@Sabrina I will exit the forum if you will stay, because you are completely right, the forum is more for support and ranting, I’m not part of it and I don’t belong here. Im Muslim, Arab and married to a Tunisian, soon mother to Tunisian Lebanese Muslim boy, so that’s my position. I apologize if I don’t agree and differ in my opinion on certain views and topics, especially when all Tunisians and often Muslims are labeled as liars, scammers… just negative words in general…. Nothing to do with rats. I have different perspective to a lot of the topics discussed…. I’m sorry I made you uncomfortable or the drama I brought was stressful for you, truly wasn’t my intentions …. I see where you are coming from by disliking me. However I don’t feel I flip flopped, yes we have standards in my religion, as most so… but I have to accept what people do in 2021, I would love to say in a perfect world all Muslim men respected women, courted them and did everything By the book, but it’s just not like that. I practice my religion the best way I know how, I chose to marry a man that followed our rules and beliefs, and I try to advise women asking about decent men the truth about how things should be…. I can’t judge a man and a woman that does things I don’t approve of not following our beliefs, but I can’t be naive to think it doesn’t happen with men that actually care about a woman…. Muslims are not perfect, we sin, but it doesn’t make us scammers or terrible people. As far as knowing prices, giving culture or religious advice.. I’m sure someone will advise for future. I sympathize with all the women here on the forum and I’m so sorry these rats took advantage and made you feel special. Best of luck and may Allah give good healthy feelings to all.