Well, I went to Tunisia in Aug to see my rat in real life

[Aisha1]

Having a new relationship and finding out he's a rat is one thing, but knowing he's a major bezness rat and going back for seconds is a calculated decision and I agree with you SouthernGirl 100%.

There are fabulous clinics worldwide to have a nip and tuck but strangely enough Tunisia would never have entered my mind and I have never read one page of media to suggest it's the go to destination for cheap surgery.
Add to that all the travel expenses to get there plus his rat fees to keep him moderately attentive and it would be probably on par with a Beverly Hills tariff

Hate to say it but stupid is as stupid does!

I leave Tunisia for medical procedures, I don’t understand why someone from USA would willingly go there….

 

[Astarisborn]

No one was rude on

Not only that half off them are gay or bisexual or have extra marital sex it's a country that they say i don't pay or give u gift unless its with your money because u got my body haha !!!
They regard u the woman to pay for all as they supply the sex and body wtf hahaha

yes I agree at the bisexual part, because my ex-rat had a facebook page dedicated to men only said it was infamously hacked and he got rid of it.
only could not stop me from making screenshots of it, haha so his lies were futile.
what a weak defense he has?
Only got rid of it when I caught him out and then the lies as usual.
Oh to be a fly on the wall of that rat household knowing exactly the extent of just how bad it was.
Why have to pay for a low performing rat when I can get a better model where I am at?
But I intend on having a real relationship should not have to pay to be in one!!
The rats always reinventing themselves, he is a crappy rat then he is what he is and no lies can cover up the stench of these rats.
What does that say about the rats that they rent their bodies out like that?
Prostitutes come to mind and dirty minded and dirty who knows what STD's await the next victim?

 

[Chili_Peppers]

so when being rude & vile didn’t work you switched it to victims?!? okay

Sort of difficult to call yourself a victim when you knowingly went to Tunisia and slept with him AFTER he scammed you for money and attempted to blackmail you...even if you went there out of some sort of revenge, it was reckless and dangerous because you have no idea what some of those men are capable of...I found your post to be flippant and disrespectful to some of the ladies here that have suffered terribly by those [email protected]@rds....I sincerely hope that you don't really plan to return for that "tummy tuck"....this is not some sort of game and if you keep playing with fire, you will get burned....just sayin'

 

[Moonshine1]

jejj8e

yes I agree at the bisexual part, because my ex-rat had a facebook page dedicated to men only said it was infamously hacked and he got rid of it.
only could not stop me from making screenshots of it, haha so his lies were futile.
what a weak defense he has?
Only got rid of it when I caught him out and then the lies as usual.
Oh to be a fly on the wall of that rat household knowing exactly the extent of just how bad it was.
Why have to pay for a low performing rat when I can get a better model where I am at?
But I intend on having a real relationship should not have to pay to be in one!!
The rats always reinventing themselves, he is a crappy rat then he is what he is and no lies can cover up the stench of these rats.
What does that say about the rats that they rent their bodies out like that?
Prostitutes come to mind and dirty minded and dirty who knows what STD's await the next victim?

My tat too his fb was full off mren only I often wondered why!!!! thatz true not to pay in a relationship I paid for all each time I went
As soon as entered apartment he wanted it I just wanted to rest but as soon as the deed was done he smiled and said so what did u bring me gimmi gimmi sometimes i took half the gifts home because he began to sicken me wanting when got he demamded sex
When he didnt get he went in other bedroom to sleep
I thought thank god rest!!!

 

[Butterflies]

so when being rude & vile didn’t work you switched it to victims?!? okay

Hi @Jennie reading through all the posts here you must realize it's a very sensitive subject for all the ladies who where hurt by a rat. Financially, broken hearted, lied to for years, raped, abused, locked up in their house .....some committed suicide for a rat so saying you probably are going back to him, although it's for a tummy tuck, will be hard to understand for all the other members here who where scammed by their rat. Feelings can run high here at the forum as we are all in a different stage of coming to terms with the abuse of a rat. I do hope you don't go there anymore and will have your surgery elsewhere then tunisia.

 

[maybella]

Hi @Jennie reading through all the posts here you must realize it's a very sensitive subject for all the ladies who where hurt by a rat. Financially, broken hearted, lied to for years, raped, abused, locked up in their house .....some committed suicide for a rat so saying you probably are going back to him, although it's for a tummy tuck, will be hard to understand for all the other members here who where scammed by their rat. Feelings can run high here at the forum as we are all in a different stage of coming to terms with the abuse of a rat. I do hope you don't go there anymore and will have your surgery elsewhere then tunisia.

Jennie....Have a nice time in psyco-land..
Dont make me laugh out loud

 

[Moonshine1]

Jennie....Have a nice time in psyco-land..
Dont make me laugh out loud

Jennie is the reason rat culture is still alive and kicking
Hold ur head up your in for a bumpy ride to hell
You dare come to this forum to complain off a dirty spinless ratshitter then begin to think u can turn on these ladies well think again !!!
U will end up loseing everything the rat as already got his claws into you money money theres no love here its all fakery from the ratscum
Its delusional to think a rat will love u or any woman
Its the money they love snd the lifestyle you are giving them
When he's had his fun and took all he can from you you watch the rat scuttle to his next victim !! And he will leave u with nothing!!!

 

[Aisha1]

Not sure if we still talking about this, but @Jennie ive looked at a few different sites for tummy tuck out of pocket cost in USA …it range from 3000$ to 15000$…. So I will assume 6000$ Can get you what you need. So figure your flight to Tunisia from USA roundtrip depending on the airport you use ( I know you said Arkansas), Houston will be cheapest outside of NYC. 1000$-1500$, food in Tunisia for the weeks you are there $500$-700$, apartments or resort cost can range $400-$1000… of course extra add $500…. And the rat…. He will want money… so you may just be safer/ wiser financially to stay closer to home and get your procedure done. Dear, I live in Tunisia and I am scared to have my baby in the hospital and clinic…. It’s just not good health care ( very good doctors, but poor). We just don’t have adequate technology if something were to go wrong. Also , girl that 13 hour flight ride back to USA in economy will be miserable, even laying flat in business is going to be tough on your body. We just trying to tell you all this to save you a hard time.

 

[SouthernGirl]

Not sure if we still talking about this, but @Jennie ive looked at a few different sites for tummy tuck out of pocket cost in USA …it range from 3000$ to 15000$…. So I will assume 6000$ Can get you what you need. So figure your flight to Tunisia from USA roundtrip depending on the airport you use ( I know you said Arkansas), Houston will be cheapest outside of NYC. 1000$-1500$, food in Tunisia for the weeks you are there $500$-700$, apartments or resort cost can range $400-$1000… of course extra add $500…. And the rat…. He will want money… so you may just be safer/ wiser financially to stay closer to home and get your procedure done. Dear, I live in Tunisia and I am scared to have my baby in the hospital and clinic…. It’s just not good health care ( very good doctors, but poor). We just don’t have adequate technology if something were to go wrong. Also , girl that 13 hour flight ride back to USA in economy will be miserable, even laying flat in business is going to be tough on your body. We just trying to tell you all this to save you a hard time.

@Aisha1, it’s very nice of you to try to show Jennie the numbers so she can see that traveling to Tunisia for her procedure while paying everything for someone else doesn’t make sense on a financial standpoint. It was explained to her but it doesn’t look like it did anything. I hope your post will be more helpful.

I don’t know what’s in her mind, I have no idea if she even considered what was said to her or if all completely went to deaf ears but I think the latter. The nice messages were ignored. Not one reply, not even to say “thank you, I’ll think about it” or “thanks, but it’s my life, now leave me alone” lol She didn’t bother to acknowledge the blunt yet compassionate advice that were offered to her, but responded and snapped quickly to the one or two posts that were less friendly.

I can understand a victim who won’t listen warnings and advice because, as far as she, the guy she loves is all good. When a rat hasn’t shown yet a woman obvious signs and treats her well on the surface, it’s easy not to see and to disregard what other people say and to believe it’s true love. In her case, She knows, she saw it. She was very candid and honest about it.

There’s no doubt in my mind that it comes from having an extremely low self-esteem and for that, I’m sorry for her. I wish she’d get professional help so she can see she deserves better than this kind of junk for her life. Knowing the guy is a rat and still needing him and running to him shows a lack of self-worth.
@Jennie, there are better options for you out there, there is no way you should take the crap and you could have the power to say no. Think of why you engage in reckless behavior and ignore the consequences. You called him a narcissist, you have the brain to foresee the dangers but it’s like you don’t want to use it.

This is very sad to see that there are women who will willingly throw themselves in a pit fire. They don’t realize that they’ll get burned badly and that they’ll get scars for life, or do they but they don’t care? They don’t want to think deeper and are almost oblivious, like little kids who don’t have any sense of danger. Except that they’re not little kids! Jennie, please understand you put your trust in the wrong place. You can’t trust a snake. He’ll bite (again) eventually. He hurt you in the past and you still reward him. Why should he treat you right? He knows he can treat you poorly and you’ll still pay and treat him. He can pretend to be nice for a hot minute so he can get what he wants and then he’ll become again the evil person that he is. Don’t sabotage your life over someone who mocks you behind your back.

 

[Sabrina]

@Aisha1, it’s very nice of you to try to show Jennie the numbers so she can see that traveling to Tunisia for her procedure while paying everything for someone else doesn’t make sense on a financial standpoint. It was explained to her but it doesn’t look like it did anything. I hope your post will be more helpful.

I don’t know what’s in her mind, I have no idea if she even considered what was said to her or if all completely went to deaf ears but I think the latter. The nice messages were ignored. Not one reply, not even to say “thank you, I’ll think about it” or “thanks, but it’s my life, now leave me alone” lol She didn’t bother to acknowledge the blunt yet compassionate advice that were offered to her, but responded and snapped quickly to the one or two posts that were less friendly.

I can understand a victim who won’t listen warnings and advice because, as far as she, the guy she loves is all good. When a rat hasn’t shown yet a woman obvious signs and treats her well on the surface, it’s easy not to see and to disregard what other people say and to believe it’s true love. In her case, She knows, she saw it. She was very candid and honest about it.

There’s no doubt in my mind that it comes from having an extremely low self-esteem and for that, I’m sorry for her. I wish she’d get professional help so she can see she deserves better than this kind of junk for her life. Knowing the guy is a rat and still needing him and running to him shows a lack of self-worth.
@Jennie, there are better options for you out there, there is no way you should take the crap and you could have the power to say no. Think of why you engage in reckless behavior and ignore the consequences. You called him a narcissist, you have the brain to foresee the dangers but it’s like you don’t want to use it.

This is very sad to see that there are women who will willingly throw themselves in a pit fire. They don’t realize that they’ll get burned badly and that they’ll get scars for life, or do they but they don’t care? They don’t want to think deeper and are almost oblivious, like little kids who don’t have any sense of danger. Except that they’re not little kids! Jennie, please understand you put your trust in the wrong place. You can’t trust a snake. He’ll bite (again) eventually. He hurt you in the past and you still reward him. Why should he treat you right? He knows he can treat you poorly and you’ll still pay and treat him. He can pretend to be nice for a hot minute so he can get what he wants and then he’ll become again the evil person that he is. Don’t sabotage your life over someone who mocks you behind your back.

If it were me I would definitely take a loan out if need be and have it done in the USA and stay far away from the rat!

 

[March]

Mine was with me the whole time if not I would’ve been on the first flight out!!

mine was leaving for the night, he said that he needed to go to work, he even showed me his uniform so that I could believe, of course I realized that it was a hoax, I think he went to a Tunisian girl, but his brother was looking after me

 

[Sabrina]

mine was leaving for the night, he said that he needed to go to work, he even showed me his uniform so that I could believe, of course I realized that it was a hoax, I think he went to a Tunisian girl, but his brother was looking after me

Wth ladies travel that far to see these rats even if you are from UK still the thing is you don’t leave your company!!!!!

 

[Peacock]

@Aisha1, it’s very nice of you to try to show Jennie the numbers so she can see that traveling to Tunisia for her procedure while paying everything for someone else doesn’t make sense on a financial standpoint. It was explained to her but it doesn’t look like it did anything. I hope your post will be more helpful.

I don’t know what’s in her mind, I have no idea if she even considered what was said to her or if all completely went to deaf ears but I think the latter. The nice messages were ignored. Not one reply, not even to say “thank you, I’ll think about it” or “thanks, but it’s my life, now leave me alone” lol She didn’t bother to acknowledge the blunt yet compassionate advice that were offered to her, but responded and snapped quickly to the one or two posts that were less friendly.

I can understand a victim who won’t listen warnings and advice because, as far as she, the guy she loves is all good. When a rat hasn’t shown yet a woman obvious signs and treats her well on the surface, it’s easy not to see and to disregard what other people say and to believe it’s true love. In her case, She knows, she saw it. She was very candid and honest about it.

There’s no doubt in my mind that it comes from having an extremely low self-esteem and for that, I’m sorry for her. I wish she’d get professional help so she can see she deserves better than this kind of junk for her life. Knowing the guy is a rat and still needing him and running to him shows a lack of self-worth.
@Jennie, there are better options for you out there, there is no way you should take the crap and you could have the power to say no. Think of why you engage in reckless behavior and ignore the consequences. You called him a narcissist, you have the brain to foresee the dangers but it’s like you don’t want to use it.

This is very sad to see that there are women who will willingly throw themselves in a pit fire. They don’t realize that they’ll get burned badly and that they’ll get scars for life, or do they but they don’t care? They don’t want to think deeper and are almost oblivious, like little kids who don’t have any sense of danger. Except that they’re not little kids! Jennie, please understand you put your trust in the wrong place. You can’t trust a snake. He’ll bite (again) eventually. He hurt you in the past and you still reward him. Why should he treat you right? He knows he can treat you poorly and you’ll still pay and treat him. He can pretend to be nice for a hot minute so he can get what he wants and then he’ll become again the evil person that he is. Don’t sabotage your life over someone who mocks you behind your back.

Well said as usual @SouthernGirl. There really isn't anything else to add as you have covered it all.

 

[Rubee]

I think diet and exercise can get your abdomen back in shape after you have children, however it will never go back to the way it was before your children, I’ve had 3 children and 2 C-sections, one of my babies was 11lb 14 oz... big baby for my small stature!

Thru diet and exercise m very proud how my abdomen looks and I can wear a bikini , I love my Caesarian scar, is all part of being a mother and a woman

Why the hell would I Want to have a “tummy tuck” when I already gone thru the pain of 2 C- sections operations to have my kids.?

To please a man who eventually will get a younger woman?

F**k that!!

RIght.... I would look into Lazor lipo if I were her!

 

[Tigerpants]

I think diet and exercise can get your abdomen back in shape after you have children, however it will never go back to the way it was before your children, I’ve had 3 children and 2 C-sections, one of my babies was 11lb 14 oz... big baby for my small stature!

Thru diet and exercise m very proud how my abdomen looks and I can wear a bikini , I love my Caesarian scar, is all part of being a mother and a woman

Why the hell would I Want to have a “tummy tuck” when I already gone thru the pain of 2 C- sections operations to have my kids.?

To please a man who eventually will get a younger woman?

F**k that!!

The 'man' wouldn't notice if there was a huge saggy belly or a six pack, his eyes are only on the $$$$

 

[SouthernGirl]

The 'man' wouldn't notice if there was a huge saggy belly or a six pack, his eyes are only on the $$$$

Best comment, @Tigerpants!! This is the truth.

 

[Tinker-lulu]

Sort of difficult to call yourself a victim when you knowingly went to Tunisia and slept with him AFTER he scammed you for money and attempted to blackmail you...even if you went there out of some sort of revenge, it was reckless and dangerous because you have no idea what some of those men are capable of...I found your post to be flippant and disrespectful to some of the ladies here that have suffered terribly by those [email protected]@rds....I sincerely hope that you don't really plan to return for that "tummy tuck"....this is not some sort of game and if you keep playing with fire, you will get burned....just sayin'

Bravo, well said Makhadi

 

[Tinker-lulu]

Jennie....Have a nice time in psyco-land..
Dont make me laugh out loud

Yup, too right maybella, what’s going on with this person?
Doesn’t sound right to me.
Is she taking the p*ss on us ?..

 

[Moonshine1]

im sick and tired off this woman she's taking the pee with herself allowing a rat to dominate her and control her even to the mind and money , she's putting herself in danger with this ratshitter and hasn't the sense have u to realise this !!! Craziness snd stupidity comes to mind !!!
So dont come in tlr and try and make us look idiots because the only idiot is u for going back to the rat in tunisia even though u know his only tactic is to get as much money from u as he can then he will #### u off so fast u won't realise hes gone!!!!!

 

[maybella]

im sick and tired off this woman she's taking the pee with herself allowing a rat to dominate her and control her even to the mind and money , she's putting herself in danger with this ratshitter and hasn't the sense have u to realise this !!! Craziness snd stupidity comes to mind !!!
So dont come in tlr and try and make us look idiots because the only idiot is u for going back to the rat in tunisia even though u know his only tactic is to get as much money from u as he can then he will #### u off so fast u won't realise hes gone!!!!!

I will not pray for her
She deserve that rat,stupid

 

[Moonshine1]

I will not pray for her
She deserve that rat,stupid

Me neither shes read our stories and made mockery but yet she's going to be in a worse place than we ever was its her choice!!!!!!

 

[Sabrina]

im sick and tired off this woman she's taking the pee with herself allowing a rat to dominate her and control her even to the mind and money , she's putting herself in danger with this ratshitter and hasn't the sense have u to realise this !!! Craziness snd stupidity comes to mind !!!
So dont come in tlr and try and make us look idiots because the only idiot is u for going back to the rat in tunisia even though u know his only tactic is to get as much money from u as he can then he will #### u off so fast u won't realise hes gone!!!!!

Hopefully she will change her mind, she says she can barely fake a smile talking to him! We all know how they make us feel at first but she’s actually been there and seen him stare at other women who is to say he will stay and take care of her when she has surgery.. talk about vulnerable, I would not trust him not to leave her alone and go wandering they are such pigs

 

[Moonshine1]

Hopefully she will change her mind, she says she can barely fake a smile talking to him! We all know how they make us feel at first but she’s actually been there and seen him stare at other women who is to say he will stay and take care of her when she has surgery.. talk about vulnerable, I would not trust him not to leave her alone and go wandering they are such pigs

Pig they say is sn offensive word to them but what they say to us is not offensive !!!!! well they call pigs dirty what are the rats dirty
They say pigs are disgusting filthy animals so what are the rats disgusting
Pigs grunt rats grunt
Cine on tunisian mem the pigs u so hate so much are ur twins
U tunisian rats are the dirtiest pigs on this earth
You should eat pork its actually better than the lambs u kill so violently and eat while the meats so warm
So ur not as clean or intelligent as a pig !!!!
Tunisian Rats look in the mirror or better still look in your life the pug sty !!!!

 

[Sabrina]

Pig they say is sn offensive word to them but what they say to us is not offensive !!!!! well they call pigs dirty what are the rats dirty
They say pigs are disgusting filthy animals so what are the rats disgusting
Pigs grunt rats grunt
Cine on tunisian mem the pigs u so hate so much are ur twins
U tunisian rats are the dirtiest pigs on this earth
You should eat pork its actually better than the lambs u kill so violently and eat while the meats so warm
So ur not as clean or intelligent as a pig !!!!
Tunisian Rats look in the mirror or better still look in your life the pug sty !!!!

That’s why I said pigs

 

[Astarisborn]

That’s why I said pigs

well the rats are rat-pigs
ironic how the rats criticize and complain about us but they take from us
heck they even want to be us
Because i would never want to be one of them
I don't evny their living conditions, but the character of a rat leaves a lot to be desired
I mean being poor is no excuse for using other people.
Life is what you make of it, if you want something ask a family member or friend
for a job connection in your social circle.
Most of these rats already mastered their skills in fakery and scamming
why could they not put their mind and energy on self improvement the dignified way instead of using people in another foreign country?

 

[SouthernGirl]

I will not pray for her
She deserve that rat,stupid

No, she doesn’t. Nobody deserves that. She needs help.

 

[Sabrina]

well the rats are rat-pigs
ironic how the rats criticize and complain about us but they take from us
heck they even want to be us
Because i would never want to be one of them
I don't evny their living conditions, but the character of a rat leaves a lot to be desired
I mean being poor is no excuse for using other people.
Life is what you make of it, if you want something ask a family member or friend
for a job connection in your social circle.
Most of these rats already mastered their skills in fakery and scamming
why could they not put their mind and energy on self improvement the dignified way instead of using people in another foreign country?

They do what they do best they lie they cheat they blackmail when needed they are nothing more then the dirt under my feet and that’s after I have stepped in dog crap

 

[Sabrina]

That’s why I said pigs

I think this is the one and ONLY thing they have gotten out of the Quran or maybe mama taught them this

 

[Moonshine1]

Look they demand the flights when u come what you will wear how long you stay what u will bring them they infact demand everything they say u do !!!
In anythimg happens with the flight its your fault if u cant come on the day they say they will fly off handle like a denomic demon
Fucking sick off the control freaks !!!
Screaming shouting flights gi me flights u come tomorrow haha wtf wait till i get out my private jet I will fly over ffs not!!!
They are complete mental nut cases fruit loops
If u stay u will become as mental as the tunisian arabic ratshitters !!!

 

[Butterflies]

No, she doesn’t. Nobody deserves that. She needs help.

I agree @SouthernGirl. We can think she will harm herself in going again there for her tummy tuck and leave herself to the mercy of this rat but sayings she deserves this rat is harsh nobody deserves this . I don't think her intentions where to mock the experiences the other ladies had with their rats. It's a fine line in communication here on the forum. I find the words which are used the last days quite disturbing I prefer to be kinder to other women no matter what her decision is it's up to her to deal with it. It's the main reason why I am lesser at the forum.