Only a rat family would see their cousins foreign wife helping financially as something to try themselves!This my bf farm is in Jendouba and there comes snow last winter. It was really cold. They don't have fireplace in house. I know this animal trading too so good. Cousin in neighbour do it, but their farm is bigger cos cousin foreign wife and maybe relatives from usa are help so much. I saw this reality when I was there. There is time when it's not possible grow nothing in their fields. Every farm not have same possibilities like here in my country too. His family make so much work. Life is not so easy. I'm not stupid, I can see and understand. I believe they thought I can help with this farming like there in neighbour this foreign (older) wife
You are right, life is not easy but that is the same in many many countries but they don't all scam or romance fraud people - they have integrity and ethics unlike rats and ratty families.
He has really sung you a song that you will dance to - ask him about ex military, people that through no fault of their own find themselves homeless having to sleep rough on streets, park benches, get beaten, get abused, get peed on, lose their dignity, cannot get warm or dry.......homeless over HARSH winters and then let him tell you life isn't easy!
These rats are scum!