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Moonshine

Major Ratslayer
Thank you. I will look into it. I’m just so nervous because once you have been betrayed in such a devilish way it is almost so hard not to look at them all in the same light. I’m nowhere near prejudice it is just hard to trust when the betrayal is so bad!
The betrayl is the worst thing to overcome
Being betrayed with cheating lieing stealing shows how fucked up In head the rats are they have no conscience for anything they do to u
I read here in tlr someone saying they will Rob steal from anyone richer than themselves and the sad thing about that Is that most women work hard and save every penny to go on holiday and the rat takes advantage off that
Not caring about anything but visa marraige Dinas all supplied and paid for by you !!!
Even if they work they still refuse to pay for anything will never make u centre off attention
The only thing the rats want is them put first in everything and u will always come last
I sometimes have bad days when I think what the bastard rat did to me and I wish back then I would have walked away instead off believing he would change
Hatred is a bad worse to use but my hatred is justified 100%
 

ScaredStraight2021

Senior Rat Expert
The betrayl is the worst thing to overcome
Being betrayed with cheating lieing stealing shows how fucked up In head the rats are they have no conscience for anything they do to u
I read here in tlr someone saying they will Rob steal from anyone richer than themselves and the sad thing about that Is that most women work hard and save every penny to go on holiday and the rat takes advantage off that
Not caring about anything but visa marraige Dinas all supplied and paid for by you !!!
Even if they work they still refuse to pay for anything will never make u centre off attention
The only thing the rats want is them put first in everything and u will always come last
I sometimes have bad days when I think what the bastard rat did to me and I wish back then I would have walked away instead off believing he would change
Hatred is a bad worse to use but my hatred is justified 100%
I feel the same way! I hate him and I hate his entire family. I’ve never hated anyone in my life but I truly HATE them! My family are 100 percent justified as well! They will pay in the end and I must hold on to that. The things he did to me…the words he used to downgrade me, the mind games! Abuse is not only physical but that emotional, psychological abuse cuts so deep I am still suffering from! I don’t trust anymore and that isn’t a good feeling. I’m sad and that has never been me and looking over my shoulder ALL day because I don’t know this man! I don’t know him and everything I thought I knew was a LIE! And when he felt he had no way out the emotional turned to physical and threats. I would never ever step foot in Tunisia again! Because I know my kids and I would not return. His words. Talk about pain to do so much for someone and they threaten your life and the freedom of your children! Jesus!! I’m sorry for unloading I guess I’m having a day. Xoxo
 

Moonshine

Major Ratslayer
What is the immigration rules in the UK?
It's really hard since we came out off brexit and the rules off earnings/ savings to bring the rat here has increased
And the proof off a genuine relationship is harder too
Plus the English speaking test the rats have to take a lot are having to retake it because they failed first time around
It's not just the rules that are harder and earnings increased in England
It's what u pay too for the rat in Tunisia too
Then they get to England amd 2 more visas to pay for
Rules are earnings savings and proving its a genuine marriage/ relationship
And I will say again more tunisians than ever are being denied the visa
It's not worth paying for a visa thousands and thousands for a rat!! To leave u after 5 years!
 

ScaredStraight2021

Senior Rat Expert
It's really hard since we came out off brexit and the rules off earnings/ savings to bring the rat here has increased
And the proof off a genuine relationship is harder too
Plus the English speaking test the rats have to take a lot are having to retake it because they failed first time around
It's not just the rules that are harder and earnings increased in England
It's what u pay too for the rat in Tunisia too
Then they get to England amd 2 more visas to pay for
Rules are earnings savings and proving its a genuine marriage/ relationship
And I will say again more tunisians than ever are being denied the visa
It's not worth paying for a visa thousands and thousands for a rat!! To leave u after 5 years!
@Moonshine wow that is interesting! When getting a visa they have to take an English test? What about if they have children there? Or someone is pregnant does it get them there faster? Or did it in the past?
 

cara22

Junior Rat Expert
U mention your with a Tunisian Muslim in my country and the first thing said is why u with a visa hunter he will leave u after 5 years off u paying for everything
They only want money women sex visa and the sad thing is its true
Yes thats true,thats what they do
 

Moonshine

Major Ratslayer
I feel the same way! I hate him and I hate his entire family. I’ve never hated anyone in my life but I truly HATE them! My family are 100 percent justified as well! They will pay in the end and I must hold on to that. The things he did to me…the words he used to downgrade me, the mind games! Abuse is not only physical but that emotional, psychological abuse cuts so deep I am still suffering from! I don’t trust anymore and that isn’t a good feeling. I’m sad and that has never been me and looking over my shoulder ALL day because I don’t know this man! I don’t know him and everything I thought I knew was a LIE! And when he felt he had no way out the emotional turned to physical and threats. I would never ever step foot in Tunisia again! Because I know my kids and I would not return. His words. Talk about pain to do so much for someone and they threaten your life and the freedom of your children! Jesus!! I’m sorry for unloading I guess I’m having a day. Xoxo
I understand that's like reading my story the emotional blackmail was the worst
And the violent tantrums were bad
He demanded so much from me but wasn't willing to give anything back
The things they do and say to u is vile but u say anything back and ur the bitch .they constantly lie about u and too u .
They steal from u you know they have but can't confront them as ur alone in Tunisia
They make out you are their queen but in reality their friends relatives family know the truth
And sorry they will never say for anything they do to you
They are the most mentally impaired bunch off idiots ever on this earth
I hate them so much !!!
 

cara22

Junior Rat Expert
It's really hard since we came out off brexit and the rules off earnings/ savings to bring the rat here has increased
And the proof off a genuine relationship is harder too
Plus the English speaking test the rats have to take a lot are having to retake it because they failed first time around
It's not just the rules that are harder and earnings increased in England
It's what u pay too for the rat in Tunisia too
Then they get to England amd 2 more visas to pay for
Rules are earnings savings and proving its a genuine marriage/ relationship
And I will say again more tunisians than ever are being denied the visa
It's not worth paying for a visa thousands and thousands for a rat!! To leave u after 5 years!
Its the same in my country,so hard to get a visa. So many they cross the border to live in the neighbour country. Its much easier to have a visa there
 

Moonshine

Major Ratslayer
@Moonshine wow that is interesting! When getting a visa they have to take an English test? What about if they have children there? Or someone is pregnant does it get them there faster? Or did it in the past?
They take the test for English speaking in tunis 650 Dinas
No if u have children or the child will be born before ratty receives the visa u will have to earn an extra 3,500 per child
 

cara22

Junior Rat Expert
I understand that's like reading my story the emotional blackmail was the worst
And the violent tantrums were bad
He demanded so much from me but wasn't willing to give anything back
The things they do and say to u is vile but u say anything back and ur the bitch .they constantly lie about u and too u .
They steal from u you know they have but can't confront them as ur alone in Tunisia
They make out you are their queen but in reality their friends relatives family know the truth
And sorry they will never say for anything they do to you
They are the most mentally impaired bunch off idiots ever on this earth
I hate them so much !!!
Sorry to ask,but are you still with him?
 

Moonshine

Major Ratslayer
Sorry to ask,but are you still with him?
After what he did to me and took from me just over 7 years off the worst time in my life
I refused to marry him I knew in the end what he was about his ratty friends are the same
7 years he took from my life but I too put blame on me for staying that long!
 

cara22

Junior Rat Expert
After what he did to me and took from me just over 7 years off the worst time in my life
I refused to marry him I knew in the end what he was about his ratty friends are the same
7 years he took from my life but I too put blame on me for staying that long!
F...... shitratters,i hope one day they have to pay for all what they have done to all wimen.You are too good for him,and if we want a man in our lives,we can find it in our own countries. REAL MEN,not users and abusers
 

Moonshine

Major Ratslayer
F...... shitratters,i hope one day they have to pay for all what they have done to all wimen.You are too good for him,and if we want a man in our lives,we can find it in our own countries. REAL MEN,not users and abusers
They will never pay for what theve done but I hope I'm there when his downfalls come !!!
 

Aisha1

Major Ratslayer
@Moonshine I CANT WAIT! My day is coming and all that matters is the truth not his but the real truth. These RATS are so scared to be exposed.
@ScaredStraight2021 i read you saying that you wait for karma or truth to be shown…. These are morals that matter in western countries, this doesn’t matter in Tunisia. These guys and everyone knows what they have done and what they are doing, nobody feels sorry for you or thinks you were wronged… actually they think you deserve all what rats did to you as you asked for it. They think as a woman that called man, wanted man while Not married, flew to Tunisia, didn’t make him pay for all… In some cases have been married or involved before with other men, having already children… Tunisian/ Arabs look down on women that follow man, older and divorced ( not in all cases, but give or take). Honestly people in that culture despise western women, although they act to your face one way… they truly believe you got all you deserved and too bad the rat didn’t scam you for more. This is not my opinion… I’m just speaking for what I know of my own culture and people as harsh as it sounds. So if you think they have just a tiny bit of remorse or May one day remember what they did… never they will
 

Moonshine

Major Ratslayer
@Moonshine I CANT WAIT! My day is coming and all that matters is the truth not his but the real truth. These RATS are so scared to be exposed.
That is true I once exposed my rat on fb for cheating with messages and photos all his family cared off was the beer bottles he had drunk on the photo I had posted on fb !!!
Wtf !!!!
I can't wait for that day to come for your rat to get his cumupance your smile will be bigger than a Cheshire cat !!!
Bring it on !!!
 

Moonshine

Major Ratslayer
@ScaredStraight2021 i read you saying that you wait for karma or truth to be shown…. These are morals that matter in western countries, this doesn’t matter in Tunisia. These guys and everyone knows what they have done and what they are doing, nobody feels sorry for you or thinks you were wronged… actually they think you deserve all what rats did to you as you asked for it. They think as a woman that called man, wanted man while Not married, flew to Tunisia, didn’t make him pay for all… In some cases have been married or involved before with other men, having already children… Tunisian/ Arabs look down on women that follow man, older and divorced ( not in all cases, but give or take). Honestly people in that culture despise western women, although they act to your face one way… they truly believe you got all you deserved and too bad the rat didn’t scam you for more. This is not my opinion… I’m just speaking for what I know of my own culture and people as harsh as it sounds. So if you think they have just a tiny bit of remorse or May one day remember what they did… never they will
100% true I know that's what they think they will tell the woman to go #### it's ur fault u gave him u flew to him u allowed him to not pay that's the truth
But if u stand ur ground to the rat and say no the family will come down on u and demand u give him
 

Moonshine

Major Ratslayer
If u put it in fb and tagg him and his family u will see anger from them all for exposing him not for what he did to u
They will demand u take it down
But I would put the truth with proof off it all and his name right there I did this 2 times and it's still in my fb !!! I refused to take it away even threats from the rat didn't phase me !!!
 

Butterflies

Major Ratslayer
@ScaredStraight2021 i read you saying that you wait for karma or truth to be shown…. These are morals that matter in western countries, this doesn’t matter in Tunisia. These guys and everyone knows what they have done and what they are doing, nobody feels sorry for you or thinks you were wronged… actually they think you deserve all what rats did to you as you asked for it. They think as a woman that called man, wanted man while Not married, flew to Tunisia, didn’t make him pay for all… In some cases have been married or involved before with other men, having already children… Tunisian/ Arabs look down on women that follow man, older and divorced ( not in all cases, but give or take). Honestly people in that culture despise western women, although they act to your face one way… they truly believe you got all you deserved and too bad the rat didn’t scam you for more. This is not my opinion… I’m just speaking for what I know of my own culture and people as harsh as it sounds. So if you think they have just a tiny bit of remorse or May one day remember what they did… never they will
When I was leaving my rat and had blocked him several times his sisters tried to convince me he was an honnest man. They begged me not to abandon him and leave him without money, because he left his country and his family to come and meet me :rolleyes:
When they realized I was never going to help him again and he should take care of himself they accused me of using him :eek:
His brother, who was already living in France wanted to meet me, he was prepared to come to my city to talk about it all.... I declined the offer and blocked the entire extended family . Many of his cousins left nasty messages in my inbox and still do from time to time:sneaky:
They have no shame or remorse in trying to convince a woman, they don't care, they only think of themselves. We are used goods. Just another foreign woman.
Let it be clear ladies there's no love, no honesty, no remorse and as @Aisha1 said they don't think like we do so there's no karma either. They just move on to the next victim
 

Moonshine

Major Ratslayer
When I was leaving my rat and had blocked him several times his sisters tried to convince me he was an honnest man. They begged me not to abandon him and leave him without money, because he left his country and his family to come and meet me :rolleyes:
When they realized I was never going to help him again and he should take care of himself they accused me of using him :eek:
His brother, who was already living in France wanted to meet me, he was prepared to come to my city to talk about it all.... I declined the offer and blocked the entire extended family . Many of his cousins left nasty messages in my inbox and still do from time to time:sneaky:
They have no shame or remorse in trying to convince a woman, they don't care, they only think of themselves. We are used goods. Just another foreign woman.
Let it be clear ladies there's no love, no honesty, no remorse and as @Aisha1 said they don't think like we do so there's no karma either. They just move on to the next victim
We are all realising the rats mentalty their mental retarded shrivelled up brain cells
That honestly u woman like i was and others are only their free bank card to pay wedding engagement visa and keep them happy your happiness dosent count
They are the most arrogant fuckers in the world
If they were faced with a potential life saving situation they would leave you to save themselves I swear on this !!!
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
I almost feel as though I shouldn’t respond to anything because almost everything is lost in translation somewhere. I wasn’t saying that just because you educate you won’t fall but EVERY WOMAN is different. For me if I would have known anything regarding this being “a thing” guys scamming women I would have been more cautious and looked for warning signs but if you don’t have a clue that this is a thing then you will just think your crazy because they will make you think that way. That was what I meant about educating yourself. I don’t blame women when it happens but if you seek help and refuse to even listen or put it in a memory bank then who is more responsible? Her or him? It is like you telling someone who drank and drive not to because they could kill someone. If they do what happens? They go to jail or worse they are dead. I was taught when you know better you should do better. Not shaming anyone just saying when you learn about anything ppl then have the expectations that you should learn from those experiences (thoughts of society) That was all I was saying. But have a great day. Thanks for listening.
That's a huge reason why TLR is here - support and education is vital <3

MH x
 

Neonnurse

Major Ratslayer
@Khadija
I'm surprised that you are considering giving up your life and living in Tunisia with him.
Did you post about this on one of the wives Facebook groups as well because there was an anonymous post with an extremely similar story and style of writing and the consensus was overall that there's red flags everywhere.
Living on a poor farm in Tunisia is not going to end well. No doubt he will want you to pay for a nice apartment in a town of his choosing.
 

Moonshine

Major Ratslayer
@Khadija
I'm surprised that you are considering giving up your life and living in Tunisia with him.
Did you post about this on one of the wives Facebook groups as well because there was an anonymous post with an extremely similar story and style of writing and the consensus was overall that there's red flags everywhere.
Living on a poor farm in Tunisia is not going to end well. No doubt he will want you to pay for a nice apartment in a town of his choosing.
Or to pay to do up the farm for his family there's 95% a bad motive why they want u to live in Tunisia
I heard a story off a woman that went to live in Tunisia after 2 years she wad kicked out ended up homeless and penniless as he had scammed her for every penny he then moved in a Tunisian woman beware and take great caution.
 

Khadija

Rat Expert
@Khadija
Olen yllättynyt, että harkitset elämäsi luopumista ja asumista Tunisiassa hänen kanssaan.
Postasitko tästä myös johonkin vaimojen Facebook-ryhmään, koska siellä oli anonyymi viesti, jossa oli äärimmäisen samanlainen tarina ja kirjoitustyyli ja yksimielisyys oli yleisesti, että kaikkialla on punaisia lippuja.
Eläminen köyhällä maatilalla Tunisiassa ei tule päättymään hyvin. Epäilemättä hän haluaa sinun maksavan mukavasta asunnosta hänen valitsemassaan kaupungissa.

@Khadija
I'm surprised that you are considering giving up your life and living in Tunisia with him.
Did you post about this on one of the wives Facebook groups as well because there was an anonymous post with an extremely similar story and style of writing and the consensus was overall that there's red flags everywhere.
Living on a poor farm in Tunisia is not going to end well. No doubt he will want you to pay for a nice apartment in a town of his choosing.
Yes I posted in group too. It's only something planning and im not do nothing stupid so fast. If I will buy apartment, it will be place where I want and it's only mine. Maybe in some tourist area. I'm looking in peace what happen and I will be very carefully. Everyday I learn more their culture. I have time and he can't manipulating me to do something what I don't want. I'm so grateful your adwises dear ladies. You make good to helping woman here for your own time.
 

Moonshine

Major Ratslayer
To buy an apoartment or home in Tunisia,for only you...Really
The worst place on earth
Your choise not mine
The apartment to buy u must make clear its for ypu i was told when I was going to buy I must have a Tunisian Co signer as foreigners are not allowed to buy
That put me off and I stopped looking to buy
Don't know if it was true but i certainly wasn't buying with anyone especially the rat
 

Yvonne

Moderator
Staff member
Yes I posted in group too. It's only something planning and im not do nothing stupid so fast. If I will buy apartment, it will be place where I want and it's only mine. Maybe in some tourist area. I'm looking in peace what happen and I will be very carefully. Everyday I learn more their culture. I have time and he can't manipulating me to do something what I don't want. I'm so grateful your adwises dear ladies. You make good to helping woman here for your own time.
There are members who live there @Khadija so maybe you can join a expats in tunisia group. They can help you with advice

Yvonne x
 

Khadija

Rat Expert
The apartment to buy u must make clear its for ypu i was told when I was going to buy I must have a Tunisian Co signer as foreigners are not allowed to buy
That put me off and I stopped looking to buy
Don't know if it was true but i certainly wasn't buying with anyone especially the rat
 

Khadija

Rat Expert
It was not truth. You don't need tunisian signer if you want buy apartment or house, especially in tourist area. Foreigner is not possible buy only agriculture land in tunisia. It's good to know every details before buying.
 
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