I met a Tunisian man on Instagram 1.5 years ago. At first, he lied about being 30, but soon said he was 23 and showed off his ID card. He is 30 years younger than me. I was shocked at first about his age, but he seemed like a nice and honest peasant. We chatted online for 4 months before I went to see him. Her cousin has an older wife with a foreigner with whom I dared to go and meet a man in Tunisia. In all its brevity, I have supported him financially, but now I have stopped it. I have visited Tunisia 3 times and spent the night in his parents ’home, but of course in different rooms. She wants to marry me, but I have made it clear that she will most likely never get a visa to Europe through me. He has put a lot of pictures of us on Facebook and instagram and uses our shared pictures in all of his profile pictures. Also in Whatsap. I would think these are his real accounts because there are a lot of relatives and friends there. So I am not the object of secrecy. He even gave me IDs for these accounts, which I then deleted because I thought it was wrong. I have found other fb and ig accounts with him, but it seems that they are not being used. We’ve been arguing a lot because I don’t think he’s genuine and that’s why he blocked him. Every time he makes new accounts to get in touch with me. I don’t see any flags other than red, but I’ve made it clear I won’t give any more money and the visa won’t come, and yet he wants to continue with me. I want your opinion. On the first trip we paid half the cost and on the second trip I paid almost alone. The last time he paid for all our expenses while we were there. The family is destitute and will have to pay for their older brother’s wedding soon as well as the house they are building right now. Opinions? I can tell you more details later.