Well, I went to Tunisia in Aug to see my rat in real life

[Sabrina]

Sometimes not always.
There are men who respect their mother and who still will disrespect women. The way they treat their mother is not always going to match how they’ll treat other women. Especially if the mother didn’t teach her children to treat people right and if she criticizes other women and tell him that women are bad. So it’s not always an indication here.

True my rats brother beats there hell out of his gf I’m sure he didn’t treat mom like that

 

[Jennie]

Really bizarre post , you tell us all he’s fake , a rat , you know he’s using you etc etc but you want to go back to use him as some kind of nurse maid ?
It doesn’t even sound as if you love / like

Wow oh wow
Ur really going back for a tummy and hes looking after u and most probly ya money
The volume was most probley turned down he would have answered when in toilet or away from u
And as for the cheap silver ting thats a sign he dosemt value u
Why go back hot in a man means nothing if he treats u this way
In this culture if hes true to you his eyes would only wonder to you
They would have never accepted your money your gifts and they buy u with your money
As for sex they are not well endowed in that department and they think they are sex gods
They are vain and would rather take selfies off them selves to show where they have been
Has he any photos off u on his fb to show everyone your in relationship with him
Don't fool yourself u need to have the tummy tuck in this country and it seems u decided this in tunisia probley he had u feeling like this looking at other women
A man that loves u accept ur flaws and every inch off your body is beautiful to him
Don't be fooled hes a big rat and there's so many red flags at this first meeting im shocked
You didmt block his fake arse !!!

my post really triggered something in you huh? it’s okay, calm down. It doesn’t affect you in any way sweetie. Breathe.

 

[Jennie]

Jennie knows he’s a rat, she called him a narcissist, listed many of his wrongdoings. Though she still traveled to meet him and will again. She trusts him to be her caretaker and will pay everything for him as he expects.

He took thousands of dollars from her starting at the beginning of the relationship, he sent a private picture to one of her relatives when she couldn’t send more money, said he could send other pictures. Nuff said.

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

I took break to enjoy my weekend and all this time I had people in a roar haha wow

 

[Jennie]

When y’all went to Tunisia to visit your rats did they leave yall in the hotel alone for hours while they went and did their own thing or did they stay be your side the whole time?

 

[SouthernGirl]

I took break to enjoy my weekend and all this time I had people in a roar haha wow

It may be because people know better and they don’t want to see another woman running into more trouble. No one is in a roar. It’s your life and it won’t affect ours. It’s just out of care. At the end of the day, it’s your decisions but we’re here to warn you and give you advice. Going to see someone who wronged you so bad in the past doesn’t seem like a logical decision. Especially when you already know he’s not a good man.

Why screwing your life just for the attention of a younger man that you already know doesn’t have any respect and morals?

 

[Sabrina]

When y’all went to Tunisia to visit your rats did they leave yall in the hotel alone for hours while they went and did their own thing or did they stay be your side the whole time?

Mine was with me the whole time if not I would’ve been on the first flight out!!

 

[SouthernGirl]

my post really triggered something in you huh? it’s okay, calm down. It doesn’t affect you in any way sweetie. Breathe.

Please don’t talk that way. We’re not stupid. Nobody is triggered. You’re right, it doesn’t affect us. It’s a support group and we’re telling you that what you’re about to do is not a wise decision. Anybody would tell you that, even someone who doesn’t know anything about rats. Ask your friends, relatives, coworkers what they think. Noone will tell you to go ahead and go get surgery across the ocean and then be cared for by a young man met on Internet. No one, and even if they don’t know about the scamming and blackmailing part.

To answer your question from another post, yes, some women were left alone and locked out of their appartement or hotel room (that they paid for) while the rat went to party.
That’s my sincere hope you won’t live this experience but it may happen to you the same way, what are you thinking?
He’s young, he’s selfish, he doesn’t care. Why would he want to get stranded with someone who can’t move and serve her when he can enjoy himself outside, enjoy walking freely in the streets of a beautiful city, browsing stores, checking out young chicks, going to bars etc? Get real, please. It’s for your own good. Don’t think we’re negative and pessimistic. We’re trying to help you see reality as it is with rats.

 

[Moonshine1]

my post really triggered something in you huh? it’s okay, calm down. It doesn’t affect you in any way sweetie. Breathe.

Off course if u post we have a right to comment sweetie
U seriously need to consider wrve all bern through this so may I suggest u stop being so cindsending and have a little consideration in your reply
U sound a little standoffish is everything OK with u
If u need tk talk we arw all here
But dont worry about me im doung fantastic sweetie thanks for asking xxxxx big hug to you xxx

 

[Moonshine1]

When y’all went to Tunisia to visit your rats did they leave yall in the hotel alone for hours while they went and did their own thing or did they stay be your side the whole time?

Well yours didn't he sounds a right fucker haha u are seriously dilusional and mine left me once darling but my apartment was beautiful darling I could have spent the whole holiday there but my rat took me some beautiful places hun
So sorry ur talking like this maybe your a man rat in disguise hahaha or ur rat was and still is your ratshitter haha we don't know but one thing is your very strange and if u dont want to be in here may I suggest u sign yourself out hsha we won't miss u cheerio xxx

 

[Moonshine1]

When y’all went to Tunisia to visit your rats did they leave yall in the hotel alone for hours while they went and did their own thing or did they stay be your side the whole time?

Jennie u are seriously deluded take a break get your breath back and dont talk like that to these ladies ur rat is a big rat and you have big red flags flying about
But if u wanna pay a ratscum go ahead but there better gigolos less money too that will sastify your every need than a ratshitter but if you prefer to pay a rat shitter hsha go ahead darling

 

[Moonshine1]

jennie u like being used and paying a stinky ratshitter then thats up to you
Hes already taking the Miky with u if u want to be used and laughed at by the ratcrapper then its uo to you but dont come in here complain about ur ratshitter then try and be cindenseing to others it don't work hun bug hugs xxxx

 

[Butterflies]

I think there is no need to be name calling anybody here we where all once in her shoes. It's her choice if she goes back to him or not even if it is for an operation in his country . We warn women about the red flags in the relationship and who are we to say what she should do with it, there where women before who knew or at least had a suspicion he was a rat but yet went back to him. We are here to support or advice a woman not to judge her. I know I had red flags but still stayed talking to the rat and felled attacked when questioned about it. It's a journey we all went through let us atleast be nice to eachother and give support

 

[Moonshine1]

I think there is no need to be name calling anybody here we where all once in her shoes. It's her choice if she goes back to him or not even if it is for an operation in his country . We warn women about the red flags in the relationship and who are we to say what she should do with it, there where women before who knew or at least had a suspicion he was a rat but yet went back to him. We are here to support or advice a woman not to judge her. I know I had red flags but still stayed talking to the rat and felled attacked when questioned about it. It's a journey we all went through let us atleast be nice to eachother and give support

I agree but she really can't come and be condensending to us she needs to know she can't make fun off the ladies in here its not right snd I for one will not accept it
Making fun off other peoples lifes is so bad
She simply csn not speak to us like this
We ernt out iff our way to be helpful snd respectful to her
She knows her msn is a rat tne flags are waving at her
But i cant will not allow anyone to undermine or be condescenong to these ladies thats been through hell snd back and some have even died or taken their own life
She needs our help we eill help and advise her
But we can't take her words that are not good

 

[Jane]

my post really triggered something in you huh? it’s okay, calm down. It doesn’t affect you in any way sweetie. Breathe.

You’re right , this doesn’t affect me in any way and to be honest I don’t give a **** as I don’t know you. I just find it odd and frankly , stupid that on a forum for real victims , you would think this kind of behaviour is some kind of game to be played and you come to this site to tell us . Basically if playing with people and plastic surgery is your thing , do whatever the hell you want, just maybe this is the wrong forum, where women ( and some men ) have really suffered at the hands of their rats . Go play your pathetic games and have fun, sounds to me like you must have a lot of time on your hands

 

[SouthernGirl]

You’re right , this doesn’t affect me in any way and to be honest I don’t give a **** as I don’t know you. I just find it odd and frankly , stupid that on a forum for real victims , you would think this kind of behaviour is some kind of game to be played and you come to this site to tell us . Basically if playing with people and plastic surgery is your thing , do whatever the hell you want, just maybe this is the wrong forum, where women ( and some men ) have really suffered at the hands of their rats . Go play your pathetic games and have fun, sounds to me like you must have a lot of time on your hands

I don’t believe Jennie was playing any games. She just came to tell us about her plans for the next months. I found it sad though that she was annoyed by our comments and thought we were angry when we were only trying to help.

 

[Croydon girl]

You’re right , this doesn’t affect me in any way and to be honest I don’t give a **** as I don’t know you. I just find it odd and frankly , stupid that on a forum for real victims , you would think this kind of behaviour is some kind of game to be played and you come to this site to tell us . Basically if playing with people and plastic surgery is your thing , do whatever the hell you want, just maybe this is the wrong forum, where women ( and some men ) have really suffered at the hands of their rats . Go play your pathetic games and have fun, sounds to me like you must have a lot of time on your hands

And money!

 

[Astarisborn]

@Jennie, you have the right to choose what you want but I am sure you knew what exactly you would find
being on TLR.
I was one of the those women that was locked out of the apartment I rented eveyday practically, the rat went out for hours
had a good time with his friends yes you know when I asked for him to come sooner I was hungry
I was told I was a jealous one?
Jealous?? I did not come all the way to Tunisia from Canada for this kind of treatment.
You never know how rats can turn nasty on you, you are there in Tunisia and dependent on him for some things, and I am sure he knows he has that advantage
knowing the culture and language etc.
But no on can tell you what to do, its free will if you decide to go or not.
I am just a woman has experienced an abusive rat for many years, I only care that another woman does not have to go
through the same thing I did. Lots of victims have lost everything because of these cruel Tunisian rats!

 

[maybella]

my post really triggered something in you huh? it’s okay, calm down. It doesn’t affect you in any way sweetie. Breathe.

I wish youæ good luck.You go there even you know that he is a rat..Maybe there are other reasons you go there that we dont know about...Well mdont come back here and complane about how

 

[maybella]

I wish you good luck.You go there even you know that he is a rat..Maybe there are other reasons you go there that we dont know about...Well dont come back here and complane about how he treated you

 

[SouthernGirl]

I wish youæ good luck.You go there even you know that he is a rat..Maybe there are other reasons you go there that we dont know about...Well mdont come back here and complane about how

No, she can come back anytime. No one will tell her .. I told you so.

 

[Tigerpants]

Jennie knows he’s a rat, she called him a narcissist, listed many of his wrongdoings. Though she still traveled to meet him and will again. She trusts him to be her caretaker and will pay everything for him as he expects.

He took thousands of dollars from her starting at the beginning of the relationship, he sent a private picture to one of her relatives when she couldn’t send more money, said he could send other pictures. Nuff said.

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Having a new relationship and finding out he's a rat is one thing, but knowing he's a major bezness rat and going back for seconds is a calculated decision and I agree with you SouthernGirl 100%.

There are fabulous clinics worldwide to have a nip and tuck but strangely enough Tunisia would never have entered my mind and I have never read one page of media to suggest it's the go to destination for cheap surgery.
Add to that all the travel expenses to get there plus his rat fees to keep him moderately attentive and it would be probably on par with a Beverly Hills tariff

Hate to say it but stupid is as stupid does!

 

[Tigerpants]

True my rats brother beats there hell out of his gf I’m sure he didn’t treat mom like that

My rat rinsed me financially so clearly has no respect for western women yet treats his mum like she's his best friend!

 

[Tigerpants]

When y’all went to Tunisia to visit your rats did they leave yall in the hotel alone for hours while they went and did their own thing or did they stay be your side the whole time?

By my side the whole time living the Vida Loca

 

[Tigerpants]

Mine was with me the whole time if not I would’ve been on the first flight out!!

Should have gone anyway Sabrina

 

[Astarisborn]

@Jennie, you have the right to choose what you want but I am sure you knew what exactly you would find
being on TLR.
I was one of the those women that was locked out of the apartment I rented eveyday practically, the rat went out for hours
had a good time with his friends yes you know when I asked for him to come sooner I was hungry
I was told I was a jealous one?
Jealous?? I did not come all the way to Tunisia from Canada for this kind of treatment.
You never know how rats can turn nasty on you, you are there in Tunisia and dependent on him for some things, and I am sure he knows he has that advantage
knowing the culture and language etc.
But no on can tell you what to do, its free will if you decide to go or not.
I am just a woman has experienced an abusive rat for many years, I only care that another woman does not have to go
through the same thing I did. Lots of victims have lost everything because of these cruel Tunisian rats!

And to add to this, the most dangerous time for a victim is when that victim wants to leave.
Now you can say that is for relationships all over the world but these rats, they hold a ransom over your head so to speak.
They have more than one victim at the same time, you can't base it on a feeling the rats will take advantage of that trust.
The rats never let you get away for nothing.
So I put up with the rat, even the parents cornered me and the family would say something "get him a job", the rat was grinning from ear to ear
had his bags packed up ready to go, the family that pretended to care turned their backs on me.
This rat also violenty sodomized me as well (please don't judge me), and a medical professional confirmed it, this is what the Tunisian rat calls love.
Just because I was so called married to the rat did not justify his right to force me, the worst of it this rat laughed like a psycho.
It was a sham marriage, a document is missing that he tried to get me to forge when I got back to Canada.
I am in Canada there is nothing he can do here to me anymore besides the harassment, cheating, lying he had already done online.

For certain you may think this rat is harmless, or base it on what you seen on your prior trip but like I had experienced
they all seem harmless and so in love at first its all an act.
Please I ask you @Jennie there is no telling what could happen, don't you owe it to yourself and your family to be safe?


For certain the rat thought he had it all, was going to send back all he could to the family, only thing is immigration also
depends on what the sponsored rat has too that just goes to show he could never get anywhere on his own
so I know this has nothing to do with you.
I just want to show you how dangerous it could be to think it could never happen to you.
So this is just an example of what could happen if you assert yourself against a rat, always have a plan B and if you think about it lot of terrible things can happen so if you have questions already, you already know that something is wrong with this rat.

 

[Tigerpants]

This rat also violenty sodomized me as well (please don't judge me), and a medical professional confirmed it, this is what the Tunisian rat calls love.
Just because I was so called married to the rat did not justify his right to force me, the worst of it this rat laughed like a psycho.

So so sorry and glad you are safe and away from him , sending hugs x

 

[Astarisborn]

So so sorry and glad you are safe and away from him , sending hugs x

Thanks @Tigerpants, it was hard for me to describe the monster that came out in this rat.
I am not totally healed and my walls are still up in regards to having another relationship, but I am on this journey to love myself.
And yes it took counselling and so much support from members like you @Tigerpants
I am just cautious, and I am so glad to be so far away from it all.
Much love @Tigerpants and all the beautiful supportive members on here! xxxx

 

[Moonshine1]

So sad to hear this news

 

[Jennie]

I wish youæ good luck.You go there even you know that he is a rat..Maybe there are other reasons you go there that we dont know about...Well mdont come back here and complane about how

You’re right , this doesn’t affect me in any way and to be honest I don’t give a **** as I don’t know you. I just find it odd and frankly , stupid that on a forum for real victims , you would think this kind of behaviour is some kind of game to be played and you come to this site to tell us . Basically if playing with people and plastic surgery is your thing , do whatever the hell you want, just maybe this is the wrong forum, where women ( and some men ) have really suffered at the hands of their rats . Go play your pathetic games and have fun, sounds to me like you must have a lot of time on your hands

so when being rude & vile didn’t work you switched it to victims?!? okay

 

[Moonshine1]

so when being rude & vile didn’t work you switched it to victims?!? okay

No one was rude on

Oh dear me, another penniless rat!

Did he stay at The Paradise too?

Did his mum look 900 years old but was actually 50?

He has managed to be a recipient of a $3k vacay so I doubt he will get played , sounds very like my rat apart from the staring at other women bit.
Be careful with him and careful having major surgery in his country , seriously .
And as for his 'down under' performance, I bet there are numerous women here who can say the same, freakin' clueless.

Not only that half off them are gay or bisexual or have extra marital sex it's a country that they say i don't pay or give u gift unless its with your money because u got my body haha !!!
They regard u the woman to pay for all as they supply the sex and body wtf hahaha