, it’s very nice of you to try to show Jennie the numbers so she can see that traveling to Tunisia for her procedure while paying everything for someone else doesn’t make sense on a financial standpoint. It was explained to her but it doesn’t look like it did anything. I hope your post will be more helpful.
I don’t know what’s in her mind, I have no idea if she even considered what was said to her or if all completely went to deaf ears but I think the latter. The nice messages were ignored. Not one reply, not even to say “thank you, I’ll think about it” or “thanks, but it’s my life, now leave me alone” lol She didn’t bother to acknowledge the blunt yet compassionate advice that were offered to her, but responded and snapped quickly to the one or two posts that were less friendly.
I can understand a victim who won’t listen warnings and advice because, as far as she, the guy she loves is all good. When a rat hasn’t shown yet a woman obvious signs and treats her well on the surface, it’s easy not to see and to disregard what other people say and to believe it’s true love. In her case, She knows, she saw it. She was very candid and honest about it.
There’s no doubt in my mind that it comes from having an extremely low self-esteem and for that, I’m sorry for her. I wish she’d get professional help so she can see she deserves better than this kind of junk for her life. Knowing the guy is a rat and still needing him and running to him shows a lack of self-worth.
, there are better options for you out there, there is no way you should take the crap and you could have the power to say no. Think of why you engage in reckless behavior and ignore the consequences. You called him a narcissist, you have the brain to foresee the dangers but it’s like you don’t want to use it.
This is very sad to see that there are women who will willingly throw themselves in a pit fire. They don’t realize that they’ll get burned badly and that they’ll get scars for life, or do they but they don’t care? They don’t want to think deeper and are almost oblivious, like little kids who don’t have any sense of danger. Except that they’re not little kids! Jennie, please understand you put your trust in the wrong place. You can’t trust a snake. He’ll bite (again) eventually. He hurt you in the past and you still reward him. Why should he treat you right? He knows he can treat you poorly and you’ll still pay and treat him. He can pretend to be nice for a hot minute so he can get what he wants and then he’ll become again the evil person that he is. Don’t sabotage your life over someone who mocks you behind your back.