Yes so true Aisha1, I like the phrases “as sweet as sugar “ but it can also have “sweet and sour”@shygurl72 inshAllah he is not the sheep in clothes of wolf, please be careful and alert, especially since you not new to this game. As Arab please listen, Arab men can be sweet as sugar until you accept 3 times and then it’s the nightmare, but let’s pray Allah keeps you safe and happy. You deserve to be in a good marriage and of course you can’t go throughout life thinking all men are bad, just watch for abnormalities and also as @Tinker-lulu said you must accept the “ baggage” with white heart to have a conflict free marriage ( in regards to that issue).
They can be “so sweet “ that a “bucket “ is necessary as it makes me sick lol, I can’t stand that someone can be so “sweet” yuck!!