he stated he even told strangers at the coffee shop about us, but I really knew it was other rats or the friends.
How would it serve him to brag to strangers anyways?
You would think someone like me who gave his life meaning that he would not want to betray my trust.
I was more like a rare diamond and I see myself that way that was worthy of so much better!

Who does that, he obviously had no respect for any relationship! Heck, the ex-rat even told me about his exes, and he had nothing good to say while he was getting money from these victims. And who is to say they were exes anyways?
What he failed to understand is that I can see through the lies and deception!
Maybe I failed to connect the dots until later, but thank God I got support from here!
No free rides for the ex-rat to anywhere!
Life during the pandemic has been hard, earned my way through hard work through life so why should anyone else get a free ride!
It's healing you can write it all down here at the forum and it will give you some kind of insight into what he was doing all these years. They try to pass victims to other rats but as soon as you learn their tricks you will see right through all the déception. They don't care what you look like or how old you are it's just a business plan for them. I am happy you find comfort on writing it here and it really helps to know you are not alone as we all know it gives us time to heal and move on with life. It will make him crazy to know you don't need him because he needed you more than you needed him. You can perfectly life without a devious rat in your life soon this will be a bad memory from the past xx
 

yougogirl75

Major Ratslayer
Because of what I learned on here, I am so wide awake now to what happened.
Knowing what I know now has made me not be so carefree with matters of love.
Not everyone deserves our love or loyalty for that matter.
I had rose-colored glasses on before, how I wish I could go back and time and change things.
It doesn't matter who I was, the ex-rat had conditions and expectations of me which he was not willing to meet on his part
A business arrangement was all it was, from what I know business arrangements require efforts and he could not even do that!! LOL
Even for a rat, he could not even play the game like an aged pro rat like himself! :D :D :D :D :D
You think he would have been a smarter rat, but he kept making the same mistakes over and over!

I know I must be like a broken record talking about it, but it helps me make sense of it all.
You are right, I don't need the ex-rat at all!
I don't think the rat would have ever made it here anyways.
How could I sponsor the rat if his papers cannot show he was married to me?
The rat would never qualify anyways, his own undoing not mine!
I can't fix broken people like him!
I have moved on actually, I am a different person than I was before.
Much stronger, sometimes it requires a lot of will power on my part not to fall to pieces.
 
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Moonshine1

Major Ratslayer
Because of what I learned on here, I am so wide awake now to what happened.
Knowing what I know now has made me not be so carefree with matters of love.
Not everyone deserves our love or loyalty for that matter.
I had rose-colored glasses on before, how I wish I could go back and time and change things.
I know I must be like a broken record talking about it, but it helps me make sense of it all.
You are right, I don't need the ex-rat at all!
I don't think the rat would have ever made it here anyways.
How could I sponsor the rat if his papers cannot show he was married to me?
The rat would never qualify anyways, his own undoing not mine!
I can't fix broken people like him!
I have moved on actually, I am a different person than I was before.
Much stronger, sometimes it requires a lot of will power on my part not to fall to pieces.
I can see how u truly loved him in heart to betray you in everyway is devastating
They just have no reality or concept off hurt pain or damage they do
The jealousy will start when he sees you with someone new snd your deliriously happy with them
Jealous not off the love but jealous that he can't gain no more from you
They realy can never be happy that were taught at an early age to remove feelings put them aside never cry never show feelings
But the rats do they show the feelings for geeed and selfish reasons
But watch when u need them for support they will anger amd feelings are gone
You must only think off them support them give them nothing else u are only a bussiness plan not there habibi or wife your a means to an end till they find something better or have what they need from you
Then ur truly cruel disguarded with out a second thought
Thats why I finished it before he did it to me
And anger with the rat because I walked away still loveing him and i didn't give him the satisfaction off ending it !!
Maybe he wouldn't have ended it
But how many years in my country would I have spent being mentally abused with his mouth !! Sad to think off this when we gave them beautiful true love and all they wanted in life
 

Butterflies

Major Ratslayer
I can see how u truly loved him in heart to betray you in everyway is devastating
They just have no reality or concept off hurt pain or damage they do
The jealousy will start when he sees you with someone new snd your deliriously happy with them
Jealous not off the love but jealous that he can't gain no more from you
They realy can never be happy that were taught at an early age to remove feelings put them aside never cry never show feelings
But the rats do they show the feelings for geeed and selfish reasons
But watch when u need them for support they will anger amd feelings are gone
You must only think off them support them give them nothing else u are only a bussiness plan not there habibi or wife your a means to an end till they find something better or have what they need from you
Then ur truly cruel disguarded with out a second thought
Thats why I finished it before he did it to me
And anger with the rat because I walked away still loveing him and i didn't give him the satisfaction off ending it !!
Maybe he wouldn't have ended it
But how many years in my country would I have spent being mentally abused with his mouth !! Sad to think off this when we gave them beautiful true love and all they wanted in life
Hi @Starlight soon you will feel comfortable to open up about all his bad behaviors towards you in the past. I know it takes time as I think your heart is still in love with him. Your mind knows it already but you need time to heal your heart and allow yourself to be free of him. The knowing you where not the only one for him hurts in every nerve of your body. Let it all out, write it down. Not necessarily here at the forum if you don't like or want that but write a letter to yourself. It's healing to read afterwards knowing you had not any fault in all of this. You cared, loved and gave him all your best he only had regards for his own needs. He is a rat and always will be one. Not any mount of love will cure this he doesn't wanted it he only had money and a visa in mind. Start enjoying life again free from abuse and free of a rat he isn't worth 1 more thought from you xxx
 
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Moonshine1

Major Ratslayer
Hi @Starlight soon you will feel comfortable to open up about all his bad behaviors towards you in the past. I know it takes time as I think your heart is still in love with him. Your mind knows it already but you need time to heal your heart and allow yourself to be free of him. The knowing you where not the only one for him hurts in every nerve of your body. Let it all out, write it down. Not necessarily here at the forum if you don't like or want that but write a letter to yourself. It's healing to read ofterwards knowing you had not any fault in all of this. You cared, loved and gave him all your best he only had regards for his own needs. He is a rat and always will be one. Not any mount of love will cure this he doesn't wanted it he only had money and a visa in mind. Start enjoying life again free from abuse and free of a rat he isn't worth 1 more thought from you xxx
Thank you so much for ur lovely words my life is practically back to normal again
But the trust in relationships has gone
The things that happened were mental abuse worse when he didn't get what he wanted
But there are things u just hide away what happened and I cant speak off them yet
But He didn't get much off my money.
But it wasn't for the want off trying!!
I have never seen anger like this ever ever before it truly was so bad
And i now realise the anger off the rats is for all women not just me i see how the gf and wifes off these rats suffered even to the point off commiting suicide its disgraceful no remorse no shame no respect not even for themselves !!!!
 

Butterflies

Major Ratslayer
Thank you so much for ur lovely words my life is practically back to normal again
But the trust in relationships has gone
The things that happened were mental abuse worse when he didn't get what he wanted
But there are things u just hide away what happened and I cant speak off them yet
But He didn't get much off my money.
But it wasn't for the want off trying!!
I have never seen anger like this ever ever before it truly was so bad
And i now realise the anger off the rats is for all women not just me i see how the gf and wifes off these rats suffered even to the point off commiting suicide its disgraceful no remorse no shame no respect not even for themselves !!!!
They say time heal all wounds but it doesn't always. It hurts deepdown inside of you untill you can place it and move on knowing all of this is in the past. These rats use their anger toward us to scare us and to have their way. They are not adults they are spoiled little boys in an adult body. Life experiences makes us stronger and in my mind women are stronger then men and so are you now your in charge of your own life without a spoiled little boy
 

yougogirl75

Major Ratslayer
Thank you so much for ur lovely words my life is practically back to normal again
But the trust in relationships has gone
The things that happened were mental abuse worse when he didn't get what he wanted
But there are things u just hide away what happened and I cant speak off them yet
But He didn't get much off my money.
But it wasn't for the want off trying!!
I have never seen anger like this ever ever before it truly was so bad
And i now realise the anger off the rats is for all women not just me i see how the gf and wifes off these rats suffered even to the point off commiting suicide its disgraceful no remorse no shame no respect not even for themselves !!!!
Same here, the trust in relationships has gone too!
I never seen a balanced person in my rat, he was either off the wall angry or flying high on emotions.
I did love him but I could only stand so much of his inconsistency, lies and deception after awhile love dies a slow death.
I am not a door mat or a punching bag, and my patience ran out after his messing about, in and out of my life.
Just think I had members of my family die during this time, he was incapable of understanding anything.
And the rat did not know but my father told me not to go and see the rat, and his intuition was spot on.
And my father died after that, I never got to speak to him before he died !
I feel so bad for that :Cry: :Cry: :Cry: :Cry:
Why I remember that it was a dark time and it is my father's birthday today.
At the same time the rat was asking for money when I was burying my father and it was
a disgraceful thing to do, there was a separation after that for a long time.
So I also looked after and cared about these family members because there was no one else.
So I can relate to a woman committing suicide after recognizing the abuse.
When I look at my sons and think how blessed I am, the rat is so not worth it!
 
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Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
Same here, the trust in relationships has gone too!
I never seen a balanced person in my rat, he was either off the wall angry or flying high on emotions.
I did love him but I could only stand so much of his inconsistency, lies and deception after awhile love dies a slow death.
I am not a door mat or a punching bag, and my patience ran out after his messing about, in and out of my life.
Just think I had members of my family die during this time, he was incapable of understanding anything.
And the rat did not know but my father told me not to go and see the rat, and his intuition was spot on.
And my father died after that, I never got to speak to him before he died !
I feel so bad for that :Cry: :Cry: :Cry: :Cry:
Why I remember that it was a dark time and it is my father's birthday today.
At the same time the rat was asking for money when I was burying my father and it was
a disgraceful thing to do, there was a separation after that for a long time.
So I also looked after and cared about these family members because there was no one else.
So I can relate to a woman committing suicide after recognizing the abuse.
When I look at my sons and think how blessed I am, the rat is so not worth it!
So sorry about your dad and may he Rest In Peace try to celebrate today for him knowing that the rat is in his miserable little life. The only thing on the rats mind is the trip to the post office to pick up money transfer. They are not capable of true genuine feelings! Whereas we we are genuine people but enough is enough! HAPPY DAY:)
 

yougogirl75

Major Ratslayer
So sorry about your dad and may he Rest In Peace try to celebrate today for him knowing that the rat is in his miserable little life. The only thing on the rats mind is the trip to the post office to pick up money transfer. They are not capable of true genuine feelings! Whereas we we are genuine people but enough is enough! HAPPY DAY:)
Thank you Sabrina, we are celebrating today! Yes, I am sure he is there right now to pick up his charity fund, the rat has to have his internet and coffee shop/smokes/alcohol/cell phone allowance LOL.
I am sure he told his victims it was to keep in touch and maybe put a little show on the webcam as a treat :D :D :D :D
:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:
Ain't he a sexy thang with his six pack abs, reminds me of Gumby I don't know why?? LOL
I know, it is all fake with the rats!
 

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